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Posted: 8/4/2005 7:16:21 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/16/2005 5:46:58 AM EDT by Searcherfortruth]
I'm 10 days away from the 1 yr anniversary of my ex-wife having left me for an internet Romeo. My mom says this guy did me a huge favor by stealing her away. I agree,

So my question is should I get one of those fat lady cards from Spencers, & send it to him saying thanks for solving my biggest problems?

My mom says I should, but my grandma says I shouldn't. I really want to, but I don't want to be a a**hole. By the way, my ex is 5' 7" & weighs about 275.

pole coming.
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:17:13 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/4/2005 7:18:05 PM EDT by Sniper_Wolfe]
Oh yes, most definitely do it.

I just thought about that, she weighs almost twice as much as me and I have 3 inches on her.
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:17:39 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/4/2005 7:18:20 PM EDT by NoVaGator]
in before the pole?

eta: how much did your wife weigh when you married her???
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:17:46 PM EDT
IBTP!!

And yes, do it.
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:18:20 PM EDT

Originally Posted By NoVaGator:
in before the pole?


North...or South?
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:19:51 PM EDT
the best revenge is living well, my ex ran off with my bestman just before the wedding and now I couldn't be happier, fuck them both, they're not worth your time or thoughts.
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:19:51 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/4/2005 7:20:18 PM EDT by Wash-Ar15]
No.Be an adult. Move on with your life.
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:20:32 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Searcherfortruth:
By the way, my ex is 5' 7" & weighs about 275.


This is different than when she was with you?
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:20:39 PM EDT
No, just be happy she's gone.

Shit like that just brings them back into your circle for awhile. That's never a good thing.
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:20:43 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Wobblin-Goblin:

Originally Posted By NoVaGator:
in before the pole?


North...or South?



You choose.

Today would have been our 15th anniversary. I can noe offically forget this date forever.
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:20:48 PM EDT
man, i just remember you sharing the heartburn you were feeling.......i'd just let it go.

it would be funny as crap, but no contact at all with anyone like that is the best policy.
but thats just me.....

Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:22:09 PM EDT

Originally Posted By NoVaGator:
in before the pole?

eta: how much did your wife weigh when you married her???



About 160, she was very hot. Not anymore!
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:23:57 PM EDT
I think a nice card is a great way to show you can still be an asshole sometimes.


Sgat1r5
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:26:21 PM EDT
Searcherfortruth,

In your heart, you know that is unnecessary.

Live good

GM

Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:26:38 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/4/2005 7:27:59 PM EDT by TrashHeap]
Don't do it. My revenge came sweet as she and her lover are living in a run down shack living off PA tax payers. I own a home, a car,truck and jeep. great wife and kids. She is still friends with my sister. I love the look on her face when I roll in and make like she was never part of my former life. Oh, and I like to use the uh...uh...Sheila, thats right...whew!.. I almost forgot yer name
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:27:35 PM EDT
Mothers know best...
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:32:38 PM EDT
+1 on mom
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:34:14 PM EDT
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:35:37 PM EDT
275 !!! hock.gif

Yep, huge favor, you must thank the man.
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:36:56 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Defcon:
Get on with your life already. Sheesh!



You have no idea of how I'd like to, but she is still doing her best to cause me trouble. I can't go into it right now.
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:38:22 PM EDT
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:44:36 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/4/2005 9:19:41 PM EDT by rayra]
[ 20 ] votes for " No way, that's real low class." ??

"Buncha slack-jawed faggots"



Link Posted: 8/4/2005 7:50:22 PM EDT
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 8:01:10 PM EDT
Take the high road.
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 8:11:55 PM EDT
Well, the card would be funny and well deserved. However, it will just let them know you are still thinking of them; there are better ways to 'rub it in their face'.
Link Posted: 8/4/2005 8:30:30 PM EDT
What ever happened to the good old ays where people'd wait till the middle of winter? Then take a steaming dump on the other person's car. Leaving a ncie frozen turd on their hood for awhile.



Link Posted: 8/5/2005 3:38:55 AM EDT

Originally Posted By NAM:
What ever happened to the good old ays where people'd wait till the middle of winter? Then take a steaming dump on the other person's car. Leaving a ncie frozen turd on their hood for awhile.






