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Posted: 3/3/2006 12:21:38 AM EDT
Last time I talked to her was about 1:45 AM, she was rather drunk.  She said they were getting naked and getting in the hot tub.  Should I be worried?

She still has to drive home.  Should I tell her to just stay there and not risk driving?  Not sure what effect the hot tub will have on her drunk level.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:23:52 AM EDT
[#1]
Um...

WTF?
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:23:53 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:24:27 AM EDT
[#3]

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your girlfriend is naked with some other guy, drunk, and in a hot tub? And you are worried about her driving home? Hedonist?



I never said it was a guy.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:25:11 AM EDT
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your girlfriend is naked with some other guy, drunk, and in a hot tub? And you are worried about her driving home? Hedonist?



I never said it was a guy.



Why are you sitting at home? GET OVER THERE
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:25:31 AM EDT
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your girlfriend is naked with some other guy, drunk, and in a hot tub? And you are worried about her driving home? Hedonist?



I never said it was a guy.



we know you didnt... but he is there....
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:26:01 AM EDT
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your girlfriend is naked with some other guy, drunk, and in a hot tub? And you are worried about her driving home? Hedonist?



I never said it was a guy.



Why are you sitting at home? GET OVER THERE



And bring chips!
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:26:17 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:26:32 AM EDT
[#8]
worst...thread...ever
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:27:50 AM EDT
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your girlfriend is naked with some other guy, drunk, and in a hot tub? And you are worried about her driving home? Hedonist?



I never said it was a guy.



Why are you sitting at home? GET OVER THERE



And bring chips!



And post pics.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:28:36 AM EDT
[#10]

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well, you said it was a date. If it's another woman, i think you may be missing out on a "Dear Penthouse" moment....

TJ
Recon 3/187th



RAKKASAN!!!

This is the first time they're meeting face to face, or face to whatever.  So it's just them tonight.  
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:29:02 AM EDT
[#11]
No, don't worry.  I'm takeing good care of her.

She's quite a little dancer!
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:29:19 AM EDT
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well, you said it was a date. If it's another woman, i think you may be missing out on a "Dear Penthouse" moment....

TJ
Recon 3/187th



RAKKASAN!!!

This is the first time they're meeting face to face, or face to whatever.  So it's just them tonight.  




She is no longer your girlfriend.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:30:55 AM EDT
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well, you said it was a date. If it's another woman, i think you may be missing out on a "Dear Penthouse" moment....

TJ
Recon 3/187th



RAKKASAN!!!

This is the first time they're meeting face to face, or face to whatever.  So it's just them tonight.  




She is no longer your girlfriend.



All your girlfrenz are belonging to us.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:30:55 AM EDT
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well, you said it was a date. If it's another woman, i think you may be missing out on a "Dear Penthouse" moment....

TJ
Recon 3/187th



RAKKASAN!!!

This is the first time they're meeting face to face, or face to whatever.  So it's just them tonight.  




She is no longer your girlfriend.



It's no big thing.  We're cool like that.  
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:31:47 AM EDT
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well, you said it was a date. If it's another woman, i think you may be missing out on a "Dear Penthouse" moment....

TJ
Recon 3/187th



RAKKASAN!!!

This is the first time they're meeting face to face, or face to whatever.  So it's just them tonight.  




She is no longer your girlfriend.



It's no big thing.  We're cool like that.  



If thats the case, ill take her out saturday night
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:32:57 AM EDT
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well, you said it was a date. If it's another woman, i think you may be missing out on a "Dear Penthouse" moment....

TJ
Recon 3/187th



RAKKASAN!!!

This is the first time they're meeting face to face, or face to whatever.  So it's just them tonight.  




She is no longer your girlfriend.



It's no big thing.  We're cool like that.  



If thats the case, ill take her out saturday night



I will take Sunday night.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:33:08 AM EDT
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It's no big thing.  We're cool like that.  



If thats the case, ill take her out saturday night



Clarification, we're cool like that with the girl thang.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:34:38 AM EDT
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It's no big thing.  We're cool like that.  



If thats the case, ill take her out saturday night



Clarification, we're cool like that with the girl thang.




Who said I was a guy?
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:35:07 AM EDT
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It's no big thing.  We're cool like that.  



If thats the case, ill take her out saturday night



Clarification, we're cool like that with the girl thang.



FieroLoki IS a girl
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:35:54 AM EDT
[#20]

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Um...

WTF?

Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:36:07 AM EDT
[#21]

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It's no big thing.  We're cool like that.  



