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Posted: 6/4/2002 10:08:10 PM EDT
Thursday, I am taking a beautiful women out to watch the hockey game. I just got out of a 5 year relationship and have never really been on a first date. The lady I am taking out is a girl I have been talking to for a while and has really helped me through some rough times. Any ideas? I'm only 20 and so is she so the bar is out of the question. Keving67
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Link Posted: 6/4/2002 10:19:44 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 6/4/2002 10:21:27 PM EDT by Johnny_Reno]
If she's a nice girl, you won't want to try and "stop short" with her at least until the second date. Edited to add: I bet you didn't think that you would get info this useful, did you?
Link Posted: 6/4/2002 10:22:22 PM EDT
stop short?
Link Posted: 6/4/2002 10:33:22 PM EDT
Originally Posted By keving67: stop short?
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Link Posted: 6/4/2002 10:35:11 PM EDT
tell her that she is welcome to bring another beautiful friend for "moral support" you may hit the jackpot.
Link Posted: 6/4/2002 10:50:18 PM EDT
My answer will be, by comparisson, boring. On a first date, usually you want to establish some kind of intimacy. I'd suggest doing things where it will seem like you are sorta alone with each other. A non busy quiet Restraunt for dinner and "maybe" a movie. Cliche I know but for a reason. If you aren't prepared for a suggesting your place or mine to "hang out or maybe a drink" maybe a late night walk in a park or something. This is where living near a beach works wonders. When I used to go out with girls for the first time, I wanted it to be just "us" for as much as possible. When you have established that kind of relationship, THEN you can take her to a strip club for a lap dance.
Link Posted: 6/4/2002 10:54:33 PM EDT
Warm almond oil, mood lighting, Enigma CD, Aroma Therapy Candles [:D] Aviator [img]www.milpubs.com/aviator.gif[/img]
Link Posted: 6/4/2002 11:18:24 PM EDT
The lady I am taking out is a girl I have been talking to for a while and has really helped me through some rough times.
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Then, relax! It's not really one of those scary first dates, because you already know her.z
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 2:36:51 AM EDT
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 2:45:32 AM EDT
If you haven't seen the movie "Something about Mary" you should as it has an excellent tip for what you should do in order to prepare for a first date.
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 3:53:34 AM EDT
Originally Posted By Johnny_Reno:
Originally Posted By keving67: stop short?
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Christ man, please don't post a link to that Gator infected, pop-up from hell POS web site again! [shock]
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 4:24:10 AM EDT
DON'T talk about the 5 year relationship splits ville. Have fun. Manners are good. Be yourself. Be open to trying new things. TAKE HER SHOOTING. A lot of girls will either love it or hate it. But I bet it will be something she will always remember either way. If you really dig her. Try a picnic bfore the game or make her dinner. If it clicks romantically you'll know. If it doesn't she'll be a good reference for other girlz. She might even hook you up.
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 4:57:40 AM EDT
A date? What's that?
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 6:36:21 AM EDT
Originally Posted By keving67: Thursday, I am taking a beautiful women out to watch the hockey game.
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After the game you can celebrate the [red]Hurricane's[/red] victory at an ice cream parlor. She'll love it!
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 6:47:18 AM EDT
Kung Fu master medcop say shoot her in the face.... if u shoot her in face and she run away it never ment to be.You shoot her in face and she stay ... she is yours forever. for real.I hope it gos good for you.Take her some place nice.Dont just take her to BK or some crap like that.Ask her about her ideas on like .... see how she feels about guns. Have fun! Qbang
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 6:47:20 AM EDT
Sundrop, I don't think celebrating a Hurricanes victory in Detroit would be a good idea but the ice cream parlor is pretty good. Go Wings! Keving67
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 6:54:38 AM EDT
Originally Posted By Aviator: Warm almond oil, mood lighting, Enigma CD, Aroma Therapy Candles [:D] Aviator [img]www.milpubs.com/aviator.gif[/img]
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Aviator are you trying to score or put her to sleep?
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 12:32:15 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 6/5/2002 12:34:56 PM EDT by ARH]
First of all, is she a hockey fan? If not, then do the movie and dinner date. You need to spend some time with her, and get to know her outside of helping you with rough times. The movie will provide you with something to talk about. Listen to what she says about the movie and go on from there. Look for signals!!! Is she a little more dressed up than when you were just talking. Compliment her on her appearance!!! Do not talk about any ex GF's or being drunk and doing stupid guy things. Do not be sarcastic or talk to her like one of your guy friends. Since you have spent time with her, you are ahead of the game. She must like you to have been there for your during the rough times. Since this is the first real date, you will be getting to know each other so do not push things. Good luck. ARH
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 12:37:52 PM EDT
Keep your hands off your genitals. Freaks them out. Really. I know. Av.
