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Posted: 5/8/2004 9:10:00 PM EST
This is a thread on a Christian forum. I have no part in this thread. But I can't believe a woman is asking whether it is abuse when her husband throws a baseball cap at her.

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Here's the opening post.


Is it abuse? What should I do?

My husband got angry while we were doing yardwork, and threw his ball cap at me, and the visor on his cap hit my leg and left a big bruise. Nothing is broken, I can walk on it without limping, but I can't get past this because he said he was sorry when I told him the mark it left on my leg, but it wasn't sincere. Now he doesn't wantt o talk about it anymore, and I can't get past this. What should I do?

Michelle



Oh, check out the next post.

i don't feel i have the experience to give advice on what you should do, because i feel i am still learning sooo much.

one thing i do know however, is that YES, that is abuse. without a doubt.



Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:11:12 PM EST
WTF? Was the cap made out of iron?
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:13:40 PM EST

Originally Posted By CloningBagels:
WTF? Was the cap made out of iron?




Just your standard soft cap, but the visor is kinda hard.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:15:03 PM EST
Now what happens when she listens to people on there and calls the cops. I seen it happen to somone who nudged his wife with his foot to wake her up, he wanted to know why she didnt every pay the water bill. Cops were called he went to jail.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:15:47 PM EST
Some people....

If you're going to be accused of abuse, at least make it worth your while. Beat the woman into a bloody pulp.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:15:51 PM EST
Another WTF ?
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:16:49 PM EST
[Last Edit: 5/8/2004 9:17:17 PM EST by MaverickMkii]
1.Why did her husband get angry?

2.BIG Bruise after getting hit with a visor?


Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:20:37 PM EST
After a bit more reflection...

How in the hell can that be considered abuse? Geez, if that is abuse, then I've abused my wife thousands of times.

She sounds like a naive person who is just looking for something to whine & bitch about.

This whole "abuse" culture just toasts my nuts. Everyone is a victim.

Hell, I've met a lot of women that need to be abused.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:24:41 PM EST
Booty duty, she needs some!
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:25:13 PM EST
[Last Edit: 5/8/2004 9:45:06 PM EST by Digitalpunk]
Interesting article, I did some more research and found some pics of her "abusive" husband.




Digital
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:25:19 PM EST
just a flesh wound....
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:26:00 PM EST
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:27:08 PM EST

Originally Posted By SteyrAUG:
clean_cut, stay away from the Christian Forums.

You are like the guy who goes to rotten.com and has the nerve to be grossed out.




Chuckle, snort

I've been banned finally, but I can't help it. It's so fascinating.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:28:03 PM EST
Was the cap bigger than his thumb was round?
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:33:13 PM EST
FYI, I was banned from the Christian forum after a guy confessed to sinning by looking at porn and masturbating.

I told him to go ahead and indulge, that he will never stop despite his many confessions, and that he is just fooling himself.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:33:52 PM EST
[Last Edit: 5/8/2004 9:34:54 PM EST by Mmanwitgun]
Clean cut, you have always seemed to be a smart man, so I have to ask you, why do you go to those Christian forums, I have no problem with religion, but people on that site are pathetic.

Edited to add: Well now that your kicked out, welcome to the dark side....
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:34:42 PM EST
[Last Edit: 5/8/2004 9:35:40 PM EST by clean_cut]

Originally Posted By Mmanwitgun:
Clean cut, you have always seemed to be a smart man, so I have to ask you, why do you go to those Christian forums, I have no problem with religion, but people on that site are pathetic.




It's entertainment?

Actually, it helps me to feel better about myself.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:38:45 PM EST
The dude is undoubtedly a MALL NINJA and has training on how to kill and maim with a ballcap. The bitch was lucky this time...
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:38:53 PM EST

Originally Posted By clean_cut:

Originally Posted By Mmanwitgun:
Clean cut, you have always seemed to be a smart man, so I have to ask you, why do you go to those Christian forums, I have no problem with religion, but people on that site are pathetic.




It's entertainment?



I dunno, the posters from the Christian forums we somewhat entertaining, but mostly they were like injured animals on the side of the road. You know you should put them out of their misery, but legally you can't. (This only applies to the really pathetic posts on that board)
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:40:31 PM EST


He's due an immediate nullification of marriage since she betrayed their vows by impersonating and pretending to be a sane, non-pshycotic human being.


Link Posted: 5/8/2004 10:26:38 PM EST
Who throws a hat... honestly...
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 10:41:08 PM EST
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 10:46:04 PM EST
It's women like this one that believe the crap spewed by the media and groups like HCI, MMM, etc. When I was a street cop, I went to call from women like her, they think because thier husband or boyfriend simply raises his voice in anger or makes a derogatory remark at something they may have done is abusive. I have seen them seek Ex-Parte (orders of protection) Injunctions for this stuff.

