Husband Accused Of Forcing Wife To Have Sex Contract

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Posted: 2/21/2006 6:53:41 AM EDT

www.thehawaiichannel.com/family/6812175/detail.html

Husband Accused Of Forcing Wife To Have Sex Contract
Woman Said She Could Earn 'Good Behavior Days'

UPDATED: 11:17 am HST February 7, 2006

COUNCIL BLUFFS, Iowa -- An Iowa man is accused of kidnapping his wife, and prosecutors allege he devised a marriage contract to establish what his wife was to do, and when she was to do it.

Travis Frey, 33, is accused, among other things, of giving his wife chances to win "good behavior days."

Frey is already charged with first-degree kidnapping, which is a crime punishable by life in prison without parole. Frey also faces a charge of domestic assault causing bodily injury on his wife.

"The allegations are that he confined and subjected his wife to sexual abuse," said Pottawattamie County Attorney Matt Wilber.

According to court records, Frey's wife told police her husband tied her to their bed with a rope and sexually assaulted her at least three times. Frey's wife also provided police with an alleged "marriage contract," which was entitled "Contract of Wifely Expectations." In it, Frey allegedly gave his wife chances to earn "good behavior days" -- or GBDs -- by complying with certain demands, such as hygiene and self-care. "You will shave every third day," the contract states. "You will be naked within 20 minutes of the kids being in bed."

The document spells out how many points can be earned by performing certain sex acts.

Frey's wife said she never signed the contract.

"I don't know how they can tie this to my client making any demands on his wife. I mean, I could have put these together. I mean, there's no names. There's names on them and everything, but anyone could have put these documents together," McGinn said.

Frey was in court Friday after he turned himself in to Pottawattamie County authorities on separate charges of downloading child pornography onto his home computer. A judge told the Council Bluffs man that the charges stem from March 2005.

Frey's attorney, Bill McGinn, said the Pottawattamie County Attorney's Office must prove their case.

"They have to show, first of all, what the images are. Second, they have to show he was the one that actually did the downloading," McGinn said.

Frey's attorney said he intends to plead not guilty on all counts, and is expected to bond out of jail this week.

Posted: 2/21/2006 6:56:24 AM EDT

[#1]

Saw that yesterday on thesmokinggun.com...

That man's pimp hand is STRONG.

Posted: 2/21/2006 6:56:40 AM EDT

[#2]

whats the problem?

:)

Posted: 2/21/2006 6:58:07 AM EDT

[#3]

Copy and paste contract.

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:01:41 AM EDT

[#4]

Do I send this to my wife or not.

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:03:08 AM EDT

[#5]

those terms are reasonable

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:05:00 AM EDT

[#6]

This thread is worthless without pics....we need to see the wife in question!

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:07:28 AM EDT

[#7]

This we be consider my bithday gift from you

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:07:36 AM EDT

[#8]

Quoted:
Copy and paste contract.

You cant because its a photo... Anyone write this up???

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:08:24 AM EDT

[#9]

I'd be surprised to find any woman who'd accept that 'contract'... and I don't think I'd really enjoy her company.

I enjoy the company of a woman, not a drone.

Might as well own a sex doll and talk to yourself.

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:11:42 AM EDT

[#10]

thats fucking awesome...LOLOLOL

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:13:14 AM EDT

[#11]

What font did he use for the initial caps? That would be great for an inter-office memo.

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:15:01 AM EDT

[#12]

Quoted:
What font did he use for the initial caps? That would be great for an inter-office memo.

+1

Kharn

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:15:24 AM EDT

[#13]

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:16:52 AM EDT

[#14]

I almost choked eating lunch when I got to the "Except going to church" exclusion clause.

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:17:26 AM EDT

[#15]

Holy shit.

The naked-women-font is a nice touch.

That thing reads like a bad joke.

This is not a contract; it is a description of rules for you.

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:18:46 AM EDT

[#16]

That's hot.

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:22:26 AM EDT

[#17]

I so almost posted this this morning.

Worst thing is I could already predict some of the replies.

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:24:09 AM EDT

[#18]

Should have signed it before he married her..

So what's the problem with the contact itself??

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:25:19 AM EDT

[#19]

"Frey was in court Friday after he turned himself in to Pottawattamie County authorities on separate charges of downloading child pornography onto his home computer. A judge told the Council Bluffs man that the charges stem from March 2005."

www.thehawaiichannel.com/family/6812175/detail.html

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:25:43 AM EDT

[#20]

Quoted:
I so almost posted this this morning.

Worst thing is I could already predict some of the replies.

Ah you just have to keep in mind most males spend most of their lives saying "Yes dear! Anything you say dear." and then you understand the replies.

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:26:06 AM EDT

[#21]

Wooooow.

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:27:54 AM EDT

[#22]

Quoted:
"Frey was in court Friday after he turned himself in to Pottawattamie County authorities on separate charges of downloading child pornography onto his home computer. A judge told the Council Bluffs man that the charges stem from March 2005."

www.thehawaiichannel.com/family/6812175/detail.html

Kiddie porn. Fry the fucker.

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:28:52 AM EDT

[#23]

If he had actually gotten a signature and initials I would have a new hero

Posted: 2/21/2006 7:50:16 AM EDT

[#24]

Quoted:
Do I send this to my wife or not.

Send it and be sure to tell us how it goes

.

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:01:34 AM EDT

[#25]

This should be ammended to the US Constitution

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:06:24 AM EDT

[#26]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Do I send this to my wife or not.

