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Posted: 12/23/2004 8:50:33 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/4/2005 6:11:51 PM EDT by DrFrige]
... And she doesnt come back home until 5:15 AM. What do you do?

Friend's wife did this last night. So what say YOU!
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 8:51:27 PM EDT
Something is up, get someone to follow her next time.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 8:51:46 PM EDT
its cool, ill just slip a gps tracker and surprise her next time.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 8:52:39 PM EDT
Maybe you take the babysitter home next time. MAXXXXXX
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 8:53:34 PM EDT
We need some details, is the babysitter a he or she, how old, and do you have a place to hide a body?
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 8:53:55 PM EDT

Originally Posted By DrFrige:
... And she doesnt come back home until 5:15 AM. What do you do?

Friend's wife did this last night. So what say YOU!




What Gender, and Age is the baby sitter?
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 8:54:33 PM EDT
What excuse was offered??? Where there pics?
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 8:57:41 PM EDT
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:00:39 PM EDT
Better question would be what if HE pulled that crap, what would she say???

Unacceptable with a good explanation.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:00:52 PM EDT
Go all CSI on her panties!

Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:01:08 PM EDT
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:01:58 PM EDT

Originally Posted By DrFrige:
... And she doesnt come back home until 5:15 AM. What do you do?

Friend's wife did this last night. So what say YOU!



Ask her for seconds???


SGatr15
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:02:22 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Langadune:
What excuse was offered??? Where there pics?



Due to my friend preparing for his father's heart bypass surgery, he didnt go into details with her... Just the old "Where the hell were you??" but the babysitter is Female and 18.

He called me after his dad's surgery which went well, I asked him then, Where the hell was she?

He said I dont know but Im gonna pry now.

All Im saying is that I hope he gets his balls back BEFORE she leaves his ass.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:02:34 PM EDT
Get a shovel.


Start beating ass with it.

Rinse.

Repeat.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:04:18 PM EDT

Originally Posted By DrFrige:

Originally Posted By Langadune:
What excuse was offered??? Where there pics?



Due to my friend preparing for his father's heart bypass surgery, he didnt go into details with her... Just the old "Where the hell were you??" but the babysitter is Female and 18.

He called me after his dad's surgery which went well, I asked him then, Where the hell was she?

He said I dont know but Im gonna pry now.

All Im saying is that I hope he gets his balls back BEFORE she leaves his ass.



Sad but sounds like he my need to get his balls back and leave her ass. Given the circumstances...it smacks of all kinds of wrong.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:05:37 PM EDT


If she never offered a legitimate excuse, it's usually the first sign of an affair.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:06:54 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/23/2004 9:08:24 PM EDT by Cape_hunter]
Edited out..... Staying out of this.
CH
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:08:33 PM EDT
Its hard to picture a good excuse for her no matter how hard I try. N othing good will come about this situation.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:08:52 PM EDT
sounds like his wife switched teams
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:10:13 PM EDT
Yes, she does have a cell phone and he was trying to call her every 10-15 minutes. Mind you they also have 2 small children at home.

Oh and again with the ----->
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:11:05 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/23/2004 9:11:44 PM EDT by DrFrige]

Originally Posted By Cape_hunter:
Edited out..... Staying out of this.
CH



WHY??? WHAT DO YOU KNOW?????????
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:12:56 PM EDT
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:15:17 PM EDT

Originally Posted By GUNGUY1911:
Go all CSI on her panties!



Mrs Dr Frige here...yep that smiley is completely approriate if you have seen this guys wife






Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:15:36 PM EDT
Cheating women are just like cancer. By the time you see it for what it is it's been going on for some time and there's not much left for you to do but make your arangements. The sooner you face that the better off you'll be.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:29:12 PM EDT
I'm not sure what she was up to but I'm pretty sure it was not good (for a married woman with two small kids at home)
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:33:39 PM EDT
That would spell the end of it for me. Or anyone sensable. Take the kids and go.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:35:51 PM EDT
She's a whore. I've got a friend who's wife bangs everyone and he's clueless. SOme people are too stupid for their own good. Tell him to wise up.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:45:05 PM EDT
Change the locks
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:52:09 PM EDT
She's cheating or a closet drug addict.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 9:52:40 PM EDT
Maybe she's batman
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 10:03:09 PM EDT
it's so easy and cheap to covertly spy on someone using todays available technology. GPS, Voice Activated Recorder in Car, Simply checking the car milleage, Hire someone, There's even software you can use that covertly logs all activity on your computer so that you can see everything she types and does on the computer when you're not around. Marriage and Family is the biggest investment you make in your life, and you need to protect it and yourself at any and all costs. Keep turning a blind eye, and you may be very unpleasantly suprised one day, and you'll have no recourse of action. Hopefully, she's doing nothing wrong whatsoever and you're just being paranoid, but chances are, from what you describe, something fishy's going on. Don't hesitate another minute.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 10:06:23 PM EDT
UFO abduction??
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 10:09:32 PM EDT
probably plotting to take hime out with the help of her new boyfriend, or maybe she wanted to see the sunset over the pacific
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 10:11:26 PM EDT
Would seem to me that a woman that is at the point of shoving this in the guy's face by disappearing for six hours is someone who has been screwing around for a while and has reached the point where she's ready to leave her husband. Contrary to the way a guy would do it, and usually continue to screw the other woman, as well as try to keep the marriage together at the same time. (not always, but odds are better)

