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Posted: 7/19/2008 12:40:44 PM EST
Im sure some of you have heard the prev problems I have had with him.

Now he is calling up harassing my mother and grandmother trying to get my SSN

Why cant this be fixed easily
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 12:42:16 PM EST
tell him that you will donate him the wheelchair if he will quit it ?
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 12:42:41 PM EST


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Link Posted: 7/19/2008 12:43:21 PM EST
I didn't get the previous memo - hope things improve nonetheless.
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 12:43:54 PM EST

Originally Posted By Taxman:
Im sure some of you have heard the prev problems I have had with him.

Now he is calling up harassing my mother and grandmother trying to get my SSN


Link?

Not sure why your father wouldn't have your SSN, or what he'd want it for...
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 12:46:01 PM EST
Sorry to hear of this, Tax old bean. Shithead relatives suck.
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 12:46:03 PM EST
put a fraud alert on your credit report

And call and ask him WHY he wants the info.
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 12:46:29 PM EST
I'd make sure I get some kind of fraud alert on my credit even if I had to pay for it Taxman, you might end up with $$$$$ on your credit with him using your SSN.

I'd personally put a total credit freeze on any new accounts opened up in my name until such time as you deem it OK to take it off. [allow some time to do it also.]
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 12:46:33 PM EST
I remember that it was a really long time ago that you said you wanted him out of your life. Why does he want your ssn for?
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 12:46:46 PM EST

Originally Posted By GeorgiaBII:
put a fraud alert on your credit report

And call and ask him WHY he wants the info.



This
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 12:57:10 PM EST

Originally Posted By XDBACKUPGUN:

Originally Posted By GeorgiaBII:
put a fraud alert on your credit report

And call and ask him WHY he wants the info.



This



Im not calling him directly he doesnt have my number at this point.

He said he wants to do he can make me his beneficiary on insurance and such. I heard (from 3rd party) his wife ripped him out of alot of money and left him bad in debt.

Also my name is Kendall H. .........
His is Kendall B ..........

So with a little info I suspect fraud would be easily done
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 12:57:39 PM EST

Originally Posted By XDBACKUPGUN:


XD, if you ever need to switch avatars...

Link Posted: 7/19/2008 12:57:40 PM EST
Originally Posted By Evil_Ed:
www.misplaced.net/~obremski/stuff/thesolution.jpg

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consider it alot

Step 1 would make me happy
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 1:02:59 PM EST

Originally Posted By jnojr:

Originally Posted By Taxman:
Im sure some of you have heard the prev problems I have had with him.

Now he is calling up harassing my mother and grandmother trying to get my SSN


Link?

Not sure why your father wouldn't have your SSN, or what he'd want it for...


Umm, I don't know---maybe like my dad did and get credit cards in my name and run up $20,000? (I'm a Jr., he's a Sr., being my dad he obviously knew my SS number, wasn't too hard apparently).
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 1:07:09 PM EST

Originally Posted By ABNAK:

Originally Posted By jnojr:

Originally Posted By Taxman:
Im sure some of you have heard the prev problems I have had with him.

Now he is calling up harassing my mother and grandmother trying to get my SSN


Link?

Not sure why your father wouldn't have your SSN, or what he'd want it for...


Umm, I don't know---maybe like my dad did and get credit cards in my name and run up $20,000? (I'm a Jr., he's a Sr., being my dad he obviously knew my SS number, wasn't too hard apparently).


Thats what I figure

I wonder if I should remove my cash from bank account to be safe, he knows what bank I use and the mailing address
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 1:18:29 PM EST

Originally Posted By Taxman:

Originally Posted By ABNAK:

Originally Posted By jnojr:

Originally Posted By Taxman:
Im sure some of you have heard the prev problems I have had with him.

Now he is calling up harassing my mother and grandmother trying to get my SSN


Link?

Not sure why your father wouldn't have your SSN, or what he'd want it for...


Umm, I don't know---maybe like my dad did and get credit cards in my name and run up $20,000? (I'm a Jr., he's a Sr., being my dad he obviously knew my SS number, wasn't too hard apparently).


Thats what I figure

I wonder if I should remove my cash from bank account to be safe, he knows what bank I use and the mailing address


My father did this to me after I turned 18. Opened a credit card in my name and SSN. He racked up more than $10,000 on that card, and didn't pay a dime.

I didn't know about it for a few years. Wife and I pulled my credit a bit before we decided to buy a house, and sure enough, surprise. By the time we found out about it, it was easier to just wait till it dropped off the report than to fight it.


Link Posted: 7/19/2008 2:21:45 PM EST

Originally Posted By Taxman:

Originally Posted By ABNAK:

Originally Posted By jnojr:

Originally Posted By Taxman:
Im sure some of you have heard the prev problems I have had with him.

Now he is calling up harassing my mother and grandmother trying to get my SSN


Link?

Not sure why your father wouldn't have your SSN, or what he'd want it for...


Umm, I don't know---maybe like my dad did and get credit cards in my name and run up $20,000? (I'm a Jr., he's a Sr., being my dad he obviously knew my SS number, wasn't too hard apparently).