The correct term for people like her is Sheeple. Thank you Oprah.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 10:49:48 PM EST
I'm trying really hard to resist registering and responding...
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 12:54:20 AM EST
[Last Edit: 5/9/2004 12:54:54 AM EST by FiveO]

Originally Posted By clean_cut:

Is it abuse? What should I do?

My husband got angry while we were doing yardwork, and threw his ball cap at me, and the visor on his cap hit my leg and left a big bruise. Nothing is broken, I can walk on it without limping...




Well yeah, because you were hit WITH A FUCKING BASEBALL HAT! A HAT YOU STUPID BITCH!

Unbelievable.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 1:26:03 AM EST
I have learned that if you shave their head, they will not call the law on you as much. So far that method has worked.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 1:31:16 AM EST
Wow.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 1:55:26 AM EST
Imagine what she would say if he hit her with one of those assault pillows!
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 2:03:54 AM EST
Abuse? Probably not consistent with the normal use of the word.

If you get mad enough at your spouse to throw anything at them it’s gone too far and if she’s got any brains she should walk.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 2:20:32 AM EST
You guys have it all wrong..... he never threw the hat at her, he was actually attempting to save her life, you see there was a killer bee about to attack her, he simply was defending her by throwing his hat at the bee, total coincidence that the hat hit her.......

h.gif

Pilk
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 3:16:37 AM EST
She need a gun !


She needs to buy a gun and fast !


Link Posted: 5/9/2004 3:53:45 AM EST
Whats the web site for this christian group? I'd like to check it out.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 4:10:05 AM EST

Originally Posted By enigma1:
Another WTF ?



Thats exactly what I was thinking when I read the article.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 4:11:38 AM EST
Why was she out of the kitchen to begin with?

Sgtar15
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 5:06:55 AM EST
My girl and I were horsing around one night. She grabbed me around the neck and pulled juuuust right and *pop*. I was flat on my back for days.. a "subluxation of the rib" the chiro said. Anyone know a good lawyer in NJ? The statute of limitations aint up, and she clearly said "I'm gonna kick your ass" beforehand. Maybe I'll pray for guidance.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 6:14:29 AM EST
I think maybe you should grow a bigger set of balls.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 6:35:41 AM EST
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 6:38:49 AM EST
[Last Edit: 5/9/2004 6:40:25 AM EST by arowneragain]
cleancut, you need to grow up. You get banned from the site, and you get your revenge by posting critiques of the people there? GROW UP. Remember a coupla months ago when everyone was convinced you were an unstable freak and you quit posting and then came back and said you had changed? You lied. This thread is an example of the weird stuff you were doing months ago.


ETA: And I'm not a member there, and do not intend to be, as those folks appear to go off the deep end ON SOME ISSUES.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 6:54:09 AM EST
I bet the lottery that she got hit by something other than a hat!
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 6:57:00 AM EST
Christianity, the religion of peace.
AB
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 6:59:41 AM EST
Dude you are a freak for going to that kind of forum. Get a life.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 10:15:40 AM EST
I am "Mary2004"....


Tee hee....
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 10:23:53 AM EST
Gosh, I hope they don't somehow end up in divorce court-----probably will be a restraining order put out on her husband-----and he will have all of his baseball caps confiscated.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 10:24:15 AM EST
We have a prime example of the pussification of America.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 10:29:26 AM EST

Originally Posted By slash-5:
I am "Mary2004"....


Tee hee....



You register as a troll on there? Your momma would be proud.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 10:48:13 AM EST
im tempted to register and tell her shes a psycho bitch.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 10:55:31 AM EST
ønly abuse if she was married to this guy…



Andy
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 10:57:30 AM EST

Originally Posted By WinstonSmith:
My girl and I were horsing around one night. She grabbed me around the neck and pulled juuuust right and *pop*. I was flat on my back for days.. a "subluxation of the rib" the chiro said. Anyone know a good lawyer in NJ? The statute of limitations aint up, and she clearly said "I'm gonna kick your ass" beforehand. Maybe I'll pray for guidance.



GF kicking your ass.....Brother, I don't believe I'd have told all that.

Seriously though, maybe Kerry could hook her up with a purple heart for her "wound".
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 12:38:23 PM EST
A woman like that WILL seek an order of protection for nonsense, and more likely than not will recieve one. I have seen it first hand on numerous occaisions. This guy needs to run the fuck away right now before her attention starved little (probably fat in all reality) ass gets him in serious trouble. Go find a real woman who doesn't have victimization issues.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 12:53:01 PM EST
Sounds like the guy should have thrown the bat not the cap. Would have got the same shit for the effort.

Geez what a putz!

My wife would have just picked up a rock and beaned me in the head and we both would have gotten a good laugh out of it. Well after I got my stitches.

Tj
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 1:04:54 PM EST
That was not abuse and to Burley "Real men don't hit women, whether you think they need it or not"
Supprised no ne commented on his post. Does that mean some are in agreeance with him or did you just ignore his stupid comments?
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