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Posted: 8/18/2004 12:14:30 PM EST
What is the deal with this?!?

everywhere I go lately people have been staring at me, its not staring in disbelief, or staring trying to back me down (i.e. jock syndrome) just plain open-mouthed deer in the headlights stupid stare.

I used to be a punk, I had the blue hair, the purple hair, the peircings, the shirts with logos that people would ask me/ tell me about. so I am used to that, "Damn, darling look at that over there"
stare.

I've been in my share of confrontations so I know that "I'm staring you down, like the alpha dog I think I am, because I am afriad to admit to my self that you could use my ass like a $2 floor mop"

Its neither of these stares,

Its not even the Homie, tilt up or tilt down stare, "Yeah, I run with a gang, but they ain't here right now, so I'm just gonna act tougher than you, can't prove anything without my gang but if they were here, oooh boy"

I can't go to a restaurant and sit down and eat with my Girl Friend and have a pleasant dinner because some buck toothed inbred son of a bitch is staring at me. ITs hard to put it out of your mind, because then you are all wondering what they are staring at.

I try just nodding, or waving like excuse me sir, you are staring that is rude. But it doesn't work.


I just want to walk over and staart some shit and yell


WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU LOOKING AT?!?!?!?



and no I am not crazy....

well about this at least.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:17:45 PM EST
[Last Edit: 8/18/2004 12:18:20 PM EST by tac45]
I catch myself doing this all the time! Usually it's at women though.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:18:54 PM EST
Do you still dress like a punk?

If not, I don't know why.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:19:44 PM EST

Originally Posted By MagKnightX:
Do you still dress like a punk?

If not, I don't know why.



Why I don't dress like a punk?

Or why they stare?
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:20:58 PM EST
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:22:06 PM EST
Do you have any deformities? 3rd eye, ear in the middle of your forhead, concave nose? Those can attract some extended glances.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:22:56 PM EST
Maybe they're looking past you or in your general direction, and you just think they are looking at you.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:23:24 PM EST

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:
What is the deal with this?!?

everywhere I go lately people have been staring at me, its not staring in disbelief, or staring trying to back me down (i.e. jock syndrome) just plain open-mouthed deer in the headlights stupid stare.

I used to be a punk, I had the blue hair, the purple hair, the peircings, the shirts with logos that people would ask me/ tell me about. so I am used to that, "Damn, darling look at that over there"
stare.

I've been in my share of confrontations so I know that "I'm staring you down, like the alpha dog I think I am, because I am afriad to admit to my self that you could use my ass like a $2 floor mop"

Its neither of these stares,

Its not even the Homie, tilt up or tilt down stare, "Yeah, I run with a gang, but they ain't here right now, so I'm just gonna act tougher than you, can't prove anything without my gang but if they were here, oooh boy"

I can't go to a restaurant and sit down and eat with my Girl Friend and have a pleasant dinner because some buck toothed inbred son of a bitch is staring at me. ITs hard to put it out of your mind, because then you are all wondering what they are staring at.

I try just nodding, or waving like excuse me sir, you are staring that is rude. But it doesn't work.


I just want to walk over and staart some shit and yell


WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU LOOKING AT?!?!?!?



and no I am not crazy....

well about this at least.

Translation: Mo-o-om! He's looking at me again!!
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:23:42 PM EST
are you ugly or what?
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:23:43 PM EST
How about people that expect you to move out of the way for them when passing.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:24:08 PM EST

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:

Originally Posted By MagKnightX:
Do you still dress like a punk?

If not, I don't know why.



Why I don't dress like a punk?

Or why they stare?



The staring
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:24:20 PM EST
Don't ask me...but since I have your attention, what's that thing on the side of your face, anyway?
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:25:18 PM EST

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:

Originally Posted By MagKnightX:
Do you still dress like a punk?

If not, I don't know why.



Why I don't dress like a punk?

Or why they stare?



If you still dress the way you described in the post, I can't blame anybody for staring.

Sure it is rude and all, but dressing to 'get attention' will always get you attention.