Thats what I figure

I wonder if I should remove my cash from bank account to be safe, he knows what bank I use and the mailing address


Set up a MANDATORY password with the bank on all your accounts. No password, no access to ANYTHING.
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 3:14:33 PM EST

Originally Posted By fxntime:

Originally Posted By Taxman:

Originally Posted By ABNAK:

Originally Posted By jnojr:

Originally Posted By Taxman:
Im sure some of you have heard the prev problems I have had with him.

Now he is calling up harassing my mother and grandmother trying to get my SSN


Link?

Not sure why your father wouldn't have your SSN, or what he'd want it for...


Umm, I don't know---maybe like my dad did and get credit cards in my name and run up $20,000? (I'm a Jr., he's a Sr., being my dad he obviously knew my SS number, wasn't too hard apparently).


Thats what I figure

I wonder if I should remove my cash from bank account to be safe, he knows what bank I use and the mailing address


Set up a MANDATORY password with the bank on all your accounts. No password, no access to ANYTHING.


Now I got to get to the bank and Im working all week, fuck
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 3:17:47 PM EST
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 3:26:24 PM EST
[Last Edit: 7/19/2008 3:27:04 PM EST by Marksman14]
Hes probably sick and fucking tired of hearing you bitch about your GTO and GM.

Link Posted: 7/19/2008 5:09:14 PM EST

Originally Posted By Marksman14:
Hes probably sick and fucking tired of hearing you bitch about your GTO and GM.



He can come I'll take out that agression on him
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 5:11:55 PM EST

Originally Posted By Marksman14:
Hes probably sick and fucking tired of hearing you bitch about your GTO and GM.


I LOL'd Good one, Marksman14.
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 5:36:41 PM EST

Thats what I figure

I wonder if I should remove my cash from bank account to be safe, he knows what bank I use and the mailing address


Change banks. Or at least, write a registered letter to your bank stating your concerns. That way if he DOES clean you out, the bank has been warned and can be held liable.

but I'd change banks to prevent this.
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 5:55:17 PM EST
I don't believe SSN's are required for life insurance beneficiary info. He can list you as beneficiary and send you a copy of the policy. Problem solved.

jd1
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 7:25:14 PM EST
Link Posted: 7/19/2008 8:00:37 PM EST

Originally Posted By jd1:
I don't believe SSN's are required for life insurance beneficiary info. He can list you as beneficiary and send you a copy of the policy. Problem solved.

jd1



Only info needed is a name and what relationship the person has with you , i.e. son , daughter , wife , friend ect .
Link Posted: 7/20/2008 3:29:21 AM EST

Originally Posted By FrankSymptoms:

Thats what I figure

I wonder if I should remove my cash from bank account to be safe, he knows what bank I use and the mailing address


Change banks. Or at least, write a registered letter to your bank stating your concerns. That way if he DOES clean you out, the bank has been warned and can be held liable.

but I'd change banks to prevent this.


I swapped all but min balance over last night to another online bank I use from the local one, he doesnt know about that one
Link Posted: 7/20/2008 3:34:54 AM EST
Restraining order?



What do you guys mean by "SSN"?



Link Posted: 7/20/2008 3:42:02 AM EST
Social security number.
Link Posted: 7/20/2008 3:45:50 AM EST
Sorry about your problems. Is it at all possible that he really does want to list you as a beneficiary on a Life Insurance policy. I had to get my sister's SSN to list her as a secondary on one of my policies. Hope you get it all worked out, as family can really get you down sometimes.
Link Posted: 7/20/2008 4:05:01 AM EST
[Last Edit: 7/20/2008 4:06:42 AM EST by quijanos]
You can get your ssn secured using one of those credit protection companies



Here it is Taxman....its called Life Lock
Link Posted: 7/20/2008 4:05:20 AM EST

Originally Posted By oulufinn:
Sorry about your problems. Is it at all possible that he really does want to list you as a beneficiary on a Life Insurance policy. I had to get my sister's SSN to list her as a secondary on one of my policies. Hope you get it all worked out, as family can really get you down sometimes.


Been ripped off by him 4 times soo far and had him call the cops on me multiple times.

I dont think he wants to help me
Link Posted: 7/20/2008 4:07:29 AM EST
check my post above and the link

may be worth a year subscription....
Link Posted: 7/20/2008 4:20:33 AM EST
[Last Edit: 7/20/2008 4:24:13 AM EST by pdg45acp]
I just did a will using NOLO and I needed my kids' SSNs to do it.

I needed my kids' SSNs to fill out the beneficiary part of my life insurance, IRAs and 401K.

If you don't like him that much tell him to fuck off and that you don't want his money.

Link Posted: 7/20/2008 10:08:20 AM EST

Originally Posted By pdg45acp:
I just did a will using NOLO and I needed my kids' SSNs to do it.

I needed my kids' SSNs to fill out the beneficiary part of my life insurance, IRAs and 401K.

If you don't like him that much tell him to fuck off and that you don't want his money.



I have told him to fuck off many times and offered "encouragement" to leave me alone
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