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Posted: 1/15/2015 10:18:15 PM EST
I know it's been done before, but I can't find any threads on it. I'm curious, as I believe most married men don't give their wife the code to their safe. I know a lot do, but I feel like the majority do not.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:19:28 PM EST
She does not but only because she doesn't care to know it. She'd forget it anyway. I would give it to her if she wanted to know.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:19:46 PM EST
We both do so we both have access to the firearms. If I'm hurt last thing I want it to have to wait for here to be told the code...
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:20:05 PM EST
She couldn't care less.

She was shocked that I didn't want her to just give my guns to the police after my death.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:20:50 PM EST
She knows because in the event she needs something out of it (jewelry, paperwork, ect) she can grab it without needing me.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:21:12 PM EST
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:22:29 PM EST
She doesn't have it memorized but knows where to find it.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:22:36 PM EST
Told mine the combo but she did not care enough to remember it. She has keys to lock box for her gun.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:22:45 PM EST
My 16 year old son is the only other person besides me that can get into my safes besides me.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:23:24 PM EST
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Originally Posted By f402mech:
She knows because in the event she needs something out of it (jewelry, paperwork, ect) she can grab it without needing me.
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This was really the only explanation I could think of. In which case, I'd opt to get her a better safe for such things with a higher fire rating, smaller, and easier to hide.

As far as her needing a firearm, I figure at least one will be out of the safe if I'm home.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:26:00 PM EST
She hasn't committed it to memory, but she knows where to find it.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:28:58 PM EST
Yes she does. She has guns and other stuff in it and does not have to bother me if she needs them.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:29:20 PM EST
My security container, due to SWMBO's indifference, is an outstanding place to store gifts for Christmas, birthday, anniversary, etc.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:29:55 PM EST
Of course, and she can get into it as quick as I can. Wouldn't have it any other way.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:30:27 PM EST
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My security container, due to SWMBO's indifference, is an outstanding place to store gifts for Christmas, birthday, anniversary, etc.
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I had to look that up.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:32:04 PM EST
I have four safes.

My wife doesn't know any of the safes combos. never asked.

I could be hiding dead hookers in there and she'd have no idea.


Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:33:07 PM EST
My wife knows that if she's ever asked by anyone, that she does not know the code and she does not consent to any searches.

Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:33:45 PM EST
Weird, my wife knows all my passwords.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:33:49 PM EST
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Originally Posted By Dynamo:
She does not but only because she doesn't care to know it. She'd forget it anyway. I would give it to her if she wanted to know.
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This, this, and this.
If I die an untimely death, that steel box will likely stay locked for a long time. It might eventually become an ARFCOM safe thread worth following.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:34:26 PM EST
Yup, her pistol is kept in it, along side mine.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:36:24 PM EST
She does not care
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:37:25 PM EST
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Originally Posted By Dynamo:
She does not but only because she doesn't care to know it. She'd forget it anyway. I would give it to her if she wanted to know.
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Pretty much sums it up
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:38:07 PM EST
Of course we both know it. We both have a plethora of guns in there.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:39:34 PM EST



I have a key and she has no idea.

I think my son does though.


Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:40:02 PM EST
Yes she does because her guns and ammo are in there.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:40:28 PM EST
The clues to my safe combination are buried near several landmarks around the country. You must stand in the northwest corner of my livingroom on the Vernal equinox to begin the quest.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:42:09 PM EST
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Originally Posted By Chaingun:

Pretty much sums it up
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Originally Posted By Chaingun:
Originally Posted By Dynamo:
She does not but only because she doesn't care to know it. She'd forget it anyway. I would give it to her if she wanted to know.

Pretty much sums it up



Same.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:42:41 PM EST
She has not taken the effort to memorize the combination, so no access.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:44:01 PM EST
Damn, I wish I added whether or not she keeps anything in your safe....
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:44:23 PM EST
Yes.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:44:54 PM EST
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Originally Posted By Dynamo:
She does not but only because she doesn't care to know it. She'd forget it anyway. I would give it to her if she wanted to know.
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Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:49:44 PM EST
yep we share everything, If I cant trust her we don't need to be married.

