An amputation is only one part of the TSGLI process. How about recovery/rehab of losing that limb? How about any coma's, hemiplegia related to the insult of the amputation. These might be seperate events "according to TSGLI"
Don't be so defensive about what someone else is awarded by TSGLI. Many soldiers I personally talk to feel "I'm not hurt near as bad as others, because I have all my parts". Some have been awarded the max, some the minimum, some in between, a few have been denied an award. It varies according to that particular injury. They aren't out to get something they are not entitled to. They aren't doing anything wrong, or unethical. Their injuries are just different than yours.
We have to keep an eye on the big picture. 6 years ago there was nothing like this available to anyone! Period!!! There were NO programs like what's available now at the end of Gulf War I. There never were any programs like this.
These programs have a built in flexibility where some get more than others. Your injury is different than others, similar to some. However we are talking about one injury, maybe you had others you were not aware you could apply for. Activities of Daily Living (ADL's) are a huge component of TSGLI. So is coma, hemiplegia, burns & all the other areas assessed on the application. These might be able to be classed as "seperate issues", which you would have to apply for individually. Remember the minimum award is $25,000.00 the max is $100,000.00.
The last part of your post, "if I sound bitter"............a lot of us feel bitter about things that have happened in the past. However, as we move past that bitterness, I for one have found a way to ensure someone else isn't screwed by the system. I have a way to assist our injured servicemembers by using the tools provided. He/she might have had someone assisting with the application process. For whatever reason, he/she was awarded the amount recieved, you will be awarded the amount you recieve. That's the reason I said, "your out of line".
My background is in the health care field. I've been directly involved with rehabilitation for the past 15 years. I know the in's/out's of federal rehabilitation programs. With my prior military & healthcare experience, I am uniquely qualified to advocate for the injured service member.
Send me an email, I'll get back to you with some specific questions and answers. Specifically directed at the ADL's section of the application. The questions/answers may be of benefit to your situation.