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Posted: 6/17/2009 2:54:18 AM EDT
... about 20 minutes ago. He finally succumbed to his cancer & died as I sat by his side.

Waiting on Hospice to get back to me on how to proceed. Kind of numb. Kind of sad. Kind of relieved in a way... it's been a hard two months for the both of us.

At least he is at peace now.

Waiting for a reasonable hour to start calling around, letting everyone know. Waiting by distracting myself with the computer.

"I knew a man once who said, Death smiles at us all. All a man can do is smile back."

Goodbye dad.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 2:55:58 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 6/17/2009 2:56:28 AM EDT
[#2]
RIP
Sorry for your loss....
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 2:56:44 AM EDT
[#3]
May God be with you and the rest of your family.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 2:57:00 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 6/17/2009 2:57:24 AM EDT
[#5]
Very sorry to hear this.

Know he's in a better place Patriot, and be comforted by that.

Link Posted: 6/17/2009 2:57:54 AM EDT
[#6]
Sorry.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 2:58:24 AM EDT
[#7]
I lost my father in a similar fashion.  It's good that you were with him.  My deepest sympathies offered.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 2:58:25 AM EDT
[#8]
My God bless him and keep him for all eternity.  

Peace Patriot - we're all here for you.

Link Posted: 6/17/2009 2:58:38 AM EDT
[#9]


God has called him to his table. He is at peace in Heaven. Prayers out...
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 2:59:25 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:00:36 AM EDT
[#11]
My dad passed six years back. Try not to think of him as gone, he is still with you, he's in a much better place now.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:00:54 AM EDT
[#12]
Sorry for your family's loss.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:01:24 AM EDT
[#13]
My condolences.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:01:49 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:02:56 AM EDT
[#15]
My condolences brother
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:03:37 AM EDT
[#16]
So sorry to hear that man
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:04:00 AM EDT
[#17]
sorry for your loss
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:04:05 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:05:36 AM EDT
[#19]
My sincere condolences.

I lost my dad two years ago...

Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:07:39 AM EDT
[#20]
My sincere condolences to you and your family.




Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:13:34 AM EDT
[#21]
You have my condolences. Sorry for your loss. Hang in there. I don't know what I'm going to do when the day comes and I lose one of my parents.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:15:14 AM EDT
[#22]
Sorry to hear this.  My prayers are with you and your family.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:15:26 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:17:36 AM EDT
[#24]

My condolences.




Spend time with friends and family through this tough time.



I'm in a place I really don't like just to spend time with my dad before he's gone.  I hate reading threads like this.


Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:19:20 AM EDT
[#25]
My Dad died 3-1/2 years ago and my Mom about 5  months ago.

My heart definitely goes out to you. R.I.P..

Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:20:05 AM EDT
[#26]
Quoted:
RIP
Sorry for your loss....


+1
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:20:19 AM EDT
[#27]
God Bless you and your family. I have been where you are now, with my mother and my grandfather. I can say that the pain of loss lessens over time, but your dad will always be with you. I'll keep you all in my prayers.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:20:20 AM EDT
[#28]
Sorry to hear that brother.  Prayers inbound.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:21:12 AM EDT
[#29]
condolances on your loss..

it does get easier over time..lost my Dad 3 years ago..
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:21:54 AM EDT
[#30]
I lost my dad a while back - he went suddenly, all alone, 800 miles away from me.



Your dad was indeed fortunate to have you by his side.



May you find strength and inner peace.  Prayers to your dad and your family.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:21:55 AM EDT
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I feel your pain bro, I lost my Mother to cancer 2 years ago.

Prayers sent for you and yours in these tough times.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:25:20 AM EDT
[#32]
You are a good Son.
Prayers for you and your family.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:25:50 AM EDT
[#33]
Prayers sent; we lost our dad after years of his being afflicted with ALS. God Bless!
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:27:34 AM EDT
[#34]
Condolences to you and your family.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:27:54 AM EDT
[#35]
May the Blessings of the Divine be with you and your family during these times of change.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:29:35 AM EDT
[#36]
 lost more friends and family to that horrible disease than I care to remember. Sorry for your loss and prayers to your family. As you say, he is at peace now and not suffering.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:31:57 AM EDT
[#37]
Sorry for your loss, may his peace be your strength
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:37:36 AM EDT
[#38]
Sorry for your loss.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:37:51 AM EDT
[#39]
My deepest sympathies. I feel your pain I sat holding my dads hand when he succumbed to cancer. That was 1994 he was 79. I still miss him. Every time I finish a project I can hear my dad say "just like New York only better".
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:46:32 AM EDT
[#40]
Went through that in 2002;I let the emotion out at the church service(not afraid to cry at all).Let whatever you have in out;it helped me.Deepest sympathy to you.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 3:47:16 AM EDT
[#41]
Its been 5 years since I too held my Dad's hand as he lost his fight with cancer.  I was really close to my Dad.  He was the best friend and mentor I could have hoped for.  I've tried to pass along what he taught me to my own kids.  



Hang tough bud.  The first year is rough, but the pain subsides.  Be there for your mom and the rest of your family.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 4:34:22 AM EDT
[#42]
May the Good Lord embrace him and take him home....

Our prayers are with you and your family


Link Posted: 6/17/2009 4:36:04 AM EDT
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My condolences. Your family is in my prayers.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 4:36:25 AM EDT
[#44]
May peace be with you.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 4:37:55 AM EDT
[#45]
I'm so very sorry.  Your family will be in my prayers.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 4:40:24 AM EDT
[#46]
Very sorry for your loss.

Link Posted: 6/17/2009 4:40:52 AM EDT
[#47]
God bless you and him. Sorry for your loss.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 4:41:45 AM EDT
[#48]
May God Bless and Comfort you and your family.  Prayers sent.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 4:44:31 AM EDT
[#49]
My condolences.
Link Posted: 6/17/2009 4:46:31 AM EDT
[#50]
RIP
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