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 12:52:55 PM EDT
She is a semi-hockey fan kinda like me. It wouldn't brake my heart to miss the game. I am thinking about maybe taking her out tonight to the movies and dinner tonight after I get out of class. I think that might be just a littl emore romantic than taking her out to a sports bar with a few of my friends. What about opening doors and stuff like that? I know that I should but do girls really appreciate that kind of stuff? Keep them coming! Keving67
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 12:57:41 PM EDT
Originally Posted By keving67: She is a semi-hockey fan kinda like me. It wouldn't brake my heart to miss the game. I am thinking about maybe taking her out tonight to the movies and dinner tonight after I get out of class. I think that might be just a littl emore romantic than taking her out to a sports bar with a few of my friends. What about opening doors and stuff like that? I know that I should but do girls really appreciate that kind of stuff? Keep them coming! Keving67
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Most women still like doors and chairs held for them, as well as opening car doors. It is always best to err on the side of courtesy than rudeness. If she doesn't appreciate it, you will soon know, but that shouldn't be a date-breaker.
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 1:05:46 PM EDT
Originally Posted By keving67: She is a semi-hockey fan kinda like me. It wouldn't brake my heart to miss the game. I am thinking about maybe taking her out tonight to the movies and dinner tonight after I get out of class. I think that might be just a littl emore romantic than taking her out to a sports bar with a few of my friends. What about opening doors and stuff like that? I know that I should but do girls really appreciate that kind of stuff? Keep them coming! Keving67
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Do not take a woman to a sports bar with your friends on a first date. If she is going out with you, she wants to be with you and not your friends. Be a gentleman and treat her like a lady. If she does not appreciate it then one of her friends will. ARH
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 1:08:36 PM EDT
Originally Posted By QBANG: Kung Fu master medcop say shoot her in the face.... if u shoot her in face and she run away it never ment to be.You shoot her in face and she stay ... she is yours forever. for real.I hope it gos good for you.Take her some place nice.Dont just take her to BK or some crap like that.Ask her about her ideas on like .... see how she feels about guns. Have fun! Qbang
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You must have me confused with Strong Like Bull Sensible Master Beekeeper1. I only study under him…. he is the true master. My Kung Fu is weak compared to his. [:)] By all means....make sure she likes guns! medcop
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 1:18:32 PM EDT
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 1:19:31 PM EDT
Originally Posted By rn45: Try not to fart too many times. If she rips off a hot one, act like it didn't happen. Even to the point of passing out from the fumes. If sex should become possible, be safe. If it doesn't smell like it should, make an excuse to go to the bathroom and climb out the window.
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ROFLMAO!!!! Good advice though
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 1:22:30 PM EDT
Good news fellows, not only does she like guns, she has one of her own! Keving67
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Link Posted: 6/5/2002 1:29:34 PM EDT
So here is my checklist so far: 1: open doors 2: no sports bars with friends!!! 3: wear pants 4: Dinner and a movie preferred 5: No swearing our talk of being drunk 6: Ice cream afterwards couldn't hurt 7: just the 2 of us I imagine I should clean my apartment and pick up my dirty close just incase it goes better than expected. Any more or anything I forgot? Keving67
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 1:31:43 PM EDT
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 2:17:48 PM EDT
Originally Posted By keving67: So here is my checklist so far: 1: open doors 2: no sports bars with friends!!! 3: wear pants 4: Dinner and a movie preferred 5: No swearing our talk of being drunk 6: Ice cream afterwards couldn't hurt 7: just the 2 of us I imagine I should clean my apartment and pick up my dirty close just incase it goes better than expected. Any more or anything I forgot? Keving67
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Do the three S's. If you have a roommate let him know that if you show up with your lady friend he should be prepared to disappear. Make sure your wallet is fat. ARH
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 2:28:38 PM EDT
Take her to your place for some roofies and a donkey punch. [stick]
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 2:36:26 PM EDT
How about a drive in movie? Do they even have them anymore or have I just showed my age? fullclip
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 2:42:18 PM EDT
Listen to the Tom Leykis show. [url]www.blowmeuptom.com[/url]
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 2:51:39 PM EDT
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 4:12:46 PM EDT
Seeing as the Wings will stomp them, I suggest you do not waste a chance to experience history. Joe Louis Arena is magical when the Wings are winning. But in the event you do get bored, leave during the 2nd period. Gets you out ahead of traffic. There is another choice--Canada. If you're both over 19 you can hunker down together in a little pub in Windsor. Just don't take her to the "Canadian Ballet". Another choice is one of the casinos. Not very intimate, but interesting. All-time favorite first date choice is a comedy club, but not Thursday. They'll all be empty with the game going on, and an empty comedy club is painful. Good luck. Good luck.
