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We have to crate him while we're at work. He's a dachshund and it's a crate for a large dog. He has a soft bed, toys. We tried the leaving him loose thing... he is terribly destructive. Nothing is safe.
You crate him while at work.
You crate him while you sleep.
You crate him when you eat.
You crate him when you two want some alone time together.
When do you take him out?
Or am I misreading what you're posting?
You stopped keeping him in the crate because he's whinning too much?
I think maybe you just kept him in a crate for too much of the day.
Night should be fine , just take him for a walk or run and exercise him first.
When both of you are home there's no reason to keep him in a crate all day, if that's what's happening.
Edit to add
What the dog and both of you need are training .
It sounds like you haven't taken the time to train the dog.
I'm not trying to sound harsh but that's exactly what it sounds like.
He is only crated while we are at work. We followed all the proper steps in crate training him. Lately though we have used the crate as a punishment place. IE, if he poops in the house or something without ever having asked to go out. Then it's a "Go to your bed" while we clean it up.
Both of us work. Oscar gets up with me and we take a short walk in the morning. About an hour after getting up, we put him in his bed and head to work. He is let out immediately upon our getting home. I don't crate my dog constantly. Once in a while we put him in his crate so we can have some intimacy without him literally staring into our eyes while we do the horizontal mambo.
We only crate him when we eat on occasion. If we're eating steak or something, he continuously creeps up to our feet and starts squeaking.
He sleeps with us in our bed. He always has. I would be happy to leave him loose if it didn't involve complete destruction of everything we own.
I am open to suggestions. I try to be the firm one, but like I said... this dog is always a step ahead of me. I know there are all kinds of dominance struggles dogs will try, and I am legitimately looking for advice on how to work with him on it.
My dog is very well loved. Crating during work hours is a necessity, or I wouldn't do it at all.