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Posted: 9/26/2005 6:52:05 PM EDT
And she was amazing. Smart, funny, interesting, we have a ton in common. She has a beautiful face, but she is a little chunky. Maybe 5-5 and 170lbs. I am 5-10 and 185lbs so im just an average size guy. I am 28, have always gone for super skinny hotties and they have all been shallow and boring. I meet an amazing girl, and we totally click and she is kinda overweight. Is it possible to get over the stigma of dating a fat chick?
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 6:53:28 PM EDT
Last guy who asked that got dumped by the "fat chick"...

If you like her, why even ask?

Eric
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 6:53:34 PM EDT
Hit it. Marry it. Give it children.

Lather. Rinse. Repeat.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 6:54:26 PM EDT
Overweight does not equal fat.

Link Posted: 9/26/2005 6:54:44 PM EDT
if you can get her to start working out with you, in 3 months you will have your own nympho on your hands.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 6:56:09 PM EDT

Originally Posted By 9mm4me:
And she was amazing. Smart, funny, interesting, we have a ton in common. She has a beautiful face, but she is a little chunky. Maybe 5-5 and 170lbs. I am 5-10 and 185lbs so im just an average size guy. I am 28, have always gone for super skinny hotties and they have all been shallow and boring. I meet an amazing girl, and we totally click and she is kinda overweight. Is it possible to get over the stigma of dating a fat chick?




Unless she is a balloon then you are not going out with a fat chick. Nothing you have said indicates that she is more than a little chunky. If you cannot see past her being a bit overweight for her height, then don't even start this.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 6:56:14 PM EDT
Just don't confuse attraction with desperation!
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 6:56:44 PM EDT
I love it how people are so insecure they have to tell you how they HAVE dated numerous hotties and DON'T like fat chicks, but just happen to want to date one. If she is unhealthy I wouldn't date her, but if she is active and just has a few extra pounds that may or may not come off with a bit more exercise, go for it.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 6:56:53 PM EDT
The more sex you have with her the more weight she will lose
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 6:57:02 PM EDT
Date her, and go on active dates in a few weeks, like hiking, make her healthy food at picnics.
She will get more fit, and you never have to mention her weight. Start the relationship out with healthy habits and you will both feel better.

....and hit it.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:00:06 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/26/2005 7:00:22 PM EDT by pyro6988]
Most women put on more weight as they age. Just keep that in mind.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:00:12 PM EDT
Where are the pictures?
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:00:56 PM EDT
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:01:29 PM EDT
Forget the skinny hotties; 90percent are shallow superficial bad-tempered women.

As you get older, you realize the most attractive women are the ones that are just damn pleasant to be around. If it's 10-20 extra pounds that turn you off, take a look in the (metaphorical) mirror and make sure you aren't the shallow and superficial one.

Not trying to be snotty; just fucking tired of a pop culture that says chicks have to look like 15yo boys to be sexy. That's not sexy; that's homoerotic. Fuck that shit.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:02:09 PM EDT
"Transitions" weight management system. I had a coworker lose 65 lbs in 6 months.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:02:41 PM EDT
"Transitions" weight management system. I had a coworker lose 65 lbs in 6 months.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:07:48 PM EDT
I like my "girls" with curves. Overweight/obese is disgusting.....

However, if you're happy.. then you're happy.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:11:51 PM EDT
better a little to much than not enough


dont like bones pokin me
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:12:12 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/26/2005 7:12:42 PM EDT by Lockedon]
[sideways] fat chicks really appreciate it man [/sideways]


Relax 9mm4me, EVERYONE porks a fat chick at some point in their lives


Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:12:26 PM EDT

Originally Posted By pyro6988:
Most women put on more weight as they age. Just keep that in mind.



on the other hand, good looks/hot bodies can disappear fast over the years, then you're stuck with a nasty, shallow chick.

good quality women only get better with time; like a good wine.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:14:39 PM EDT

Originally Posted By pyro6988:
Most women people put on more weight as they age. Just keep that in mind.



