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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:37:42 AM EDT
[#1]
Call it over.
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:38:35 AM EDT
[#2]
I'll be a smartass and say.. just shoot her and be done with it.
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:39:04 AM EDT
[#3]
Did she get raped over the weekend?
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:39:07 AM EDT
[#4]
Evac.
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:39:36 AM EDT
[#5]
Bad instability or abuse as a child. Bi-polar sounding almost.
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:40:06 AM EDT
[#6]
Ask for the check, and find a new restaraunt with the buffet still open.
TRG |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:40:20 AM EDT
[#7]
KICK. HER. TO. THE. CURB.
Is this a woman you want your children to have to depend on someday? WHo you see yourself being able to depend on when you're old and, you know, need to wear DEPENDS? She's seriously fucked up. Contrary to the views of some here, not all women are. The woman I've been seeing since my divorce was over is amazing, she shoots, she doesn't lose her mind, and she's not after me for money. We have just as much fun hanging out reading the paper in the morning as we do during a night on the town, and in bed. This one's a loser. You care for her, but its only going to get you in deep shit. You've been posting about how bad this is for how long now? You KNOW what needs to be done. Now, man up and leave. BTW, the "no more sex" thing if not some other manipulation by her parents, etc., is most likely to be either (a) a new bull in the pasture; or (b) an abortion of a child of yours you did not know about which is eating her up inside. Good luck. |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:40:49 AM EDT
[#8]
Did you marry her and forget about it?
Honestly she probably cheated on you. |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:41:42 AM EDT
[#9]
she is cheating.
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:42:51 AM EDT
[#10]
Cheating with a guy that left a mark on her body that she can't let you see. |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:43:01 AM EDT
[#11]
Be Prepared: www.nomarriage.com
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:43:06 AM EDT
[#12]
No doubt about it. |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:44:16 AM EDT
[#13]
Mayday! Mayday! Eject!
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:44:38 AM EDT
[#14]
Sounds to me like a past trama or possibly sexual assault coming back to her,I wouldn't pressure to much about it,if she is gonna tell you about it she will when she is ready.No amount of badgering is gonna get it out of her.
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:45:30 AM EDT
[#15]
I'll repeat what one of the posters above said - you know what needs to be done. Now what are you willing to do?
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:46:41 AM EDT
[#16]
You've said before (I think) that she's on the pill...FTR???
The BCP kills sex drive... My hubby thought I'd become Jenna Jameson within a month of my going off of it! |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:48:22 AM EDT
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She's freaked out and a likely explanation is that something happened to shatter her sense of security. Not in the past, but just in the last few days, like right before she started getting freaky on you. |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:50:05 AM EDT
[#18]
Sounds like depression. I was married to a woman who went through depression. No fun at all. If you're serious about her then get her into counseling asap. Hell, even if you're not that serious about her do your best to get her into counseling. She is after all, a fellow human being. Keep enough distance to protect your own sanity, but do what you can for her.
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:50:11 AM EDT
[#19]
yeah i am thinking that might have something to do with the change in her behavior. |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:50:16 AM EDT
[#20]
Cut your losses and say goodbye.
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:50:33 AM EDT
[#21]
Consider bailing out. These goofy emotional highs and lows DO NOT level out. They will only get worse, and eventually require medications...that she will probably refuse to stay on.
Take a hike. |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:51:00 AM EDT
[#22]
Some women just want drama or heartache or trouble etc.. in their lives. Even though they deny it, they still seem to always have it in their lives. The only rason is because they just keep repeating the behaviors that bring them that trouble into their lives. Since they don't stop that behaviork, the conclusion is that they want it that way.
You will never succeed in being her 'knight in shining armor' and save her from all of that. It won't matter how great of a guy she tells you that you are. She just won't surrender her behaviors. So you get strung along and frustrated forever. You need to tell her that the way she is acting is not the kind of behavior you want to have in a girlfriend. And there just isn't any chance for a relationship with her until you see a great deal of improvement from her. But until then, consider the relationship finished. You're not being the bad guy. You're telling her you requirements and it is her choice which way she wants to go. Now if you waffle on this in any way, you're doomed to a never ending cycle. |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:51:11 AM EDT
[#23]
Do you want advice, or just people to make you feel better?