If thats the case, ill take her out saturday night



Clarification, we're cool like that with the girl thang.




Who said I was a guy?




She doesn't do Tyler chicks.  
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:36:50 AM EDT
[#22]

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It's no big thing.  We're cool like that.  



If thats the case, ill take her out saturday night



Clarification, we're cool like that with the girl thang.




Who said I was a guy?




She doesn't do Tyler chicks.  




I only work in Tyler.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:40:43 AM EDT
[#23]

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your girlfriend is naked with some other guy, drunk, and in a hot tub? And you are worried about her driving home? Hedonist?



I never said it was a guy.



Why are you sitting at home? GET OVER THERE


+1

She's naked, wet and drunk.....her girlfriend probably is too..... best time for you !!

No Expert
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:42:05 AM EDT
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It's no big thing.  We're cool like that.  



If thats the case, ill take her out saturday night



Clarification, we're cool like that with the girl thang.




Who said I was a guy?




She doesn't do Tyler chicks.  




I only work in Tyler.



She does have a weakness for Canadians.  Don't ask me.  I was like, "WTF, Canadians?  What makes them sexy?  How do you even know by looking at them?"
She said, "I don't know, I just think Candadians are hot!".  
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:43:19 AM EDT
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It's no big thing.  We're cool like that.  



If thats the case, ill take her out saturday night



Clarification, we're cool like that with the girl thang.




Who said I was a guy?




She doesn't do Tyler chicks.  




I only work in Tyler.



She does have a weakness for Canadians.  Don't ask me.  I was like, "WTF, Canadians?  What makes them sexy?  How do you even know by looking at them?"
She said, "I don't know, I just think Candadians are hot!".  




Im good eh'.  LOL!!!


Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:46:08 AM EDT
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your girlfriend is naked with some other guy, drunk, and in a hot tub? And you are worried about her driving home? Hedonist?



I never said it was a guy.



Why are you sitting at home? GET OVER THERE


+1

She's naked, wet and drunk.....her girlfriend probably is too..... best time for you !!

No Expert

Link Posted: 3/3/2006 12:50:01 AM EDT
[#27]

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Now that would just get me banned!!!
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 1:14:16 AM EDT
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www.ncds.us/xscuseless.gif



Now that would just get me banned!!!





IM or email.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 1:20:25 AM EDT
[#29]
your values are in the shitter if you do "the open relationship" thing.  

She doesnt respect you. And I suspect that you are hooked, addicted to the poon. Thats why you allow this to happen. Its time to get your spine back, be a man! Ditch that bitch!
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 1:22:00 AM EDT
[#30]

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your values are in the shitter if you do "the open relationship" thing.  

She doesnt respect you. And I suspect that you are hooked, addicted to the poon. Thats why you allow this to happen. Its time to get your spine back, be a man! Ditch that bitch!



WTF are you talking about?  You have no idea.  Seriously, you have NO idea.  

ETA
ALLOW this to happen?  Hell, this is my dream situation!  She loves girls, I love girls that love girls, she finally has someone that accepts her for what she is and loves it about her.  Nobody is taking advantage of anyone, we're just both taking advantage of being with another that has the same preferences/likes.  I was married 9 years prior to this relationship, and in 9 months I feel more in touch and connected with this girl than I EVER was with my ex.  And FYI, my ex and I are still GREAT friends, and she knows about the girlfriend situation, and she is totally ok with it and understands it.  She knows I'm happier now than I ever was with her.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 1:24:45 AM EDT
[#31]

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your values are in the shitter if you do "the open relationship" thing.  

She doesnt respect you. And I suspect that you are hooked, addicted to the poon. Thats why you allow this to happen. Its time to get your spine back, be a man! Ditch that bitch!



Or start apprenticing under TheWind.  
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 1:30:34 AM EDT
[#32]

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your values are in the shitter if you do "the open relationship" thing.  

She doesnt respect you. And I suspect that you are hooked, addicted to the poon. Thats why you allow this to happen. Its time to get your spine back, be a man! Ditch that bitch!



WTF are you talking about?  You have no idea.  Seriously, you have NO idea.  



LOL, yea ok man.  She is only doing other people because she is unsatisfied with YOU.  The only reason she still comes back to you is for a feeling of security, whether its your money she likes or the fact that you are just there for her to fall back on.  She likes other peoples dicks and/or poons, realize that and you will figure out your place in the relationship.

Link Posted: 3/3/2006 1:32:59 AM EDT
[#33]

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your values are in the shitter if you do "the open relationship" thing.  

