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Posted: 8/20/2005 1:26:44 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/20/2005 1:32:36 PM EDT by fadedsun]
My girlfriend left her familys home about a month ago because she felt scared (Of her dad). She won't tell me where she is. I know the name of the Professor she is staying with, and that they're someplace within 500 miles of ohio. The Professor could be working at a local, state, or private college. She hasn't called me back in the past week and a half and I suspect that the professor (Female) is pressuring her to cut off her relationship with me because I'm the last "tie" to the old house.

Any way I can do this?

Link Posted: 8/20/2005 1:27:48 PM EDT

Originally Posted By fadedsun:
My girlfriend left her familys home about a month ago because she felt scared (Of her dad). She won't tell me where she is. I know the name of the Professor she is staying with, and that they're someplace within 500 miles of ohio. The Professor could be working at a local, state, or private college. She hasn't called me back in the past week and a half and I suspect that the professor (Female) is pressuring her to cut off her relationship with me because I'm the last "tie" to the old house.

Any way I can do this?





try putting his name in here

www.zabasearch.com

then matching the city and approximate age of the guy
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 1:29:21 PM EDT
DUDE, if she won't tell you where she is..........you looking for her is stalking.

Give it up.

If she doesn't want you to know where she is at move on down the road. You will be glad you did.
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 1:29:27 PM EDT
Try ENGRISH in your thread title.
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 1:30:49 PM EDT
If she is under 18, maybe call the police and let them find the "runaway" - and maybe file charges against an abusive dad (if warranted).

If she is over 18, let her make her own choices (bad or not).



Link Posted: 8/20/2005 1:32:07 PM EDT
There's 163 people with the same name of the professor.

I am going to be busy.

Link Posted: 8/20/2005 1:34:08 PM EDT

Originally Posted By DK-Prof:
If she is under 18, maybe call the police and let them find the "runaway" - and maybe file charges against an abusive dad (if warranted).

If she is over 18, let her make her own choices (bad or not).






Type fixed. Whoops, missed that one.

She is over 18. Infact, her birthday is coming up here pretty soon. I'm really freaked out man, that's it.
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 1:35:37 PM EDT
if they are a proffesor than it means that they are published. google their name with academic specific terms like - university, .edu, and other such things. then just see which university pops up that is in the area- it will have contact info (office numbers/email) on the univesity's website.
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 1:38:15 PM EDT
Does the professor resemble Donald Sutherland?
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 1:40:04 PM EDT
Is the professor named Ward Churchill?? Seriously-if she won't tell you where she is, I doubt very seriously she is just "staying" with the professor. It's probably some long-haired liberal America-hating professor, and young chicks really dig guys like that. Sorry.
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 1:42:59 PM EDT

Originally Posted By fadedsun:

Originally Posted By DK-Prof:
If she is under 18, maybe call the police and let them find the "runaway" - and maybe file charges against an abusive dad (if warranted).

If she is over 18, let her make her own choices (bad or not).






Type fixed. Whoops, missed that one.

She is over 18. Infact, her birthday is coming up here pretty soon. I'm really freaked out man, that's it.




I understand that. I can give the advice, but I'm not sure I would follow it either

Just don't turn into the "boyfriend stalker"
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 1:43:15 PM EDT
How are we to know it isn't YOU she is fleeing, and not her folks?
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 1:45:27 PM EDT

Originally Posted By DK-Prof:

Originally Posted By fadedsun:

Originally Posted By DK-Prof:
If she is under 18, maybe call the police and let them find the "runaway" - and maybe file charges against an abusive dad (if warranted).

If she is over 18, let her make her own choices (bad or not).






Type fixed. Whoops, missed that one.

She is over 18. Infact, her birthday is coming up here pretty soon. I'm really freaked out man, that's it.




I understand that. I can give the advice, but I'm not sure I would follow it either

Just don't turn into the "boyfriend stalker"



She's staying with you, isn't she?
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 1:45:49 PM EDT

Originally Posted By pieceofstink:
Is the professor named Ward Churchill?? Seriously-if she won't tell you where she is, I doubt very seriously she is just "staying" with the professor. It's probably some long-haired liberal America-hating professor, and young chicks really dig guys like that. Sorry.



No.

The Professor's name is Dr Brenda Harris, from her email. She hates hippies, enough said. That's why she's with me.

Link Posted: 8/20/2005 1:46:34 PM EDT

Originally Posted By rayra:
How are we to know it isn't YOU she is fleeing, and not her folks?



She wouldn't send me messages to send to her dad doofus.

Link Posted: 8/20/2005 1:46:43 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Zippy_The_Wonderdog:

Originally Posted By DK-Prof:

Originally Posted By fadedsun:

Originally Posted By DK-Prof:
If she is under 18, maybe call the police and let them find the "runaway" - and maybe file charges against an abusive dad (if warranted).

If she is over 18, let her make her own choices (bad or not).






Type fixed. Whoops, missed that one.

She is over 18. Infact, her birthday is coming up here pretty soon. I'm really freaked out man, that's it.




I understand that. I can give the advice, but I'm not sure I would follow it either

Just don't turn into the "boyfriend stalker"



She's staying with you, isn't she?



