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Posted: 1/24/2006 5:24:22 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/24/2006 5:24:56 PM EDT by PeteCO]


This ought to get some interesting responses. A friend of mine is on the rebound from being dumped and asked me this question. Since I got married before dating sites appeared on the internet I thought I'd refer it to you.....experts.

What say you Arfcom?
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:25:26 PM EDT
LOL



TAG!
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:25:50 PM EDT
Craigslist.
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:25:58 PM EDT
hot or not

or myspace
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:26:20 PM EDT
interesting.

I have to see where this goes.
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:26:46 PM EDT
Got some more viagra, didn't you?
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:28:09 PM EDT
A friend told me www.adultfriendfinder.com.

Kharn
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:28:33 PM EDT
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:29:48 PM EDT

Originally Posted By FieroLoki:
....myspace



Yep, it seem like most hot women have a homepage @ myspace, I talked to a Lambo model at Lambo USA and she was like, "do you have a myspace?" Heck, NO.

I do have a lowly homepage and photobucket though...
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:29:55 PM EDT
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:30:14 PM EDT
Holy shit. I retract my suggestion: AFF is definitely the winner, here.
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:31:23 PM EDT
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:33:20 PM EDT

Originally Posted By walrus:
www.erectpenisoncheek.com


Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:33:27 PM EDT
~http://www.Democratic Underground.com/

Those chicks will believe anything you tell them *

*As long as he doesn't mind vapid conversation, lack of hygiene, shrieking, and excessive arm hair...
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:34:26 PM EDT

Originally Posted By walrus:
www.erectpenisoncheek.com



people are getting slow - it took 11 posts!
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:34:34 PM EDT
Sexy Ads

I thought maybe you had a stash of Viagra you needed to use and your wife was worn out.
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:35:23 PM EDT
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:39:29 PM EDT

Originally Posted By bastiat:
Got some more viagra, didn't you?



I do have some, but I don't think my wife would appreciate me looking for skanks on the web.
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:41:16 PM EDT
Perfect, guys. I just got dumped 2 weeks ago after a 3.5 yr relationship.
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:43:30 PM EDT
Looking for the dick on the cheek type?
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:44:45 PM EDT
By the way, this thread reminds me of the "Dating" section on Stormfront posted here on Arfcom about 6 months ago. Some SCARY fucking people on that forum, for damn sure.
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:56:39 PM EDT
Who cares about this shitag
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 5:57:33 PM EDT
oooo, this outa be good!
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 6:05:37 PM EDT

Originally Posted By ScottS:
shitag



Link Posted: 1/24/2006 6:08:28 PM EDT
Lots of interesting chicks of all ages on AFF. Also a lot of porn site trolls.
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 6:13:43 PM EDT
Brides.ru
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 6:15:52 PM EDT
IBTL...

I asked about these dating services that pop-up on some sites and somehow dig right in and know where you are from and throw up pictures of the skanks in your area.

I asked if any single guys on this site had any experience using one of them... and el locko. Never saw that thread again.
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 6:21:01 PM EDT
trainwreck tag
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 6:22:23 PM EDT
sexsearch.com
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 6:26:17 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/24/2006 6:26:39 PM EDT by Not_so_Clever]
Knock it off dammit - this is a serious, need-to-know type thread.

Libidos are at stake here!

Link Posted: 1/24/2006 6:27:29 PM EDT

Originally Posted By FieroLoki:
hot or not

or myspace



Mhmm.
Big plus one on myspace.
Not even a pay site.
So many girls who put out on that site it is not even funny.
At the least you will get some dirty pictures.
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 6:29:53 PM EDT
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 6:30:58 PM EDT

Originally Posted By PeteCO:


This ought to get some interesting responses. A friend of mine is on the rebound from being dumped and asked me this question. Since I got married before dating sites appeared on the internet I thought I'd refer it to you.....experts.

What say you Arfcom?



It depends on the friend--can he write a good ad? Is he good looking? Is he in shape or a fattie? How high are his standards? If he has low standards, or no standards it shouldn't be tough for him to score nookie off of Craigslist or myspace, or just trolling yahoo profiles in his locale.

Link Posted: 1/24/2006 6:32:27 PM EDT

Originally Posted By pathfinder74:
IBTL...

I asked about these dating services that pop-up on some sites and somehow dig right in and know where you are from and throw up pictures of the skanks in your area.

I asked if any single guys on this site had any experience using one of them... and el locko. Never saw that thread again.



The way those sites do it, I think is the look up your IP address and what town the IP address is from and then they send you ads based on that. I take my laptop on the road and if I am in another city, all of a sudden, the ads come up for that particular city.
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 6:33:44 PM EDT

Originally Posted By N_Viejo:

Originally Posted By PeteCO:


This ought to get some interesting responses. A friend of mine is on the rebound from being dumped and asked me this question. Since I got married before dating sites appeared on the internet I thought I'd refer it to you.....experts.

What say you Arfcom?