I can do the former, but it won't accomplish the latter, that's for sure. Short version: Do HER a favor and pack her stuff and carry her back home to her parents. |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:53:11 AM EDT
[#24]
You're tempting me to one-up you...
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:56:50 AM EDT
[#25]
1911greg, sounds like you are dealing with a female human being.
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:57:30 AM EDT
[#26]
Maybe your right, I think i am just going to lay down the law and tell her to cut the drama. Well this should be interesting 
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Posted: 10/5/2005 7:57:51 AM EDT
[#27]
Run, Forest, run!!!!!
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:00:47 AM EDT
[#28]
 
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:00:56 AM EDT
[#29]
If you think that's the cause of this then you are a fool. BC pills might reduce sex drive but they don't eliminate and they definately don't cause the girl wear clothes to bed. The only reason for those last two are "SHE DOESN'T WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU". You need to find out why that is and it's not the pill. |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:02:48 AM EDT
[#30]
The cheating thing sounds like it could be going on. Maybe she is depressed because she cheated on you. Who knows though maybe she's just depressed or even bi-polar. Good luck!
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:05:08 AM EDT
[#31]
If she stopped having sex with you, it's because she started with someone else. Curb. Immediately.
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:08:28 AM EDT
[#32]
RUN LIKE YOUR ASS IS ON FIRE AND YOUR HEAD"S CATCHING!!!!!!!!!! |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:09:32 AM EDT
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Sigh. Guys, this one's bound and determined to learn the hard way. He's responded to two theories in this post: Birth Control, and the "Drama Queen" possibility. He's ignoring all the other posts, most from major experience, that say: SOMETHING IS NOT RIGHT HERE. I'll enjoy the divorce thread in a couple of years. |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:09:53 AM EDT
[#34]
If your relationship were a freight train, I think the caboose just went by.
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:10:42 AM EDT
[#35]
At least be honest and up front with her. Tell her to come clean on whatever the issue is or she's out. Shok |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:13:52 AM EDT
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:32:41 AM EDT
[#37]
that fucking sucks. shees either cheatin or just fucked up. lay down the law and get out if she wont put out AND tell you what the prolem is
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:44:40 AM EDT
[#38]
So is she wearing clothes to bed to keep your hands off,
or to prevent you from seeing something? Does she lock the door when she takes a shower, or do you join her? Maybe she has genital herpes and doesn't want you to find out. Have you noticed any other symptoms or odd behavoirs? |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:46:32 AM EDT
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:48:19 AM EDT
[#40]
um... just thought of something....
what if she is PREGNANT? |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:51:41 AM EDT
[#41]
fuck! if thats the case and she didnt say anything before you need to draw down |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:55:03 AM EDT
[#42]
Yup - I believe I called that one a couple of days ago - unfortunately, it doesn't sound like he wants to grasp the reality of his situation... Either that, or he's ALSO a drama queen, and enjoys the attention he's currently getting here.... It's been my experience that once a relationship goes bad, it rarely - if ever - comes back around - but many have to learn this the hard way.... - georgestrings |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 11:08:59 AM EDT
[#43]
Time to find another girlfriend. The folks here are not joking either. You'll save yourself a lot of grief later.
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Posted: 10/5/2005 11:12:43 AM EDT
[#44]
Kick her to the curb and buy an HK USP .45. That is my girfriend.
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Posted: 10/5/2005 11:18:45 AM EDT
[#45]
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Posted: 10/5/2005 11:22:29 AM EDT
[#46]
+1, instant change in personalities and using sex to cover up her issues. she is wacked!!! slip her some zyprexa and see if she goes back to normal |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 11:23:48 AM EDT
[#47]
As the old fisherman says, "Practice catch and release" emphasis on the release part.
There are too many other fish in the sea that don't already have problems. |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 11:32:44 AM EDT
[#48]
At least you have girlfriend problems.
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Posted: 10/5/2005 11:34:25 AM EDT
[#49]
Do what I did.
BAIL OUT |
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Posted: 10/5/2005 11:43:10 AM EDT
[#50]
Accept it or move on, those are your choices. Either you can live with it or you can't.
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