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 4:18:39 PM EDT
Origionally posted by ARH: Make sure your wallet is fat
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You mean as in have a lot of money, or for another reason. I do keep my wallet in my front pocket. Keving67
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 4:20:35 PM EDT
Originally Posted By keving67: Good news fellows, not only does she like guns, she has one of her own! Keving67
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Only one????
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 4:21:25 PM EDT
Bunghole, we used to have tom leykus on the radio here in Detroit but the radio station finally replaced him with something better. No offense. Keving67
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 4:32:59 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 6/5/2002 4:36:53 PM EDT by MrsMattja]
Originally Posted By keving67: Thursday, I am taking a beautiful women out to watch the hockey game. I just got out of a 5 year relationship and have never really been on a first date. The lady I am taking out is a girl I have been talking to for a while and has really helped me through some rough times. Any ideas? I'm only 20 and so is she so the bar is out of the question. Keving67
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Son, taking her out to a hockey seems like a lot of fun. The two of you get to scream your heads off when it comes cheering on your favorite team. Also, the two of you can share popcorn and soda together. Just be sure the both of you bring your own toothpaste and toothbrush because your breathe is going to smell bad after eating the snacks. You need to prepare yourself in case she gives you that goodnight kiss after you bring her home. Another thing, no funny stuff below the waist unless she says it's okay. ROTFLMAO Other than that, just relax and have fun.
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 4:33:52 PM EDT
Originally Posted By keving67: What about opening doors and stuff like that? I know that I should but do girls really appreciate that kind of stuff? Keep them coming! Keving67
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Even today with all this feminazi shit..you should always hold a door open for women...then if you get the chance later on, stick your tongue up her ass...they really like that [:D]
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 4:33:59 PM EDT
Originally Posted By Wolfpack: How about a strip club? See if she has a wild side in her, if she doesn't you don't want her anyways. Good girls get lap dances! [:D]
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God, I love strippers !
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 4:39:44 PM EDT
Hell, I can't even afford one Wings ticket let alone 2. I think the cheapest seats are like 400$ a person. Keving67
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 4:48:07 PM EDT
Originally Posted By keving67:
Origionally posted by ARH: Make sure your wallet is fat
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You mean as in have a lot of money, or for another reason. I do keep my wallet in my front pocket. Keving67
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Yes on the money. ARH
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 4:50:13 PM EDT
Originally Posted By JIMBEAM: Only one????
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Yes, only one and its a 22. But I guess thats better than a Gore in 04' in her front lawn. Keving67
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 4:51:50 PM EDT
Originally Posted By ARH: Yes on the money. ARH
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I'd imagine about 100$ ought to cover it. I hope so anyways. Keving67
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 6:19:39 PM EDT
$100 for one date? Isn't that running a bit high? What do you have in mind? What would cost $100? I suggest a cheaper first date, in case it doesn't work out you wouldn't have sunk as much money. I'd hate to blow that much money on such an unknown. Where do you like? Are there any parks or beaches? Remember, moonlit promenades are free, make the best use of nearby public facilities.
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 6:32:43 PM EDT
jz02, after I started thinking aobut it, 100 bucks is a lot of money! I would think dinner and a movie is like 40$ at the most and then something kinda romantic like a beach or a park or something if the night is going really good. But the problem is I live in a really crappy neighborhood (southfield, a suburb of Detroit) and there isn't much of a rural area around here. Keving67
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 6:43:10 PM EDT
yeah I know, people seem to be very willing to blow a lot of money on dates and relationships. I don't mean to be cheap but I'd suggest that you watch the spending there a little, save a bit for the second date. [:)] Anyway, be creative. What do you like? Are you a physical person as in you want to get physical ASAP (make out sessions, work with your hands, etc) or are you a talk and get to know her better person?
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 6:48:13 PM EDT
I know the girl pretty good, like since I was 5, but I haven't seen her in like a year and a half. I don't really know what I want. I guess what happens happens. The more the better I guess. [:D] Keving67
Link Posted: 6/5/2002 6:56:47 PM EDT
One thing, if you're going to get physical, do it in the right order. There's a sequence of events you must follow. Same with conversation, do it in an appropriate order. Everyone has a little shield, but in the physical sense and the mental sense. You have to convince her to drop her shield, and you do that gradually by making her comfortable, then move up one level, then make her comfortable with that and move up another level.
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