Oh my goodnes!
Link Posted: 8/5/2005 3:41:47 AM EDT

Originally Posted By TrashHeap:
Don't do it. My revenge came sweet as she and her lover are living in a run down shack living off PA tax payers. I own a home, a car,truck and jeep. great wife and kids. She is still friends with my sister. I love the look on her face when I roll in and make like she was never part of my former life. Oh, and I like to use the uh...uh...Sheila, thats right...whew!.. I almost forgot yer name



Now that's funny!
Link Posted: 8/5/2005 3:44:46 AM EDT
You're not over her until you can achieve an attitude of indifference towards her. Just let it go. They'll punish each other far better than you could.
Link Posted: 8/5/2005 4:00:16 AM EDT
It was actually y mothers idea, but it sounds pretty funny to me. I don't think much on her anymore.

She called to talk to my son last week & started to cry & told me she really misses me. I said oh,well
Link Posted: 8/5/2005 4:07:26 AM EDT
Good for you. This is the voice of experience: When you truly get to the point where you are indifferent to her, your life will be much better, and it will drive home to her the mistake she made.
Link Posted: 8/5/2005 4:38:53 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Johnny_Reno:
Take the high road.



^^^
Link Posted: 8/5/2005 4:42:20 AM EDT
No, just move along.
Link Posted: 8/5/2005 5:05:16 AM EDT
Send him a thank you card and send her a 10 pound box of bon bon's.
Link Posted: 8/5/2005 5:59:33 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Wash-Ar15:
No.Be an adult. Move on with your life.



+1


Link Posted: 8/5/2005 6:03:48 AM EDT
If it were ME, I wouldn't do it.

Since it's YOUR life........

Hells yeah! Do it!

If you don't you're a
Link Posted: 8/5/2005 6:08:30 AM EDT

Take the high road.


What he said.
Link Posted: 8/5/2005 6:08:49 AM EDT
Move on.
Link Posted: 8/5/2005 8:00:46 AM EDT
move on...

acknowledging shows you still think about it...

move on...
Link Posted: 8/5/2005 8:02:13 AM EDT
IBTP-
and don't do it.
Link Posted: 8/5/2005 8:24:14 AM EDT
Leave 'em be. Let sleeping dogs lie.
Link Posted: 8/5/2005 8:25:41 AM EDT
Don't be a HATER.


Just be HAPPY
Link Posted: 8/5/2005 8:29:44 AM EDT
Be the bigger person and move on with your life.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:10:29 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/7/2005 4:23:37 AM EDT by Searcherfortruth]
I'm not going to do it. Him living with her is his punishment. I need not be the salt bearer.

I also like the idea of her thinking I have forgotten her.

I had her served with a restraining order yesterday, when she came to pick up my son for her 1st weekend visitation. Now we have a court day coming up. I'm sueing her for child support, & permanantly making her visitation in my county only. She is really angry now. It ruined her plans for the weekend, & she brought him home today at 1:30 instead of 6 on Sunday.


She called me to tell me she was bringing him home early, & told me the boy told her I'm always saying I still love her, & hope we get remaried. My son is still hoping, it makes me so sad for him. I know he is the one who is being hurt the most. He got a real bad deal. No kid deserves to be from a split home.

Maybe someday I will find a new wife, but it will never be the same for him. My parents were divorced when I was 7, & I know 1st hand how he's feeling, & what he's thinking.

Any way, it's the high road to China for me.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:14:59 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Wash-Ar15:
No.Be an adult. Move on with your life.



+1
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:16:30 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter:
Move on.



+1

275...Damn

Thats a lot of Ho-ho's!!
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 8:57:30 PM EDT
I just tipped the scale to the no-s favor. Let the dead dog lie. It could bite you in the kister later. Just look forward and go on.

Over & out.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 9:36:04 PM EDT
Wait until all of your court BS is settled and THEN send the card
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 9:37:29 PM EDT
Foxtrot India...Fcuk IT!
Send him a thank you card... i would...
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 9:47:01 PM EDT
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 11:00:52 PM EDT
Best revenge is not to give a shit about her anymore... think of the time and effort you are using to get a card, write what you want and mail it... let it go.
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