Is this a creepy move?

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Posted: 12/16/2010 9:15:43 AM EDT

Just got back from a local jewelers buying the gf some jewelry for xmas. The lady helping me was very nice, and also pretty attractive probably in her mid 30's. Anyways we were chit chatting shooting the shit and she said i can gift wrap these as well.

Well I never really thanked her for going the extra step and doing it. She told me her name (also got it on the receipt) so I was thinking about facebookin her and saying thank you in a message.

creepy or no?

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:18:25 AM EDT

[#1]

DO NOT DO IT. Going outside of the professional relm (ie into someone's personal life) is a major no-no, unless you're trying to pull this woman into a three-way with your GF's existing consent. Your GF will rightfully think you're flirting, and the saleswoman will think the same. Both will probably not be pleased with your actions.

You are a moran for even asking.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:18:52 AM EDT

[#2]

Quoted:
Just got back from a local jewelers buying the gf some jewelry for xmas. The lady helping me was very nice, and also pretty attractive probably in her mid 30's. Anyways we were chit chatting shooting the shit and she said i can gift wrap these as well.

Well I never really thanked her for going the extra step and doing it. She told me her name (also got it on the receipt) so I was thinking about facebookin her and saying thank you in a message.

creepy or no?

Are you "Facebooking" her because you really just want to say thank you, or because she was "very nice, and also pretty attractive probably in her mid 30's"?

I would say it is not necessary to track her down to say thank you. She does that all day, its her job.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:19:04 AM EDT

[#3]

Planning to dump the gf after buying her jewelry??

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:20:24 AM EDT

[#4]

are you serious? no way man, don't do it.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:21:05 AM EDT

[#5]

First post and all that.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:21:47 AM EDT

[#6]

No, No and No.

ETA: This is my answer for "should I do it" and not "is this creepy"

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:22:30 AM EDT

[#7]

Yes, it is creepy.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:22:51 AM EDT

[#8]

Creepy. Stalkerish. Hell no dont do it.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:23:06 AM EDT

[#9]

I say do it. Your plan is solid.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:23:17 AM EDT

[#10]

If the store has a web site, see if they have a "CONTACT US" or e-mail address. Send a note to her boss and let them know she went above and beyond. She gets credit for her efforts, it's impersonal enough to avoid the flirt / creepy factor - everyone wins.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:23:24 AM EDT

[#11]

I wouldn't do it, it won't end well. Most stores will wrap gifts around the holiday season, I've been asked alot of times by the cashier if I wanted the gift wrapped.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:23:31 AM EDT

[#12]

This is GD - DO IT - what could possibly go wrong?

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:23:39 AM EDT

[#13]

ETA: On second though, do it.

Your plan: Creepy.

My plan: Facebook the local jewelry store, and comment publicly on their wall how they go the extra mile.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:25:50 AM EDT

[#14]

Quoted:
Just got back from a local jewelers buying the gf some jewelry for xmas. The lady helping me was very nice, and also pretty attractive probably in her mid 30's. Anyways we were chit chatting shooting the shit and she said i can gift wrap these as well.

Well I never really thanked her for going the extra step and doing it. She told me her name (also got it on the receipt) so I was thinking about facebookin her and saying thank you in a message.

creepy or no?

Aren't you the gentleman that was complaining about his girlfriend bugging you about wanting to get married and have babies?

Sounds like you are looking for an upgrade...you might want to let your current girl go.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:26:24 AM EDT

[#15]

Quoted:

Well I never really thanked her for going the extra step and doing it.

IT'S HER JOB !!

She didn't go out of her way, she just did her job.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:26:49 AM EDT

[#16]

you grow orchids, don't you?

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:27:11 AM EDT

[#17]

If you were that impressed with her, call the store, ask to speak to the manager, and then explain what a pleasant transaction it was and how helpful she was. DO NOT STALK "Facebook" her.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:27:28 AM EDT

[#18]

Really?

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:27:50 AM EDT

[#19]

Quoted:

Quoted:

Well I never really thanked her for going the extra step and doing it.

IT'S HER JOB !!

She didn't go out of her way, she just did her job.

Whatever! Did you see how that stripper was looking at me?!?!?!

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:28:22 AM EDT

[#20]

NO

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:28:31 AM EDT

[#21]

Quoted:

Quoted:

Well I never really thanked her for going the extra step and doing it.

IT'S HER JOB !!

She didn't go out of her way, she just did her job.

Whatever! Did you see how that stripper was looking at me?!?!?!