It depends on the friend--can he write a good ad? Is he good looking? Is he in shape or a fattie? How high are his standards? If he has low standards, or no standards it shouldn't be tough for him to score nookie off of Craigslist or myspace, or just trolling yahoo profiles in his locale.




He's in great shape (at least compared to my fat ass), low standards (for now at least), piss poor writing skills.
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 6:40:18 PM EDT
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 6:44:46 PM EDT

Originally Posted By cmjohnson:
You're kidding, of course.


Any guy's odds of actually getting some WORTHWHILE action off of ANY of those sites is pretty low.

Men outnumber women ten to one on those sites. Women who are on those sites can be presumed
to be abnormal in most cases as no decent woman should have to resort to an online "dating" site.

If you do get action, it'll be from a woman who is not beautiful, sane, and even remotely monogamous.
Far more likely you'll get an ugly fat slut with a mental condition. Or at best, a woman who has one or more of those attributes which makes her a tough date but an easy lay.


There are so few good women on those sites and so many men who've already tried to pick them up.
It's not worth it.

Really.

You'd do better to save the dues you'd pay to the site for a year's worth of access, and then take
that money to the local brothel and pick the prettiest girl there.

The difference is, that way you'd have gotten some NICE pie, while the dating site wouild not
have delivered results of comparable quality.

CJ



There's an idea - an escort. Like I said his standards are so low that anything with a pulse is likely to be fine with him, but I'd hate to see him take advantage of that type of sluttiness and pick up a fucking STD or something.
Link Posted: 1/24/2006 10:32:13 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/24/2006 10:36:00 PM EDT by Arbiter]
I ended up dating a woman for two years I met from Lavalife.

www.adultfriendfinder.com

www.alt.com

www.lavalife.com

Link Posted: 1/24/2006 10:40:53 PM EDT
AFF is mostly dudes and couples. You have a better chance of getting in a threesome with a married couple than meeting a single girl there. Of course, that violates the One-Dick Rule.

Sexsearch doesn't have any real people on it, just computer generated chicks that write nonsensical emails. Don't bother.



Tell him to go to a bar instead.
Link Posted: 1/25/2006 1:20:47 AM EDT
Well, I've got the balls to admit it. I've been using Cupid.com

I've had a reasonable amount of success, too.

Since I hit the skids with my fiance, I gave it go. I wasn't looking for anything really, just something to pass the time and fuck around on the computer.

Thus far, I've gone out with 2 women I've met, and have been corresponding with a 3rd.

There are some decent people to be met in cyberspace. You just have to be willing to wade through copious amounts of bullshit to find them. They aren't all abnormal.

Of the three I've agreed to meet/talk to, one is reasonably attractive, the other two are stunners. All three are gainfully employed, and do not appear to have any major skeletons in the closet (one of them is a lady cop which is kinda cool if you ask me).

It is a lot easier to get to know someone like that online compared to picking up some broad in a bar.
You can find out what that person is like before you even meet them, and if you don't like what you see/hear, then you just move on to the next one.

First dates are less stressful, too because you already have an idea of what the person is like, and you don't have the awkward conversational pauses where you are trying to think of something witty to say.

When you know what the person likes, you can also plan a better date. Dinner and a movie are so cliche. If she likes hiking, you can plan a short daytrip on a trail, or maybe go climb a rockwall.

I say go for it. Stay away from the skank sites, though. As it has been pointed out, those sites are saugage fests. No decent woman would use them, and those that do probably have pussies that would be like throwing a hot dog down a hallway. Wore out and beat up.

I've also met more women just doing day to day stuff. If your friend is good looking, then he already has an inroad. If a good looking guy stirkes up a conversation with a woman, she is more likely to give him a moment or two to make his pitch. All he needs is a little confidence. Once you realize that you will probably never see this person again if she shoots you down, you care less about what she thinks, and you will have the confidence to be forward enough to take the first shot.

My ex is insane with jelousy. She expected me to sit at home and pine away for her. I have a growing stack of phone numbers on my desk. There are a couple that I don't remember where I got them. I have them from school, I've gotten them from the grocery store, you name it.

My ex gave me a gift card to Barnes and Noble for Christmas. I went to use it today, and she went with me to help me pick out a book. She wanted to go, and I let her. I was hoping to get a little tail from her (you know what they say about sex with the ex) afterward, but she ended up leaving in a huff because while she was looking at a book, I was getting the phone number of the girl working the Starbucks counter inside B&N.

So, go ahead, and use the online sites, but he should still be meeting women the old fashioned way, too. All he needs is a smile, a little intestinal fortitude, a clean shirt, and honesty. Women can small bullshit like a fart in a car. If you're honest with her, and she doesn't like you, then she isn't for you anyway. If you bullshit her, and she falls for it, she will figure it out, and she will dump your sorry ass. Whats worse, women talk to each other. Piss off too many in your zip code and you'll get black balled, and you'll have to spend hard earned money on gas to go to the next town to find untainted trim.
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