She doesnt respect you. And I suspect that you are hooked, addicted to the poon. Thats why you allow this to happen. Its time to get your spine back, be a man! Ditch that bitch!



WTF are you talking about?  You have no idea.  Seriously, you have NO idea.  



LOL, yea ok man.  She is only doing other people because she is unsatisfied with YOU.  The only reason she still comes back to you is for a feeling of security, whether its your money she likes or the fact that you are just there for her to fall back on.  She likes other peoples dicks and/or poons, realize that and you will figure out your place in the relationship.




LOL, whatever.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 1:33:58 AM EDT
[#34]
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 1:35:14 AM EDT
[#35]

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images.animanga.nu/fanart/1964/pwned.jpg




Whatever that was supposed to be, check the link or give a warning.  Led to a porn site, my get someone in trouble if they click on it at work.  

Edited to make link dead.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 1:50:56 AM EDT
[#36]
Yea,  this looks like a GREAT relationship, she's out getting her snog scrogged by who knows who and your home feeling so low that you decide to post about it online.

Just to clarify,

Shes out naked, and drunk.

You, at home trying to brag about being at home while shes out naked and drunk.



Do they still make dunce caps??
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 1:54:06 AM EDT
[#37]

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your values are in the shitter if you do "the open relationship" thing.  

She doesnt respect you. And I suspect that you are hooked, addicted to the poon. Thats why you allow this to happen. Its time to get your spine back, be a man! Ditch that bitch!



WTF are you talking about?  You have no idea.  Seriously, you have NO idea.  



LOL, yea ok man.  She is only doing other people because she is unsatisfied with YOU.  The only reason she still comes back to you is for a feeling of security, whether its your money she likes or the fact that you are just there for her to fall back on.  She likes other peoples dicks and/or poons, realize that and you will figure out your place in the relationship.




Gas is right man.  I kinda avoided commenting on the situation, but, FWIW.....

Mrs Goon is Bi.  Always has been.  
I knew about it
before we got married.

She and I both consider being with ANY other person as being unfaithful.

If you guys don't want to be exclusive, that's cool, but don't
try to make yourself believe that because it's girl/girl that
it's not being with another person.

Being bi gives you no more right to see other people than
being straight.

Link Posted: 3/3/2006 1:57:37 AM EDT
[#38]

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Yea,  this looks like a GREAT relationship, she's out getting her snog scrogged by who knows who and your home feeling so low that you decide to post about it online.

Just to clarify,

Shes out naked, and drunk.

You, at home trying to brag about being at home while shes out naked and drunk.



Do they still make dunce caps??



I'm not feeling low, and I'm not bragging.  Was slow in here, sounded like a good thread to keep things going.  I'm not asking for people to judge or slam their beliefs on me.  Y'all need to lighten up a bit.    But then again, I guess down deep inside I shoulda known the holier than thou's would show up eventually.  
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 2:00:27 AM EDT
[#39]

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your values are in the shitter if you do "the open relationship" thing.  

She doesnt respect you. And I suspect that you are hooked, addicted to the poon. Thats why you allow this to happen. Its time to get your spine back, be a man! Ditch that bitch!



WTF are you talking about?  You have no idea.  Seriously, you have NO idea.  



LOL, yea ok man.  She is only doing other people because she is unsatisfied with YOU.  The only reason she still comes back to you is for a feeling of security, whether its your money she likes or the fact that you are just there for her to fall back on.  She likes other peoples dicks and/or poons, realize that and you will figure out your place in the relationship.




Gas is right man.  I kinda avoided commenting on the situation, but, FWIW.....

Mrs Goon is Bi.  Always has been.  
I knew about it
before we got married.

She and I both consider being with ANY other person as being unfaithful.

If you guys don't want to be exclusive, that's cool, but don't
try to make yourself believe that because it's girl/girl that
it's not being with another person.

Being bi gives you no more right to see other people than
being straight.




This is the first time she's ever gone out with someone without me there, and it was just cuz the other girl was apprehensive.  All other times I have been there.  And now, cuz of tonight, we're going out this weekend.  This isn't an all the time thing.  Tonight was just the first time I haven't been there, so it hit me, my girlfriend is on a date.  lol.  People that don't understand, can't and never will.  Those of you that do, do.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 2:00:48 AM EDT
[#40]

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Yea,  this looks like a GREAT relationship, she's out getting her snog scrogged by who knows who and your home feeling so low that you decide to post about it online.

Just to clarify,

Shes out naked, and drunk.

