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Posted: 1/1/2007 3:42:20 PM EDT
So my FIL passed away last week. My SIL has been living in a trailer and property owned by former FIL and his wife. The wife of my former FIL hates my SIL guts.

The wife has put the property up for sale. For the cost of debt only.

My SIL has been burning the phones up to try and find a way for someone to foot the bill to keep her living rent free.

I hate in-laws.
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 3:45:52 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 1/1/2007 3:45:57 PM EDT
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I feel your pain.
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 3:46:46 PM EDT
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Why doesnt she just buy the property?
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 3:55:54 PM EDT
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Why doesnt she just buy the property?


didnt he just explain this?
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 3:57:48 PM EDT
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Why doesnt she just buy the property?

Maybe...because...she's...a...no-good...freeloader...?
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 3:58:25 PM EDT
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Why doesnt she just buy the property?


...Cause she is a no-good moocher who thinks that it is everyone else's responsibility to provide for her and thus has neither the means nor desire to do something as responsible as pay someone for a place to live?
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 3:59:23 PM EDT
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Why doesnt she just buy the property?

Maybe...because...she's...a...no-good...freeloader...?


She is part of the entitlement generation.
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 4:02:44 PM EDT
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Where and how much is the place???
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 4:06:51 PM EDT
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Ugh.

Sorry you're having to deal with that crap, Bama.


Thanks.

I knew this would be coming and I predicted it to the Mrs.

My SIL has been freeloading for YEARS. Fortunately she lives about an hour and half from here.

She called me the day of the viewing (actually about two hours before hand) to drive up there, pick her up, taker her to the viewing then drive her back, then I would have to drive home. I would do something like that for someone who TRULY needs it but she has a brand new car subsidized by FIL.

She's driving the Mrs crazy (and thus driving me crazy) with all the phone calls not only to us but the other extended family. She expects the Mrs to call her everyday to see how she's doing.

She has come out and asked the Mrs for us to take her in. Ain't gonna happen.

I'm really dreading the days to come.

Link Posted: 1/1/2007 4:08:12 PM EDT
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Where and how much is the place???


Rainbow City area, one acre lot, full hook ups, single wide trailer.

I think the debt is about $40,000 total.
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 4:10:50 PM EDT
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Where and how much is the place???


Rainbow City area, one acre lot, full hook ups, single wide trailer.

I think the debt is about $40,000 total.



Thanks!!  Thats a little bit more of a commute than I want to make. At that price though, it should go quick!!  Good luck with the drama queen, and I understand about not wanting to take her in.
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 4:12:21 PM EDT
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Why doesnt she just buy the property?

Maybe...because...she's...a...no-good...freeloader...?


She is part of the entitlement generation.


Not for long.

Bama - just say "no".  And mean it.  You're not obligated.  So what if she hates you?  Hate from someone like that means you're doing the right thing.  Yeah, I know it's tough, but don't give in.  People like her live to manipulate & live off others.  Don't be a doormat.
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 4:29:25 PM EDT
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Why doesnt she just buy the property?

Maybe...because...she's...a...no-good...freeloader...?


She is part of the entitlement generation.


Not for long.

Bama - just say "no".  And mean it.  You're not obligated.  So what if she hates you?  Hate from someone like that means you're doing the right thing.  Yeah, I know it's tough, but don't give in.  People like her live to manipulate & live off others.  Don't be a doormat.


Don't worry. I'm use to certain people hating me. I don't loose ANY sleep over it.

I just hate the Mrs been bombarded with all this shit.
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 4:40:40 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 1/1/2007 4:51:59 PM EDT
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If your SIL is hot and single I'll give her a place to stay. She can fix me sammiches for rent.
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 4:52:26 PM EDT
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So my FIL passed away last week. My SIL has been living in a trailer and property owned by former FIL and his wife. The wife of my former FIL hates my SIL guts.

The wife has put the property up for sale. For the cost of debt only.

My SIL has been burning the phones up to try and find a way for someone to foot the bill to keep her living rent free.

I hate in-laws.


Sorry about that crap man.  Went through this BS two years ago when my Gram, (Dad's Mother) died. She and my Pop-Pop raised me after my Mom died when I was 14.  My scumbag POS Uncle moved in with them about 10 years ago and slowly brainwashed Gram into cutting my Dad and I out of the will.  My Uncle and little punk cousin got most of her money!!  Oh well, they have to answer for their actions come judgement day.  
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 5:10:03 PM EDT
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So my FIL passed away last week. My SIL has been living in a trailer and property owned by former FIL and his wife. The wife of my former FIL hates my SIL guts.

The wife has put the property up for sale. For the cost of debt only.

My SIL has been burning the phones up to try and find a way for someone to foot the bill to keep her living rent free.

I hate in-laws.


Yep!!!
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 5:28:05 PM EDT
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Sorry you have to deal with this.





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I'm use to certain people hating me.


Oh?  Does she post in the General Discussion police threads?


Link Posted: 1/1/2007 5:33:31 PM EDT
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sometimes even those close to you try to fuck you over, especially when there is a death in the family, mostly due to economics. been there done that
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 5:35:24 PM EDT
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Sorry you have to deal with this.




+1



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I'm use to certain people hating me.


Oh?  Does she post in the General Discussion police threads?







Link Posted: 1/1/2007 5:35:34 PM EDT
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If your SIL is hot and single I'll give her a place to stay. She can fix me sammiches for rent.


Single, yes.

Hot, no. True dyke.
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 5:42:03 PM EDT
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If your SIL is hot and single I'll give her a place to stay. She can fix me sammiches for rent.


Single, yes.

Hot, no. True dyke.


A true ARFCOM challange for someone if I ever heard one................
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 5:46:43 PM EDT
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bama, you should buy it and rent it to her.  could she actually rent anywhere?  maybe bad credit, other reason?  if she were here, what would she say in her defense?
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 5:51:44 PM EDT
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sometimes even those close to you try to fuck you over, especially when there is a death in the family, mostly due to economics. been there done that


Are you kidding??  Some of the worst betrayals I've experienced were from family members!  The betrayal hurts doubly so because they are family.

Good luck Bama.  Hopefully the saga that unfolds will have some entertainment value for you.
Link Posted: 1/1/2007 6:04:47 PM EDT
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bama, you should buy it and rent it to her.  could she actually rent anywhere?  maybe bad credit, other reason?  if she were here, what would she say in her defense?


If it was offered to me at HALF the value I would not touch it.

I need less drama in my life, not more.
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