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Posted: 5/12/2008 4:54:53 AM EDT
Seriously how many guys here have failed marriages . It it really alot or do we just hear about the disasters ?

Link Posted: 5/12/2008 4:55:41 AM EDT
Figure how many have been married, then divide by two.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 4:56:00 AM EDT
38. Married for 14 years.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 4:56:51 AM EDT
First marriage - Divorce

Second marriage - Widowed
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:23:43 AM EDT
Married...but planning my escape in the not-too-distant future.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:24:46 AM EDT
Single like a mofo.  
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:26:31 AM EDT

Quoted:
Single like a mofo.  
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:26:37 AM EDT
I've been imprisoned in one marriage for 30 years.
It looks like I'll never escape.
And I'm damn glad of it.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:28:07 AM EDT

Quoted:

Quoted:
Single like a mofo.  
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:28:25 AM EDT
There's no arfcom curse. I'd say as a whole we are well below the national divorce rate.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:28:40 AM EDT

Quoted:
First marriage - Divorce

Second marriage - Widowed


I'm sorry for your loss.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:29:35 AM EDT
Knew the first wife for two weeks before getting married.  It only lasted seventeen years.

Have been together with the second wife for twenty one years now.  
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:31:22 AM EDT
Your poll sucks.  No choice for divorced and remarried multiple times.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:39:13 AM EDT
Since I am legally married, I always answer this question as "Married".  In reality though, my wife/ex-wife and I own separate homes and have lived apart for 5 years.  I also pay her child support directly, all of this is done without involving the courts.  We both have a steady "significant other" and do not plan to get back together.  It's simply more convenient to remain married at the moment, but we will eventually get divorced, probably when one of us decided to marry someone else or our daughter turns 18, whichever comes first.

See how a question asking for marital status is useless now?  It is just a legality thing, and doesn't really tell you anything about that person beyond that.  
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:44:17 AM EDT
Had my first marriage annulled after 6 mos.

Been with honorable # 2 wife (as she puts it) going on 20 years.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:46:54 AM EDT
I was married once, for two years divorced for eighteen. Long term live in relationship with my sons mother, for five years. No long term relationship since then, none of any kind for the past two.
Flyingrhino
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:47:41 AM EDT
never married, but then again I'm still in college.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:54:17 AM EDT
2 divorces and working on escaping the third one
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:54:26 AM EDT
I'm currently engaged to a wonderful woman.  I couldn't have picked it any better.  

She loves to cook for me, she doesn't mind me having guns, she won't discuss politics, she's easy maintence, she's frugal with money (which is a good thing since I like to spend), she loves giving me massages, she loves to take care of me, and she's beautiful... I couldn't ask for more.




ETA:  And she's Italian... and she knows how to cook Italian food... my second favorite.  In fact, she's trying to learn how to cook my first favorite... Chinese food.  My mother is teaching her how because she wants to cook my favorite foods.  As long as I take good care of her, she will take good care of me.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 5:59:38 AM EDT

Quoted:
Since I am legally married, I always answer this question as "Married".  In reality though, my wife/ex-wife and I own separate homes and have lived apart for 5 years.  I also pay her child support directly, all of this is done without involving the courts.  We both have a steady "significant other" and do not plan to get back together.  It's simply more convenient to remain married at the moment, but we will eventually get divorced, probably when one of us decided to marry someone else or our daughter turns 18, whichever comes first.

See how a question asking for marital status is useless now?  It is just a legality thing, and doesn't really tell you anything about that person beyond that.  


Poll is full of fail because it also doesn't account for people divorced and remarried.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 6:09:04 AM EDT
Married and at least I do not know if she is filing for a Divorce.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 6:16:45 AM EDT
34 yrs old
Very happily married for 5 yrs.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 6:16:48 AM EDT
Happily married.  My husband is also my business partner.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 6:19:45 AM EDT
Married @ 17 and so far it's lasted 32 years.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 6:23:58 AM EDT
marriage should not be viewed as just a legality matter. It is a bond shared between two people. It is more than just the law stating that you are married. People have odd ways of viewing what a marriage is. or maybe I am the odd one
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 2:32:44 PM EDT
for the purposes of the poll divorced is divorced unless you remarried the same person.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 2:33:35 PM EDT
I am on my second marriage.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 2:35:30 PM EDT
33 & married for 10 years, been with her for 15.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 2:35:31 PM EDT
Happily married for almost 5 years.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 2:37:58 PM EDT
Seperated, in the process of getting divorced after almost 15 years marriage, 3 years dating before that
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 2:38:26 PM EDT

Quoted: Seriously how many guys here have failed marriages . It it really alot or do we just hear about the disasters ?
I just need to find me a new woman who has her own guns and is willing to buy me more.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 2:40:23 PM EDT
wife 2.0 > wife 1.fail
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 2:40:32 PM EDT
Not married, and don't have much desire to be either. If I met the right woman I'm sure that'd change though, I just haven't yet.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 2:48:03 PM EDT
Happily married and getting more so. 14 years and counting.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 2:48:22 PM EDT
Married never been happier.

We take care of each other instead of taking care of ourselves.

When both people in a relationship do that, things work themselves out.

Most of the time, divorce is caused by rampant self-centeredness on one or both sides, not some ARFCOM curse.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 2:51:55 PM EDT
My current status is nobody's fucking business.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 3:00:30 PM EDT
never married.
Link Posted: 5/12/2008 3:03:43 PM EDT
Isn't everyone "in the process" of divorce - even if they aren't married yet?  

OK - for you happily married guys - that's a joke.  
Link Posted: 6/5/2008 2:50:00 PM EDT

Quoted:
Your poll sucks.  No choice for divorced and remarried multiple times.


For purposes of this poll divorces is divorced (even if remarried)

Widowed is married .


Cause I can't edit the poll
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