Fixed it for ya
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:16:57 PM EDT
I guess it really makes me think about what I want to be happy.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:28:37 PM EDT
5'5" and 170 is more than "a little chunky"

Nothing wrong with a woman that has a few extra pounds - most wear it well.

However, the problem is that some women that start out with 50 extra pounds usually go in one direction after they find themselves in a secure relationship/marriage. That direction is omnidirectionally outward.

Your decision.

Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:37:35 PM EDT
if you marry it will grow. and im not tlaking about your third member. Date her get her skinny then hope she doesnt dump you
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:41:30 PM EDT
remember fat chicks are easy, but they do have a good sense of humor to make up for there...ahem
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:41:47 PM EDT

Originally Posted By enigma2y0u:
I love it how people are so insecure they have to tell you how they HAVE dated numerous hotties and DON'T like fat chicks, but just happen to want to date one. If she is unhealthy I wouldn't date her, but if she is active and just has a few extra pounds that may or may not come off with a bit more exercise, go for it.



Let me be the first to say...

I have dated hotties. in fact, thats all I've dated.
But damn I've fucked a few fatties in my day.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:43:56 PM EDT
my rule is "thick is good as long as there proportion. no flat chested pear shapes, and no fat rolls" aside from that its fair game. there is NO sexual fury like a chick who used to be fat. a chick who went from 180lbs to a size 9 will be like youre own private porn star, with a shade of exhibitionist thrown in. i say go for it.

after all you guys got along. and thats really what its all about
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:44:01 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/26/2005 7:46:31 PM EDT by Mauser101]
Simply by posting this topic it seems you have a problem with it.

Can't blame you, I'd be less than likely to date a woman that weighed close to the same as I do at half my height. Fat people that are great people are fat, great people. I guess I'm just shallow that way.

The good Lord isn't done with me yet.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:46:46 PM EDT
Why dont you both go work-out together. it is kinda telling her on the down-low to work out and excersise.
you can get leaner and more defined, she can evolve into hotness.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:48:10 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/26/2005 8:19:04 PM EDT by SP1Grrl]
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:48:10 PM EDT
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:51:45 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/26/2005 7:52:07 PM EDT by gvidon212]

Originally Posted By enigma2y0u:
If she is unhealthy I wouldn't date her, but if she is active and just has a few extra pounds that may or may not come off with a bit more exercise, go for it.



+1

Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:54:06 PM EDT
What's her mother look like ?

Granted it isn't 100% , but she resembles her mother
in looks . It is a good bet
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:54:41 PM EDT
Dunno, didn't meet her mom yet.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:58:07 PM EDT

Originally Posted By 9mm4me:
And she was amazing. Smart, funny, interesting, we have a ton in common. She has a beautiful face, but she is a little chunky. Maybe 5-5 and 170lbs. I am 5-10 and 185lbs so im just an average size guy. I am 28, have always gone for super skinny hotties and they have all been shallow and boring. I meet an amazing girl, and we totally click and she is kinda overweight. Is it possible to get over the stigma of dating a fat chick?



It was before you told us.

Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:58:14 PM EDT

Originally Posted By 9mm4me:
And she was amazing. Smart, funny, interesting, we have a ton in common. She has a beautiful face, but she is a little chunky. Maybe 5-5 and 170lbs. I am 5-10 and 185lbs so im just an average size guy. I am 28, have always gone for super skinny hotties and they have all been shallow and boring. I meet an amazing girl, and we totally click and she is kinda overweight. Is it possible to get over the stigma of dating a fat chick?

j

Bumper Sticker:

"I may be fat, but you're ugly.....and I can diet."

Think about it.

HH
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 7:58:19 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/26/2005 8:02:10 PM EDT by Boom_Stick]

Originally Posted By 9mm4me:
And she was amazing. Smart, funny, interesting, we have a ton in common. She has a beautiful face, but she is a little chunky. Maybe 5-5 and 170lbs. I am 5-10 and 185lbs so im just an average size guy. I am 28, have always gone for super skinny hotties and they have all been shallow and boring. I meet an amazing girl, and we totally click and she is kinda overweight. Is it possible to get over the stigma of dating a fat chick?