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Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:50:42 PM EST
If she wanted to know it, I'd give it to her. She has specifically asked for me to not tell it to her. She's on both of the Trusts, so it's not like she can't touch stuff, and she knows how much cash, precious metals, and how much the guns are worth on the used market, so if something happens to me she can move it. Although, she knows to go to the lawyer to coordinate selling everything.

All of this reminds me, I need to get another RSC for the non-gun stuff.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:50:58 PM EST
She knows. Its the same as the security system. I keep spare cash in there for her so she actually uses it sometimes. She doesnt shoot.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:51:40 PM EST
I've told her what the combo is several times. She does not have the code to the safe.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:53:45 PM EST
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Originally Posted By Naamah:
Of course we both know it. We both have a plethora of guns in there.
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This. all my safes and the walk in vault . We are a team
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:53:50 PM EST
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Originally Posted By DukeFan23:
Of course, and she can get into it as quick as I can. Wouldn't have it any other way.
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That is our situation. Her firearms are in there, too. Along with a strongbox containing our passports and documents with passwords to websites, financial info and other things we may need.

We can both get in to the safe pretty quickly. I can look at her CZs, and she can look at my XDs.

Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:55:58 PM EST
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Originally Posted By Rickesis:
She hasn't committed it to memory, but she knows where to find it.
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Same. She also has a list of which ones to sell and which ones go to each kid.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:55:59 PM EST
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Originally Posted By DrRemulak:
She does not care
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This. No matter how many times I stress the importance of her knowing it. I think I'm going to try locking her vibrator in the safe when I go TDY.... She'd be fucking certain to learn the combo then...
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 10:56:20 PM EST
Wife knows my combo. What is the point of wife if you can't trust her?
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 11:00:00 PM EST
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Originally Posted By Dynamo:
She does not but only because she doesn't care to know it. She'd forget it anyway. I would give it to her if she wanted to know.
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This is pretty much my wife too. I have told her, but she does not care or seem to want to know.
I gave the combination to my son, so when I go, he can have a field day.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 11:00:12 PM EST
yes she does, she has "stuff" in there, and my son, who is out of state has it, since he is administrator of the will.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 11:00:26 PM EST
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Originally Posted By Torque556:

I had to look that up.
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Originally Posted By Torque556:
Originally Posted By Azygos:
My security container, due to SWMBO's indifference, is an outstanding place to store gifts for Christmas, birthday, anniversary, etc.

I had to look that up.

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She only has the night stand unit combo.
She has no need to access the other one.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 11:01:02 PM EST
Yes, but we have documents in it too.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 11:02:25 PM EST
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 11:02:32 PM EST
Never been discussed here before.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 11:05:49 PM EST
Not married, but when I was my wife couldn't open my safe. If I ever get married again it'll probably stay that way. She can have her own safe if she's into guns.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 11:06:57 PM EST
I don't have a safe, I do have a gorgeous oak gun cabinet that my grandpa built for me though. She knows where the keys are, right in the lock.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 11:07:48 PM EST
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This. No matter how many times I stress the importance of her knowing it. I think I'm going to try locking her vibrator in the safe when I go TDY.... She'd be fucking certain to learn the combo then...
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Originally Posted By DrRemulak:
She does not care



This. No matter how many times I stress the importance of her knowing it. I think I'm going to try locking her vibrator in the safe when I go TDY.... She'd be fucking certain to learn the combo then...



Pretty much. Maybe I'll try that too.

I've told her the combo, but she chooses not to remember because it isn't important to her.

I also told her where the combo is written down. I doubt she remembers.

For the lock box next to the bed I just gave her the back up key.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 11:08:07 PM EST
But it's not a sure thing she could open it.

Especially on the first try.
Link Posted: 1/15/2015 11:08:22 PM EST
Yes.

There is shit in there that could save her life.

Why wouldn't I want her to save her life???
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