She called me again this morning ranting and lamenting. I repeated my advice to her and told her to calm down. Everything's a crisis to her!
Sis: "I've got an interview and can't take my son to baseball tryouts tuesday!" "Can you take him?"
Me: "Can Dad take him?"(I'll be out of town tuesday)
Sis: "He's not supportive enough!"
Me: "Well, just talk to him, and tell him your concerns. After all you're both adults"
Sis: "I don't see why (boyfriend) can't take him!"
Me: "Do you think he is going to be more supportive that his grandfather?
"Do you know anyone else that can take him?"
"Can you change your interview?"
Sis: "No!" Nobody cares about(xxxxxx)!" Nobody cares about kids anymore!"
Me: "I wish I could do it but I'll be out of state. (FWIW I live 64 miles from my Dad & sister)
"Perhaps you could call one of your friends."
I love my sister but dysfunctional is dysfunctional! I have never observed my nephew even having an interest in sports. I know she is trying to be a good mother, but geez! How about some priorities! I think it's more important for her to get a job to support 'her son" than to make sure he gets to "little league."
If anyone ever points this out to her she immediately launches into the "Oh Woe is me!" "My son doesn't have a Dad!" "I work so hard, etc."
(I don't blame the boyfriend for distancing himself. I guess I'll try to be the "good brother" and stay positive.
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