When I talked to Dad yesterday afternoon, he was told Mom needed a Nursing Home, he told them no she is not going there, we have set up 24/7 care at home. I hope it is the right decision. She is stubborn and gets down easy with her depression. When I talked with her last night she was upset that they made her stay up all day at the hospital yesterday. I bluntly told her she would not be in bed all day at home either. She is going to walk, exercise, do her therapy etc. If not I would leave and Dad could deal with it. She knows this means she will be going to a home if she doesn't do it for us. It's a tough line, but one we have to use with her.
I will be leaving sometime today and hopefully I will have time to check in here at Dads now and then. I'll be there until Friday evening, coming home on the weekend so I can see MrGH. I will probably be back up there next week also.
thanks for the good thoughts, prayers coming her way and please keep them coming for a quick recovery. She had to have 2 pints of blood yesterday for her anemia, so the surgery did a number on her in more ways then one.