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Posted: 9/26/2005 6:52:05 PM EDT
And she was amazing. Smart, funny, interesting, we have a ton in common. She has a beautiful face, but she is a little chunky. Maybe 5-5 and 170lbs. I am 5-10 and 185lbs so im just an average size guy. I am 28, have always gone for super skinny hotties and they have all been shallow and boring. I meet an amazing girl, and we totally click and she is kinda overweight. Is it possible to get over the stigma of dating a fat chick?
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Last guy who asked that got dumped by the "fat chick"...
If you like her, why even ask? Eric |
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if you can get her to start working out with you, in 3 months you will have your own nympho on your hands.
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Unless she is a balloon then you are not going out with a fat chick. Nothing you have said indicates that she is more than a little chunky. If you cannot see past her being a bit overweight for her height, then don't even start this. |
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I love it how people are so insecure they have to tell you how they HAVE dated numerous hotties and DON'T like fat chicks, but just happen to want to date one. If she is unhealthy I wouldn't date her, but if she is active and just has a few extra pounds that may or may not come off with a bit more exercise, go for it.
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Date her, and go on active dates in a few weeks, like hiking, make her healthy food at picnics.
She will get more fit, and you never have to mention her weight. Start the relationship out with healthy habits and you will both feel better. ....and hit it. |
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Most women put on more weight as they age. Just keep that in mind.
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Maybe you should ask LordTrader. I hear he's versed on the subject. Oh, and go watch 'Shallow Hal'.
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Forget the skinny hotties; 90percent are shallow superficial bad-tempered women.
As you get older, you realize the most attractive women are the ones that are just damn pleasant to be around. If it's 10-20 extra pounds that turn you off, take a look in the (metaphorical) mirror and make sure you aren't the shallow and superficial one. Not trying to be snotty; just fucking tired of a pop culture that says chicks have to look like 15yo boys to be sexy. That's not sexy; that's homoerotic. Fuck that shit. |
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"Transitions" weight management system. I had a coworker lose 65 lbs in 6 months.
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"Transitions" weight management system. I had a coworker lose 65 lbs in 6 months.
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I like my "girls" with curves. Overweight/obese is disgusting.....
However, if you're happy.. then you're happy. |
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better a little to much than not enough
dont like bones pokin me |
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[sideways] fat chicks really appreciate it man [/sideways]
Relax 9mm4me, EVERYONE porks a fat chick at some point in their lives |
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on the other hand, good looks/hot bodies can disappear fast over the years, then you're stuck with a nasty, shallow chick. good quality women only get better with time; like a good wine. |
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Fixed it for ya |
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I guess it really makes me think about what I want to be happy.
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5'5" and 170 is more than "a little chunky"
Nothing wrong with a woman that has a few extra pounds - most wear it well. However, the problem is that some women that start out with 50 extra pounds usually go in one direction after they find themselves in a secure relationship/marriage. That direction is omnidirectionally outward. Your decision. |
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if you marry it will grow. and im not tlaking about your third member. Date her get her skinny then hope she doesnt dump you
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remember fat chicks are easy, but they do have a good sense of humor to make up for there...ahem
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Let me be the first to say... I have dated hotties. in fact, thats all I've dated. But damn I've fucked a few fatties in my day. |
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my rule is "thick is good as long as there proportion. no flat chested pear shapes, and no fat rolls" aside from that its fair game. there is NO sexual fury like a chick who used to be fat. a chick who went from 180lbs to a size 9 will be like youre own private porn star, with a shade of exhibitionist thrown in. i say go for it.
after all you guys got along. and thats really what its all about |
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Simply by posting this topic it seems you have a problem with it.
Can't blame you, I'd be less than likely to date a woman that weighed close to the same as I do at half my height. Fat people that are great people are fat, great people. I guess I'm just shallow that way. The good Lord isn't done with me yet. |
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Why dont you both go work-out together. it is kinda telling her on the down-low to work out and excersise.
you can get leaner and more defined, she can evolve into hotness. |
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I think I love you. |
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+1 |
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What's her mother look like ?
Granted it isn't 100% , but she resembles her mother in looks . It is a good bet |
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Bumper Sticker: "I may be fat, but you're ugly.....and I can diet." Think about it. HH |
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Did you actually read what you wrote?!?! Whats wrong with you? A little chunky?! Big deal.....chics can loose weight, they just need the motivation. |
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That is precisely the point I was trying to make. |
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Find out her eating habits. If all she eats is junk food, and hates to exercise, then she doesn't take care of herself. If she eats well but is overweight, then there's hope.
When I was growing up, my dad would remind me how beautiful this certain girl "Mary" would grow up to be. I kept in touch with her. On a bike ride in HS, we were riding past her house in the country, and he said, "Schulze, I was talking with Mary's mom the other day at church, and she said, 'Mary doesn't like to exercise. She hates to sweat.'" Few years later I saw her, and yep, obese-nasty. |
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She also has a bachelors degree, her own house and has her shit together. 25 yrs old, no kids, never married.
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Are you convincing us or convincing yourself? |
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I dunno man, I just can't stop thinking about how cool she was. Easily the most interesting girl I have met in the last 3 yrs. I am gonna see where this goes, I really did like her.
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Try taking her on some sort of active date like a hike or bike ride, and see how she does. Some girls I know just don't like going to the gym, but like to do general activity. If you hit it off, she might just drop a few pounds. Just don't expect too much. If she is a couch potato, then she is only going to get worse.
Personally, I like a chick with a little more meat on the bones. It is a thin line between chunky and fat. |
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show her this post. if she still wants to be with you RUN!!! she is insecure and overflowing with mental problems. if she dumps you like yesterdays garbage then you will have learned your well deserved lession about being a shallow ass and letting a great woman get away.
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We're going to have to see pictures - to render a truely meaningful opinion.
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true some bigger girls look ok, some I can't stand. Course that goes for smaller girls as well.
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Use tinypic! Sorry, couldn't help myself. |
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Sounds like your spidersense is telling you she's too good to be true, fat or not. Move along.
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She probably isn't very good in the sack then. Guys will put up with a little extra weight for a little extra in the bedroom, or so I've heard... |
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Do you want contentment, or exitement? You won't get contentment, if you demand excitement. That's one I know for sure. I also bet you'll not lay on your deathbed and hate that you spent your life with a good person who wasn't a model, but I bet you would regret letting her go for a few months spent with a skinny, shallow person. |
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Dude, why are you asking us? if you have the hesitation, then walk away. Are we the ones who fuck her? No. Are we the ones who take her out? No. Are we the ones who have to be seen with her? No. It sounds like your not comfortable with her weight. So dont date her!! |
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