It disturbs me of those who use their Religion to excuse their laziness or even bad behavior. They seem to not take responsibility for themselves.
I believe Jesus empowers me to do what is right. I also believe he pushes me to my limits and then some to better myself... however, if things don't work out the way I had hoped, I have 2 options
1) Give up
2) Try again
I follow a quote that states ; "You only fail when you stop trying". Obviously there are some things that you cannot continue to try at and succeed... but for most things if you are that passionate about it, continue forward. If you have a goal, continue forward but try another way of obtaining that goal.
I know too many people, that once their first attempt failed they throw up their hands and say "Well, I guess Jesus didn't want me to do this.." or "Jesus will find another way for me, I'll just give up for now".
It makes me go ; '
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I tell them to continue to push forward, put their faith in Jesus.. but you need to do it yourself, not rely on him to do it for you, he will give you the strength.
The other side that upsets me is when people do bad things... to either themselves (drugs is a big one), or others and use the excuse "We're not perfect, Jesus will forgive me". As if that is an excuse for their behavior.
I dated a girl for a bit that put her faith into Jesus, and proclaimed it all the time.
When it came time to get a car... she got a vehicle that was way outside of her budget. So much out of her budget that her parents chipped in a huge amount (that she has to pay back), but it'll put a huge dent in her being able to get out on her own for at least 1 - 2 years (something that she also wants very badly). She was thanking Jesus up and down for the ability to get the vehicle. When asked what happens if her financial situation would change, her response was "Well, Jesus will protect me."
I am very blessed to have the things I have in my life... family, friends, good job, good health etc. I worked very hard for everything I have because when things didn't work out the first time, I pushed till I reached my goal. I know Jesus was the one helping me push myself, but I didn't give up when the problems started. I took responsibility for my actions, I made them right knowing Jesus would forgive me once I did... not shrug it off.
Am I alone in this?