If you don't dress like that, and you just behave and dress and look like a normal human being, then I have no idea what the attraction on staring is.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:26:28 PM EST
[Last Edit: 8/18/2004 12:26:49 PM EST by Ghostchild]

Originally Posted By cat_aclysm:

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:
What is the deal with this?!?

...........I just want to walk over and staart some shit and yell


WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU LOOKING AT?!?!?!?



and no I am not crazy....

well about this at least.

Translation: Mo-o-om! He's looking at me again!!



Aren't you from that Mothering.com website?

Well my mother taught me it is rude to stare.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:26:55 PM EST
I think you're just very arrogant for thinking everyone is looking at YOU.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:27:16 PM EST

Originally Posted By motown_steve:
Do you have any deformities? 3rd eye, ear in the middle of your forhead, concave nose? Those can attract some extended glances.



Do you have a glass eye, with an eagle on it? Do you tap it with a knife? Maybe that’s why they stare.



I would stare at that.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:28:35 PM EST
Maybe they remember you dressed as a punk and now are totally amazed you have turned out so well.

Either that or maybe these are men that are attracted to you??

Either excuse could be taken as a positive one.

MT

Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:28:38 PM EST
Here in Atlanta, avoid the staredown at ALL cost!!

The "tan" people hold ALL the medals!?!?!

Just some advice.



Semper Fi
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:29:00 PM EST

It's that mole by your nose..Looks like a BOOGER~`
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:30:37 PM EST

Originally Posted By Torf:

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:

Originally Posted By MagKnightX:
Do you still dress like a punk?

If not, I don't know why.



Why I don't dress like a punk?

Or why they stare?



If you still dress the way you described in the post, I can't blame anybody for staring.

Sure it is rude and all, but dressing to 'get attention' will always get you attention.

If you don't dress like that, and you just behave and dress and look like a normal human being, then I have no idea what the attraction on staring is.




+1

I gotta agree with this. You have a right to dress yourself the way you want, but other people have the right to stare at you or point and laugh at the way you dress.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:31:04 PM EST
[Last Edit: 8/18/2004 12:31:51 PM EST by cat_aclysm]

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:

Originally Posted By cat_aclysm:

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:
What is the deal with this?!?

...........I just want to walk over and staart some shit and yell


WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU LOOKING AT?!?!?!?



and no I am not crazy....

well about this at least.

Translation: Mo-o-om! He's looking at me again!!



Aren't you from that Mothering.com website?

Well my mother taught me it is rude to stare.

Mo-o-om! She's picking on me again!! Lighten up, dude.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:31:25 PM EST

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:
What is the deal with this?!?

everywhere I go lately people have been staring at me, its not staring in disbelief, or staring trying to back me down (i.e. jock syndrome) just plain open-mouthed deer in the headlights stupid stare.



I think you answered your own question with the section in blue. Are you sure that they're actually staring at you or could it be that the slack jawed mouthbreathers are just staring off into space in your direction?
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:32:56 PM EST
you got a huge boogie hangin'
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:35:59 PM EST

Originally Posted By cat_aclysm:

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:

Originally Posted By cat_aclysm:

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:
What is the deal with this?!?

...........I just want to walk over and staart some shit and yell


WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU LOOKING AT?!?!?!?



and no I am not crazy....

well about this at least.

Translation: Mo-o-om! He's looking at me again!!



Aren't you from that Mothering.com website?

Well my mother taught me it is rude to stare.

Mo-o-om! She's picking on me again!! Lighten up, dude.



Somebody just got stomped on...BY A GIRL!!
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:41:28 PM EST
Is this one of those paranoia threads?

Don't blame me...I didn't do it!
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 12:58:55 PM EST
...here is what happened to me one time....

I hate it when people stare at me, man get a life.....

Well several years ago, I was dateing a cute girl, who worked at a local pizza place. I would stop in a couple days a week, after work, say Hi, enjoy some PIE, PIZZA guys....drink a beer and visit my sweetie, and it was OK with her boss, as long as the other tables got waited on.

