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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:22:16 PM EDT
[#1]
Just stuff it in her pooper and post pics!
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:23:38 PM EDT
[#2]
What school are you at?
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:25:47 PM EDT
[#3]
invite her for lunch, and see how things go. IF things go well, invite her out for dinner, a play etc.
Remember, "faint heart wins no faire maiden." Share the wealth and post pics for us. Good luck. |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:25:57 PM EDT
[#4]
Pretend she is ugly and relax. Then talk to her like a human.
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:27:59 PM EDT
[#6]
*sigh*
Treat her like a person. If you are interested ask her out. If she isn't interested she'll let you know by saying no. End of story. |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:28:58 PM EDT
[#7]
Ask her.
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:29:28 PM EDT
[#8]
double tap(controlled pair)
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:30:09 PM EDT
[#9]
if she calls, no problem. If you see her at work, let it marinate for a bit(don't be too eager), then say I'd like to get together, but I'm a little jammed this week, maybe next Wednesday or something like that?( like she'll have to wait for it) If she suggests a weekend date, you may be moving directly toward hitting it.
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:30:34 PM EDT
[#10]
Lol, I think I was pretty nervous on the phone to ask her out but I think I sounded ok. Talking about work matters are different of course.
But what do you think about the situation I'm in. I've heard that really hot girls don't like pushy, needy guys. I'm tempted to play it cool and leave it up to her to bring up the idea of going out again.
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:30:50 PM EDT
[#11]
Damn the exact same thing happened to me, it wasn't a yes or a no it was somewhere in between... I make a point not to be over bearing once I get denied I dont come back for more punishment. but this situation confused me because it wasn't a no it was a I have to go to class. |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:32:22 PM EDT
[#12]
I've heard that really hot girls are just humans and are not necessarily different than not-so-hot girls.
ASK HER. Being real is the most important thing. |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:34:17 PM EDT
[#13]
so now we still chat in class and sometimes she even chases me down to talk about class. But I dont want to look like a guy whos begging her for it.
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:34:30 PM EDT
[#14]
Don't do that. When she comes back be friendly and talk at work a couple a days. Then say "hey, you stood me up for coffee (gotta be slick here, do it kinda joking, kinda not). How about ____(day/time)" |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:34:51 PM EDT
[#15]
Yeah, that's what I was thinking. I haven't really played hard to get before, so it's kind of a new territory for me. I've always pursued using my stupid hormone driven instinct with only average success. Maybe it's time for a change..... |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:35:07 PM EDT
[#16]
Remember this is part of the chase. So you've got to keep it up though. Also since you are at work, I would keep this really low key, actually super-low key among you co-workers, what happens to you romantically, because things could get real sticky real fast. |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:36:58 PM EDT
[#17]
just give up
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:37:38 PM EDT
[#18]
Ask her....nothing ventured, nothing gained!
 
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:39:19 PM EDT
[#19]
But my situation is that I already made the first move and asked her out but denied because she had other obligations.
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:41:11 PM EDT
[#20]
Hmmm...
She must be quite a woman if you need help with her....I thought they were teaching this in school these days. She knows you are interested...just sit back and relax.  MT
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:41:51 PM EDT
[#21]
Great point, I'm keeping it low key right now but will probably have a huge urge to brag to the boys if I do end up going out with her regularly. 
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:46:21 PM EDT
[#22]
do not brag, jealous suckers will cockblock or undermine your efforts
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:53:47 PM EDT
[#23]
ASK HER OUT. You have been green lighted already. Ask her out and actively persue a relationship IF that is what you want. Don't play games, she isn't. Simply go for it or live the rest of your life talking about this one badass babe who got away cause you didn't go after it. If you fuck it up, at least you took your shot. That is a LOT easier to live with. |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:56:59 PM EDT
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Here's the deal... If she doesn't come back early. Play it off and let her bring it up, only after you hint by taking a big sip of coffee from your mug and Saying "Damn this is some good coffee." "Do you like coffee?"
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Posted: 10/9/2004 5:57:36 PM EDT
[#25]
+1 |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 6:20:05 PM EDT
[#26]
+2 |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 6:29:47 PM EDT
[#27]
I tried the direct approach some time ago with a HB8 that I was interested a year ago but it didn't pan out. But then again, I didn't have the initial (flirting?) body language from her before making my move. Anyway, I was always the one calling up to set up dates and after a while, it became excuse city from her. I got sick of that and called it quits with her.