She has come to terms with ending the marriage due to whatever reason, to be with the other person (notice I didn't say guy). Maybe she figured out she's been on the wrong team all this time and it has now to come her.


VJ
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 10:31:08 PM EDT
Wow, that's a difficult one to face in your life. What makes it unacceptable is the total lack of an explanation. I mean, if I didn't come home one night I would arrive with at least an explanation of where the hell I was and why.

Example:

Drug my ass in at 4:30.

"Well, Steve and I went climbing, you know, just a quick climb that should have only taken 2 hours. Well, it sort of turned "epic" about the time ...."

With your friends situation, I have to agree with the sentiments of others, the guy's wife has pretty much come to terms with the relationship being over. She is either deliberately attempting to destroy the relationship or she figures it's over and she's dropping a hint.

Time to start documentation of her activities. Hire a detective, and keep a secret log of when she abandons the family. The judge will hopefull take this type of behavior into account durring the custody hearings.

Good luck to your friend.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 10:31:43 PM EDT
tag
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 10:32:45 PM EDT
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 10:42:25 PM EDT
We need pics of the folks involved before making a conclusion.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 11:11:35 PM EDT
Two questions...


1. What was going on before they got home and she had to take the babysitter home...


2. How do we know that she was not doing what 99.99% of all women do...Talking to another woman for ungodly amounts of time...
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 11:16:56 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Mmanwitgun:
sounds like his wife switched teams




My thoughts exactly!!!!
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 11:25:01 PM EDT
All right...now guys....I KNOW that it's MUCH more likely that she's banging some guy...but what if:

1. She went to Wal-Mart to buy the gun safe this guys been dreaming of.....really wants to surprise him with it.....got permission to store it at the baby sitter's house.....then had problems getting it there..... and didn't want to spoil the surprise....

Nah......she's banging some druggie biker.

AoD
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 11:25:58 PM EDT
One time in college, I picked a very conservative Christian girl up at her house. As we were walking to the car, her Grandma came to the door and said "Be home by midnight. The only thing open after then is your knees." She smiled and closed the door. I nearly peed my pants, I was laughing so hard.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 11:29:18 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/23/2004 11:31:02 PM EDT by iftoc]
After dropping off the babysitter, your friend’s wife pulled off the side of the road grieving and praying for her father-in-law 'till 5:15am.
Link Posted: 12/23/2004 11:41:05 PM EDT

Originally Posted By DrFrige:
... And she doesnt come back home until 5:15 AM. What do you do?

Friend's wife did this last night. So what say YOU!




Next time just ask your wife "can me and my new girlfriend join you too?"
Link Posted: 12/24/2004 4:04:03 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Astrogoth: By the time you see it for what it is it's been going on for some time and there's not much left for you to do but make your arangements. The sooner you face that the better off you'll be.


Very well said.
Link Posted: 12/24/2004 4:46:48 AM EDT
1. She had best have a damn good explanation or
2. She is kicked out and awaiting papers.
Link Posted: 12/24/2004 4:49:13 AM EDT
Link Posted: 12/24/2004 4:50:45 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/24/2004 4:55:11 AM EDT by TheWind]
the babysitter is Female and 18]

Lets see? Hot 18 yo female, mmmm ask to be in the middle! Hey, Been there, it works, well she was 25, nah another thread, yes yes and with pics, no I dind't hit her in the pooper...Really though, pretty good chance of someone straying...
Link Posted: 12/24/2004 5:30:04 AM EDT
Maybe you should try this new "Male Enhancement Drug", you know the one on TV, ,, Meat Bob.
Link Posted: 12/24/2004 5:32:04 AM EDT
Link Posted: 12/24/2004 5:34:58 AM EDT
It could be that she was Christmas shopping?
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