Well one day, I am sitting there, minding my own business drinking a beer, when some guys at another table keep looking at me, one of them would not stop.

So in between visits from my sweetie, who I was waiting for her shift to end, I had just about had enough from the other table.

So I called my GF over and tiold her to take the guya beer, and say it was from me, she grined and said oh shit this will be good..

Well she does as I asked, after telling the other wait staff to watch.

When the drink was dleivered, and she told him who it was from, when he looked over at me, I just blew him a big ole KISS AND A WINK, DAMN, you should have seen him run out of the resteraunt...DAMN that was funny, the look on his face, bet he nevered stared at someone again,
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:00:02 PM EST

Originally Posted By 1911lover:
Is this one of those paranoia threads?

Don't blame me...I didn't do it!



I'm gonna go out on a limb here and diagnose you as paranoid.

Sometimes when I think someone is staring at me I'll fake a big yawn then look around. You know how contagious a yawn is.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:01:50 PM EST

Originally Posted By cat_aclysm:

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:

Originally Posted By cat_aclysm:

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:
What is the deal with this?!?

...........I just want to walk over and staart some shit and yell


WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU LOOKING AT?!?!?!?



and no I am not crazy....

well about this at least.

Translation: Mo-o-om! He's looking at me again!!



Aren't you from that Mothering.com website?

Well my mother taught me it is rude to stare.

Mo-o-om! She's picking on me again!! Lighten up, dude.





You crack me up! If I had to be a kid again, I'd want someone like you as my mom
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:04:19 PM EST
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:04:32 PM EST
Okay - I've just read through this entire thread again, and I still don't see any explanation of WHY you think people are staring at you.



Do you dress weird? Do you have lots of obvious tattoos or piercings or stuff (or that third eye people were asking about ).

I mean, if your appearance in public is unusual, then you are INVITING people to stare - and if you appearance in public is normal, then you are PARANOID and should perhaps look into medication.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:07:16 PM EST

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:
What is the deal with this?!?

everywhere I go lately people have been staring at me, its not staring in disbelief, or staring trying to back me down (i.e. jock syndrome) just plain open-mouthed deer in the headlights stupid stare...



You are most likely extremely ugly.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:07:36 PM EST
[Last Edit: 8/18/2004 1:56:25 PM EST by sgtar15]
I always stare at fags till they leave.


SGtar15
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:08:59 PM EST
I bet you're real funny looking.
THAT must be it.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:09:51 PM EST

Originally Posted By sgtar15:
I always start at fag till they leave.


SGtar15



That made even less sense than normal Sigtar.

Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:11:02 PM EST

POST A PICTURE OF YOURSELF ALREADY !!


For once, this thread really IS worthless without pics
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:11:16 PM EST

Originally Posted By sgtar15:
I always stare at fags till they leave.


SGtar15

Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:11:30 PM EST

Originally Posted By arowneragain:

Originally Posted By cat_aclysm:

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:

Originally Posted By cat_aclysm:

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:
What is the deal with this?!?

...........I just want to walk over and staart some shit and yell


WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU LOOKING AT?!?!?!?



and no I am not crazy....

well about this at least.

Translation: Mo-o-om! He's looking at me again!!



Aren't you from that Mothering.com website?

Well my mother taught me it is rude to stare.

Mo-o-om! She's picking on me again!! Lighten up, dude.



Somebody just got stomped on...BY A GIRL!!



BUUUURN!!!

Naw I was just funnin her,

besides anyone who has an avatar of Alice from R.E. is my friend.


Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:13:16 PM EST

Originally Posted By arowneragain:

Originally Posted By cat_aclysm:

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:

Originally Posted By cat_aclysm:

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:
What is the deal with this?!?

...........I just want to walk over and staart some shit and yell


WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU LOOKING AT?!?!?!?



and no I am not crazy....

well about this at least.

Translation: Mo-o-om! He's looking at me again!!



Aren't you from that Mothering.com website?

Well my mother taught me it is rude to stare.

Mo-o-om! She's picking on me again!! Lighten up, dude.



Somebody just got stomped on...BY A GIRL!!







Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:14:08 PM EST

Originally Posted By DK-Prof:
POST A PICTURE OF YOURSELF ALREADY !!


For once, this thread really IS worthless without pics



Oh no,

If someone has a gun (photoshop)

I'm not gonna hand them bullets (pictures)

But really, I am not super attractive, but I'm not repulsive,

I just look like everyday guy.
usually wear, cargo pants and a t-shirt,
my haird is natural blonde, cut about an inch all over,

so I might not look like Joe Everyman, but I sure don't stand out.

Maybe they are staring at me wondering if i will follow the directions of the voices....

you guys can hear those right?
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:15:49 PM EST
Sorry guys, this thread will probably be buried tommorrow,

and I gotta go see why my SQL database is giving me fits...

Till Tommorrow AR15 ARMY!!!

up up and away.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:16:17 PM EST
It's the goiter


GM
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:32:11 PM EST

Originally Posted By goodmedicine:
It's the goiter


GM



Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:43:06 PM EST

Originally Posted By sgtar15:
I always start at fag till they leave.


SGtar15



man, you start drinking early again sarge?

Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:46:42 PM EST
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 1:55:46 PM EST

Originally Posted By 82ndAbn:

Originally Posted By 2IDdoc:
How about people that expect you to move out of the way for them when passing.



THAT gets me ticked. I refuse to move until someone opens their mouth. Is "excuse me" that damn difficult?



Went to the state fair this past weekend with the folks, little brother & his family. By the end of the day I was about ready to throttle dumbassed people who practically run you over while walking (while looking right at you!). A whole day of rude assed sheeple almost walking into me with only 2-3 actually having the decency to say "excuse me". I thought it was just me, since my personal space "bubble" is above average but my sister-in-law was about to go postal on the fvcktards also & she's much more restrained than I am.


The gene pool needs some chlorine.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 2:05:18 PM EST
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 3:25:25 PM EST
[Last Edit: 8/18/2004 3:31:59 PM EST by Thunderbolt]
there are several possibilities why people stare at you:

*maybe they wonder why you keep looking back at them?
*maybe you look like somebody familiar?
*maybe they are jealous when they see you with your girlfriend? young guys get jealous easily
*you look nervous and they probably notice it
*maybe they think you look weird?
*do you look or act suspicious in any way? do your eyes wander around the room and shift from left to right? like your up to something?
*could be by the body language that you are using
*could be your very insecure about something and you keep looking to see if people are starring at you?
*direct eye contact is also a sign of aggression between males [hetorosexual]


Link Posted: 8/18/2004 3:32:43 PM EST

Originally Posted By sgtar15:
I always stare at fags till they leave.


SGtar15



So how many leave, and how many think you're hitting on them?
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 3:34:08 PM EST
Just because you are paranoid, doesnt mean they are not out to get you.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 3:39:29 PM EST

Originally Posted By DK-Prof:
POST A PICTURE OF YOURSELF ALREADY !!


For once, this thread really IS worthless without pics



Please DON'T post a picture of yourself.......



We will all stare at it for hours.
Link Posted: 8/18/2004 3:50:42 PM EST

Originally Posted By RiffRandall:

Originally Posted By 82ndAbn:

Originally Posted By 2IDdoc:
How about people that expect you to move out of the way for them when passing.



THAT gets me ticked. I refuse to move until someone opens their mouth. Is "excuse me" that damn difficult?



Went to the state fair this past weekend with the folks, little brother & his family. By the end of the day I was about ready to throttle dumbassed people who practically run you over while walking (while looking right at you!). A whole day of rude assed sheeple almost walking into me with only 2-3 actually having the decency to say "excuse me". I thought it was just me, since my personal space "bubble" is above average but my sister-in-law was about to go postal on the fvcktards also & she's much more restrained than I am.


The gene pool needs some chlorine.



Maybe you shouldn't stand in the way. You sound like the people at the grocery store that bitch when I push their buggy to the end of the aisle because the assholes left it smack dab in the middle so nobody could get by.

There's always two sides to a story.
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