Did you actually read what you wrote?!?! Whats wrong with you? A little chunky?! Big deal.....chics can loose weight, they just need the motivation.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 8:00:29 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/26/2005 8:01:58 PM EDT by Mauser101]

Is it possible to get over the stigma of dating a fat chick?



It was before you told us.




That is precisely the point I was trying to make.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 8:03:50 PM EDT
Find out her eating habits. If all she eats is junk food, and hates to exercise, then she doesn't take care of herself. If she eats well but is overweight, then there's hope.

When I was growing up, my dad would remind me how beautiful this certain girl "Mary" would grow up to be. I kept in touch with her. On a bike ride in HS, we were riding past her house in the country, and he said, "Schulze, I was talking with Mary's mom the other day at church, and she said, 'Mary doesn't like to exercise. She hates to sweat.'" Few years later I saw her, and yep, obese-nasty.

Link Posted: 9/26/2005 8:05:38 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/26/2005 8:06:13 PM EDT by 9mm4me]
She also has a bachelors degree, her own house and has her shit together. 25 yrs old, no kids, never married.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 8:07:59 PM EDT

Originally Posted By 9mm4me:
She also has a bachelors degree, her own house and has her shit together. 25 yrs old, no kids, never married.



Are you convincing us or convincing yourself?
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 8:09:34 PM EDT
I dunno man, I just can't stop thinking about how cool she was. Easily the most interesting girl I have met in the last 3 yrs. I am gonna see where this goes, I really did like her.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 8:10:35 PM EDT
Try taking her on some sort of active date like a hike or bike ride, and see how she does. Some girls I know just don't like going to the gym, but like to do general activity. If you hit it off, she might just drop a few pounds. Just don't expect too much. If she is a couch potato, then she is only going to get worse.

Personally, I like a chick with a little more meat on the bones. It is a thin line between chunky and fat.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 8:11:38 PM EDT
show her this post. if she still wants to be with you RUN!!! she is insecure and overflowing with mental problems. if she dumps you like yesterdays garbage then you will have learned your well deserved lession about being a shallow ass and letting a great woman get away.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 8:13:45 PM EDT
We're going to have to see pictures - to render a truely meaningful opinion.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 8:15:09 PM EDT
true some bigger girls look ok, some I can't stand. Course that goes for smaller girls as well.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 8:17:25 PM EDT

Originally Posted By double_trouble_2003:
We're going to have to see pictures - to render a truely meaningful opinion.




Use tinypic!

Sorry, couldn't help myself.

Link Posted: 9/26/2005 8:23:59 PM EDT
Sounds like your spidersense is telling you she's too good to be true, fat or not. Move along.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 8:28:21 PM EDT

Originally Posted By 9mm4me:
She also has a bachelors degree, her own house and has her shit together. 25 yrs old, no kids, never married.



She probably isn't very good in the sack then. Guys will put up with a little extra weight for a little extra in the bedroom, or so I've heard...
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 8:34:39 PM EDT

Originally Posted By 9mm4me:
I guess it really makes me think about what I want to be happy.



Do you want contentment, or exitement?

You won't get contentment, if you demand excitement. That's one I know for sure.

I also bet you'll not lay on your deathbed and hate that you spent your life with a good person who wasn't a model, but I bet you would regret letting her go for a few months spent with a skinny, shallow person.
Link Posted: 9/26/2005 8:35:55 PM EDT

Originally Posted By 9mm4me:
She also has a bachelors degree, her own house and has her shit together. 25 yrs old, no kids, never married.



Dude, why are you asking us?

if you have the hesitation, then walk away.

Are we the ones who fuck her? No.
Are we the ones who take her out? No.
Are we the ones who have to be seen with her? No.

It sounds like your not comfortable with her weight. So dont date her!!
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