I don't know but I'm thinking hot chicks are wired a little differently so I'm thinking I need to approach this situation a little different this time.
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Posted: 10/9/2004 6:34:18 PM EDT
[#28]
Don't ask her, tell her your taking her out to coffee, lunch, etc. A very attractive girlfriend of mine told me to use that approach and it's never failed me. Confidence, my boy, confidence.
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Posted: 10/9/2004 6:44:01 PM EDT
[#29]
That's an understatement!
Treat her like complete shit, ignore her, and when you do talk to her let her know you like blow-jobs. I GUAURENTTEEEEEE YOU that she will be all over you like white on rice.
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Posted: 10/9/2004 6:54:01 PM EDT
[#30]
Bring her over and I will show you what needs to be done. |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 7:25:09 PM EDT
[#31]
This thread pops up enough I ought to write a book and cash in on this market.
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Posted: 10/9/2004 8:13:54 PM EDT
[#32]
+1 |
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Posted: 10/10/2004 8:40:27 AM EDT
[#33]
Lol, but unfortunately I don't think that'll work on her 
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Posted: 10/10/2004 8:43:06 AM EDT
[#34]
My dad tells me the best line he ever used in the early 80s was "come on, you're coming with me".
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Posted: 10/10/2004 8:47:53 AM EDT
[#35]
Hot chicks are like everybody else.
More often than not they are dumber than everyone else. too. I know only one "hot" (that's subjective, right) chick that is smart. CRC |
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Posted: 10/10/2004 8:52:38 AM EDT
[#36]
Yeah I know, but this one is really smart, achieved top 5% honors rank in her class, very observant, creative, learns new stuff quickly. That's why she so damn intimidating, hot and smart.
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Posted: 10/10/2004 8:54:46 AM EDT
[#37]
This thread deserves a mention of The Ladder Theory
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Posted: 10/10/2004 8:55:10 AM EDT
[#38]
I have always thought it wasn't a good idea to get your meat where you get your bread.
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Posted: 10/10/2004 8:56:16 AM EDT
[#39]
Rule #1: Dont date people you work with.
Rule #2: Never, under any circumstances, break Rule #1. |
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Posted: 10/10/2004 8:58:17 AM EDT
[#40]
I agree with that to an extent. But she's only spending a few weeks with us then she's off to an another department. I would never date anyone in my own department. The potential for things getting messy is too great there.
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Posted: 10/10/2004 9:32:09 AM EDT
[#41]
Took the words right out of my mouth ! Women love confident men , it actually turns them on. Down deep women are all at least a little submissive and want a strong man in their lives. I'll also add that alot of women want to be persued they like a mans attention and they will eventually give you the fruit of your labor ! 
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Posted: 10/10/2004 9:36:51 AM EDT
[#42]
I've heard that really hot girls are just humans and are not necessarily different than not-so-hot girls.
you heard 'wrong'. |
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Posted: 10/10/2004 9:37:02 AM EDT
[#43]
Do not say "Want to go on a date to blah blah blah"
Say: "I am going to blah blah blah. Should I save you a seat?" Kharn |
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Posted: 10/10/2004 9:42:34 AM EDT
[#44]
There you go fixed it for ya. |
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Posted: 10/10/2004 9:47:50 AM EDT
[#45]
+1
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Posted: 10/10/2004 9:49:43 AM EDT
[#46]
bitch slap the pussy out of yourself and realise shes a female thus inferior to you thus meaning you can do whatever the heck you want
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Posted: 10/10/2004 9:57:54 AM EDT
[#47]
The hotter a girl is the larger the pool of guys who want to hit on her... therefore she 1) Is used to the attention, 2) Can wait and take her pick, you're not her only hope, and 3) Is probably tired of guys drooling over here wherever she goes, and walking on eggshells around her because "Careful, she's HOT!!". She probably wants a guy to spank her and give her the what-for.
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Posted: 10/10/2004 11:10:04 AM EDT
[#48]
Cannot evalutate the situation without pics.
CW |
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Posted: 10/10/2004 11:10:05 AM EDT
[#49]
+1 |
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Posted: 10/10/2004 11:13:36 AM EDT
[#50]
Get into the mindset of acting like she is a very ugly girl that you love as having a friend. That way your confidence wont be destroyed everytime you think about how hot she is.
If the "friend" part doesnt excite you, then forget about how she looks and move on. |
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