You, at home trying to brag about being at home while shes out naked and drunk.



Do they still make dunce caps??



I'm not feeling low, and I'm not bragging.  Was slow in here, sounded like a good thread to keep things going.  I'm not asking for people to judge or slam their beliefs on me.  ]Y'all need to lighten up a bit.    But then again, I guess down deep inside I shoulda known the holier than thou's would show up eventually.  



You DO know you're on ARFCOM, right?
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 2:03:17 AM EDT
[#41]
Actually it looks like your the first person to bring up religion.

I am not talking religion, I am talking about people treating one another with respect.  And whether you admit it or not, she is not giving you any respect tonight.

And if I had to guess, she pretty much runs the show in your relationship and your holding on because she has convinced you it's really cool.

anyhow,  

If your cool with the way things are then more power to you, but it might be time for some introspective thought.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 2:04:29 AM EDT
[#42]

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You DO know you're on ARFCOM, right?



LOL, yep.  Another reason I posted this.  I know for some guys here the closest they get to sex are the BOTD threads.  Thought I'd spice it up a bit.  
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 2:06:47 AM EDT
[#43]

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Actually it looks like your the first person to bring up religion.

I am not talking religion, I am talking about people treating one another with respect.  And whether you admit it or not, she is not giving you any respect tonight.

And if I had to guess, she pretty much runs the show in your relationship and your holding on because she has convinced you it's really cool.

anyhow,  

If your cool with the way things are then more power to you, but it might be time for some introspective thought.



Wrong.  I run the show.  I actually set this date up.  Met the girl, talked to her, arrainged the night.  And I do think it's really cool.  Always have.  She convinced me of nothing.

And using the phrase "holier than thou" is not a reference to religion.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 2:07:40 AM EDT
[#44]


This is the first time she's ever gone out with someone without me there, and it was just cuz the other girl was apprehensive.  All other times I have been there.  And now, cuz of tonight, we're going out this weekend.  This isn't an all the time thing.  Tonight was just the first time I haven't been there, so it hit me, my girlfriend is on a date.  lol.  People that don't understand, can't and never will.  Those of you that do, do.



It should be a "never the time" thing if you guys are planning on haveing an exclusive
relationship.

I'm not judgeing you or anything...What I'm saying is that you guys do NOT have
an exclusive relationship if one or the other is seeing other people sexually.

Actually, most people that have responded to this actually DO undertand all to well
what's going on, based on what you've shared.

If you want a"swinger" type of open relationship, then, it's all good.

Just be warned that it does not take a girl long to extrapilate sex with a girl
out to sex with a different guy.  I can almost hear the back and forth
argument now.

Don't worry, when you guys split we'll be here to knock your dick in the dirt
err....kick you while you're down  Errr.... Be supportive and helpful.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 2:08:53 AM EDT
[#45]

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Actually it looks like your the first person to bring up religion.

I am not talking religion, I am talking about people treating one another with respect.  And whether you admit it or not, she is not giving you any respect tonight.

And if I had to guess, she pretty much runs the show in your relationship and your holding on because she has convinced you it's really cool.

anyhow,  

If your cool with the way things are then more power to you, but it might be time for some introspective thought.



Link Posted: 3/3/2006 2:10:07 AM EDT
[#46]

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your girlfriend is naked with some other guy, drunk, and in a hot tub? And you are worried about her driving home? Hedonist?



I never said it was a guy.



Why are you sitting at home? GET OVER THERE



And bring chips a camera!!




better yet
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 2:12:18 AM EDT
[#47]

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It should be a "never the time" thing if you guys are planning on haveing an exclusive
relationship.



We do have an exclusive relationship.  We love ONLY each other.  Just because we don't toe the company line as to the "accepted" idea of what a relationship should be does not make it wrong.  At least not for us.  Just like gun control isn't the right approach for most on this board, a sexually restrictive relationship isn't the correct approach for us.
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 2:13:00 AM EDT
[#48]

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Actually it looks like your the first person to bring up religion.

I am not talking religion, I am talking about people treating one another with respect.  And whether you admit it or not, she is not giving you any respect tonight.

And if I had to guess, she pretty much runs the show in your relationship and your holding on because she has convinced you it's really cool.

anyhow,  

If your cool with the way things are then more power to you, but it might be time for some introspective thought.




i42.photobucket.com/albums/e328/bamahoochi2005/snap.jpg



Not really
Link Posted: 3/3/2006 2:52:28 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/3/2006 3:19:48 AM EDT
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