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Posted: 1/25/2002 7:58:27 PM EDT
SO, me and my wife are in the tub, being cuddly( [vomit] ), and our 3 yr old daughter)who was SUPPOSED to be in bed) walks in on us, and when she spies us in the tub, she procedes to undress, saying "I want to get in the bath". While this is going on, we are having a good laugh. Then I look at the wife and say ok. The wife thinks we can emotionally scar our daughter doibng this. What do you think?? This is the first time our daughter has walked in on us like this. [smoke]
Link Posted: 1/25/2002 8:09:09 PM EDT
"Fine, you can get in the bath, but we're getting out." You can then go have sex in her room while she's having fun in the bath. Win-Win radioman
Link Posted: 1/25/2002 8:20:21 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/25/2002 8:22:19 PM EDT by thebeekeeper1]
Link Posted: 1/25/2002 9:10:11 PM EDT
got to stay cool, dont wanat to upset the child[;)] could scar her for life! Actually just tell her there isnt a lot of room for three and have mom put her back in bed...pat
Link Posted: 1/25/2002 9:19:52 PM EDT
We should ban all bathtubs....FOR THE CHILDREN! That way..nothing like this could ever happen! medcop
Link Posted: 1/25/2002 11:06:13 PM EDT
Link Posted: 1/26/2002 7:30:34 AM EDT
Damn, some of you people are prudes! The kid is 3! She just wanted in on the fun, whatever it was. Being "affectionate" in front of a toddler is [i]not[/i] a bad thing. [i]Doin' the nasty[/i] is. And, I think, if you were still [i]able[/i] to "do the nasty" after she walked in on you, either your d**k has no conscience, or you were on Viagra. Mommy should have gotten up, explained that "mommy and daddy were playing, and you need to go to bed", and put her to bed. If you let her into the tub with you; A) that must be some tub, and B) it isn't going to "scar her" - for most toddlers, playing in the bathtub is what they [i]do[/i]. Man, the Puritans had more of an effect on this country than we accused them of.
Link Posted: 1/26/2002 7:33:02 AM EDT
Hydguy - I would have said the same. They grow up too fast - enjoy them being toddlers while you can. Innocent - no emotional scarring. Now when the kid's a little older, a different story in my opinion. We aren't too "reserved" in my house. The wife (stepmom) doesn't run around undressed since our son is reaching the "girls are cool" age. My son (11) is comfortable running around the house in his underwear, but feels uncomfortable going outside in our neighborhood without a shirt on. His "nakedness" values sound good to me - same as mine are. Tate
Link Posted: 1/26/2002 7:57:39 AM EDT
I had a co-worker whose sister-in-law freaked at the doctors office when she found out her daught was starting puberty. Start yelling and getting emotional while the doctor was trying to explain the situation to the girl. Talk about messing up a little girl. How is she to understand what going on when her mother is freaking out instead of being supportive.
Link Posted: 1/28/2002 3:41:43 AM EDT
Lock the door!.....Always.
Link Posted: 1/28/2002 6:40:34 AM EDT
But at three your daughter knows nothing and has no incling of those things. All she sees is MOMMY DADDY WATER FUN FUN FUN! Literally Benjamin
Link Posted: 1/28/2002 3:07:35 PM EDT
careful, my earliest memories go back to about that age.
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