Link Posted: 8/20/2005 3:02:31 PM EDT
start searching the college webites of the colleges in the area. then when you get a hit search an online phonebook for that city to get his address
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 3:07:48 PM EDT

Extension Nutrition Assistant, Family & Consumer Sciences
bharris1@umd.edu

you're welcome


Link Posted: 8/20/2005 3:08:39 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/20/2005 3:09:32 PM EDT by VTwin60]

Originally Posted By fadedsun:
My girlfriend left her familys home about a month ago because she felt scared (Of her dad). She won't tell me where she is. I know the name of the Professor she is staying with, and that they're someplace within 500 miles of ohio. The Professor could be working at a local, state, or private college. She hasn't called me back in the past week and a half and I suspect that the professor (Female) is pressuring her to cut off her relationship with me because I'm the last "tie" to the old house.

Any way I can do this?




Leave her alone. Obviously she doesn't want to be found and obviouly the Professor laying the royal rugged rogering to her doesn't want to be interupted either. Strap ons work the same way as the meat schlong.
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 3:32:14 PM EDT
Faded,
Give her space and yourself some stress relief, write her off for now. If she comes back shes obviously going to do it on her terms , if you pressure her it'll just ruin what feelings she might have for you. Plus if you do contact by doing all types of internet research you look like something of a stalker.
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 3:34:01 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Zippy_The_Wonderdog:
Does the professor resemble Donald Sutherland?



LOL
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 3:34:43 PM EDT

Originally Posted By fadedsun:
My girlfriend left her familys home about a month ago because she felt scared (Of her dad). She won't tell me where she is. I know the name of the Professor she is staying with, and that they're someplace within 500 miles of ohio. The Professor could be working at a local, state, or private college. She hasn't called me back in the past week and a half and I suspect that the professor (Female) is pressuring her to cut off her relationship with me because I'm the last "tie" to the old house.

Any way I can do this?




Seriously what does being fearfull of her father and cutting ties off to you have anything to do with eachother? Oh wait a minute I see.....you can't always make someone love you, all you can do is pray they panic and give in........
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 3:35:56 PM EDT

Originally Posted By raven:

Originally Posted By Zippy_The_Wonderdog:
Does the professor resemble Donald Sutherland?



LOL



I was waiting for someone to finally pick up on that.

The Force is strong with this one...
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 6:00:36 PM EDT
She called me tonight, YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY! Excited to hear from her. She's doing fine and is starting college (again) Tuesday.
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 6:03:26 PM EDT
FYI I asked her not to tell me where she is, because her dad would email me and ask me where she was, and I didn't want to have to lie to him. I can really say I don't know where she is though
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 6:22:57 PM EDT
dood...

go find a new GF
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 6:24:42 PM EDT

Originally Posted By fadedsun:
There's 163 people with the same name of the professor.

I am going to be busy.




Google: Lname, Fname, site:.edu

What does that give you?

Jim

p.s.--No stalking!
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 6:26:34 PM EDT

Originally Posted By fadedsun:

Originally Posted By pieceofstink:
Is the professor named Ward Churchill?? Seriously-if she won't tell you where she is, I doubt very seriously she is just "staying" with the professor. It's probably some long-haired liberal America-hating professor, and young chicks really dig guys like that. Sorry.



No.

The Professor's name is Dr Brenda Harris, from her email. She hates hippies, enough said. That's why she's with me.




Any idea of the professor's subject area? English, Sociology, Psych, etc.?

Looks like you may have already found all you want to know, but if you are still looking...

Jim
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 7:30:50 PM EDT

Originally Posted By KS_Physicist:

Originally Posted By fadedsun:

Originally Posted By pieceofstink:
Is the professor named Ward Churchill?? Seriously-if she won't tell you where she is, I doubt very seriously she is just "staying" with the professor. It's probably some long-haired liberal America-hating professor, and young chicks really dig guys like that. Sorry.



No.

The Professor's name is Dr Brenda Harris, from her email. She hates hippies, enough said. That's why she's with me.




Any idea of the professor's subject area? English, Sociology, Psych, etc.?

Looks like you may have already found all you want to know, but if you are still looking...

Jim



No, I was really worried that something had happened to her-IE somehad had kidnapped her, robbed, mugged, raped, etc and I was beginning to worry. Some guys tried to rape her when she was younger but her brother saved her and I am always very protective of her when we're together. 2 years, 2 months, and fifteen days until I can protect her with more than my fists and feet .

I have no plans to dump her. She has been through a lot lately and she's a great girl. Dumping her now would makes things far worse than what they already are.

Link Posted: 8/20/2005 9:07:33 PM EDT
Don't worry-she's not getting mugged, she's getting RUGGED!!! Especially if the professor is not Ward Churchill, or Donald Sutherland!! Find a new one, dude-she's gone over to the other side!!!
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 9:12:52 PM EDT
Stalking is bad. Psycho.
Link Posted: 8/20/2005 9:26:26 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/20/2005 9:27:16 PM EDT by gmtmaster]
You need to find a new chick.. Dont let her whip you with the P. There is better out there anyway.

Runaway chick = not worth the effort.
Link Posted: 8/22/2005 9:02:11 PM EDT
I heard from her yesterday...she's doing great and is starting college (again) tommorow. She is going to come down to Pensacola and visit me for a few days.

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