No kidding.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:29:01 AM EDT

[#22]

Dude do not marry this girl you are clearly not ready to commit

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:29:05 AM EDT

[#23]

Quoted:
If you were that impressed with her, call the store, ask to speak to the manager, and then explain what a pleasant transaction it was and how helpful she was. DO NOT STALK "Facebook" her.

this

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:29:08 AM EDT

[#24]

Quoted:

Quoted:

Well I never really thanked her for going the extra step and doing it.

IT'S HER JOB !!

She didn't go out of her way, she just did her job.

Whatever! Did you see how that stripper was looking at me?!?!?!

LOL

Good to know thanks gents!

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:29:10 AM EDT

[#25]

WTF, how old are you? The hot saleslady was being hot and flirty to get you to spend more money and to earn more commissions.

Do you fall in love with waitresses?

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:29:25 AM EDT

[#26]

Quoted:
I say do it. Your plan is solid.

Fortuna Favet Fortibus!

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:30:36 AM EDT

[#27]

Quoted:
I say do it. Your plan is solid.

This.

Sounds like a reasonable thing to do.

And also, post AAR.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:30:38 AM EDT

[#28]

Yes. Creepy.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:30:47 AM EDT

[#29]

DO NOT FO

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:30:56 AM EDT

[#30]

So you are gonna take time to find her on facebook and send her a message to thank her? C R E E P Y ! ! ! ! Jeebus imagine if every guy started doing that to her, she would have to start giving out a fake name or close her facebook account.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:32:26 AM EDT

[#31]

Have you thought about dropping flowers off at her store?

Maybe she likes orchids.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:35:10 AM EDT

[#32]

Drum/retard

You know what to do

You know what you want to do, else you wouldn't be asking.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:35:37 AM EDT

[#33]

BradleyC? Is that you?

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:36:26 AM EDT

[#34]

Quoted:
WTF, how old are you? The hot saleslady was being hot and flirty to get you to spend more money and to earn more commissions.

Do you fall in love with waitresses?

+1

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:36:45 AM EDT

[#35]

Quoted:
Have you thought about dropping flowers off at her store?

Maybe she likes orchids.

Flowers? She gift wrapped a freaking present for his gf, not like she donated an organ to him. While not as stalkerish as the Facebook message, any kind of contact other than calling the manager and saying she did a good job is plain weird.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:40:29 AM EDT

[#36]

Are you fucking kidding me?

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:54:15 AM EDT

[#37]

I wouldn't do it.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:54:27 AM EDT

[#38]

Go back in and have her bend over alot getting stuff out of the display for you. If that is good, then fb stalk her. Yes, do the friend thing to her and all of her female and gay friends too.

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:57:27 AM EDT

[#39]

Screw that!

Wait outside the store.

Follow her home.

Knock on door and say "Just wanna thank you for wrappin those gifts, hehehe."

What could possibly go wrong?

Posted: 12/16/2010 9:58:17 AM EDT

[#40]

Am I the first one to say...

DO IT AND POST BACK

Posted: 12/16/2010 10:00:19 AM EDT

[#41]

Is this a serious question?

Posted: 12/16/2010 10:01:57 AM EDT

[#42]

Quoted:
Screw that!

Wait outside the store.

Follow her home.

Knock on door and say "Just wanna thank you for wrappin those gifts, hehehe Let's not turn this rape into a murder."

What could possibly go wrong?

Posted: 12/16/2010 10:01:59 AM EDT

[#43]

Quoted:
Am I the first one to say...

DO IT AND POST BACK

Pic of restraining order or it didn't happen!

Posted: 12/16/2010 10:02:01 AM EDT

[#44]

answer this: Would you do it if it was a good looking dude?

there is your answer...

Posted: 12/16/2010 10:04:59 AM EDT

[#45]

Yes it's creepy. Just close your eyes, beat off to her memory and be done with it already.

Posted: 12/16/2010 10:05:01 AM EDT

[#46]

I hereby retract my thoughtful and serious responses to you about your girlfriend dilemma in your previous thread.

Posted: 12/16/2010 10:05:26 AM EDT

[#47]

Do you happen to live in Alaska and shop at Home Depot?

Posted: 12/16/2010 10:05:49 AM EDT

[#48]

A professional note to her boss complimenting the good service you received is the correct answer. Anything beyond that is flirting/stalking and the GF will be rightfully pissed.

Posted: 12/16/2010 10:06:18 AM EDT

[#49]

Show up on her doorstep to thank her in person.

Posted: 12/16/2010 10:08:01 AM EDT

[#50]

Worthless without pics of your gf and the jewelry sales woman.

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