Send it and be sure to tell us how ~~it goes~~ nice the ER nurses were. .

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:09:38 AM EDT

[#27]

Quoted:
whats the problem?

:)

+1!

Ummmm...... can I make a copy of that?....

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:10:25 AM EDT

[#28]

Quoted:
Quoted:
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Do I send this to my wife or not.

Send it and be sure to tell us how ~~it goes~~ nice the ER nurses were. .

I think you should... as a chick I think it's funny and I might even go along with it for a day... just for fun

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:11:55 AM EDT

[#29]

Quoted:
Quoted:
I so almost posted this this morning.

Worst thing is I could already predict some of the replies.

Ah you just have to keep in mind most males spend most of their lives saying "Yes dear! Anything you say dear." and then you understand the replies.

BAH!

Unlike you wimps, I get the LAST WORD in my house!
"Yes, dear..."

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:14:28 AM EDT

[#30]

Bet he called the damn thing "Foreplay."

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:18:08 AM EDT

[#31]

Quoted:
Quoted:
"Frey was in court Friday after he turned himself in to Pottawattamie County authorities on separate charges of downloading child pornography onto his home computer. A judge told the Council Bluffs man that the charges stem from March 2005."

www.thehawaiichannel.com/family/6812175/detail.html

Kiddie porn. Fry the fucker.

If true, yes. Considering how F'd up the home sistuation is, however, I'll reserve judgment until the facts come out. Wife may have been pissed enough to download them herself.

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:19:40 AM EDT

[#32]

I wish I thought of this before I got married

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:24:10 AM EDT

[#33]

"May cuddle, spoon, or touch you at any time". OMG.

It's very screwed up in more ways than one. First, that he actually put this in writing. You just don't demand things like this.

Second, is it possible that her behavior was such that he felt he had to put it in writing?

The answer is YES. I could have written that about my ex wife........she worked hard to avoid all the things this "contract" demands.

Here's a hint guys.......if you find yourself with a woman who won't have pleasurable sex with you, and cuddle with you at night, and does nothing but nag and bitch......GET RID OF HER!!!

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:24:22 AM EDT

[#34]

That looks like a Ds "contract" not something most "vanilla" folks do or even think about.

Most Ds contracts are activley worked on by both players to be something ammicable between them. A cut and paste contract seems, I dunno, cheap to the whole Ds thing.

Perhaps the wife is embarassed to be married to this creep & decided to bring this little gem to light.......... or maybe he thought that she would be interested in the whole Ds thing & , apparently, thought wrong?

It sure doesn't make this guy look any "nicer" to the vanilla world.

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:24:29 AM EDT

[#35]

Tag...for no particular reason.

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:34:19 AM EDT

[#36]

I doubt he typed that up himself. He probably got it from some place else, but if he took it seriously, he has some serious mental issues.

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:41:08 AM EDT

[#37]

Quoted:
That looks like a Ds "contract" not something most "vanilla" folks do or even think about.

Most Ds contracts are activley worked on by both players to be something ammicable between them. A cut and paste contract seems, I dunno, cheap to the whole Ds thing.

Perhaps the wife is embarassed to be married to this creep & decided to bring this little gem to light.......... or maybe he thought that she would be interested in the whole Ds thing & , apparently, thought wrong?

It sure doesn't make this guy look any "nicer" to the vanilla world.

One going theory on Fark.com (where I saw this yesterday) was that this is pretty typical for a dom/sub relationship, only notable thing being he put it on paper...

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:48:26 AM EDT

[#38]

1) That man should pimp.

2) I really don't see what the problem is with the contract; it's only legally binding if she accepts and signs it, and she obviously didn't.

3) Kidnapping and kiddie porn? Fry the fucker. And I mean in the fry cooker vat at McDonald's, not in the electric chair.

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:50:39 AM EDT

[#39]

wait... you mean there's something bad about this contract and I shouldn't follow it anymore??

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:50:56 AM EDT

[#40]

What is sad is I have seen several marriages that are the exact opposite of that contract. One woman I know must have forced her husband to sign a contract saying that it is his job to pay all the bills, he must endure being punched whenever she feels like punching him, he must never question her spending or decisions, and he gets sex once a year IF he hasn't pissed her off...

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:54:54 AM EDT

[#41]

Quoted:
What is sad is I have seen several marriages that are the exact opposite of that contract. One woman I know must have forced her husband to sign a contract saying that it is his job to pay all the bills, he must endure being punched whenever she feels like punching him, he must never question her spending or decisions, and he gets sex once a year IF he hasn't pissed her off...

You know my X?

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:55:01 AM EDT

[#42]

Quoted:
Copy and paste contract.

Can I get that in WORD format?

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:59:52 AM EDT

[#43]

Tag for distribution to my wife at a later time.

Posted: 2/21/2006 8:59:58 AM EDT

[#44]

Quoted:
wait... you mean there's something bad about this contract and I shouldn't follow it anymore??

Posted: 2/21/2006 9:05:53 AM EDT

[#45]

If he gets convicted of kidnapping and sexual abuse and gets life in the pen, I encourage him to try to get his cellmate to sign his little "contract"

Posted: 2/21/2006 9:26:56 AM EDT

[#46]

ETA: Bama-Shooter, you let someone else beat you to a "sex" topic - WTF is wrong with you????

Posted: 2/21/2006 10:05:46 AM EDT

[#47]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Quoted:
Quoted:
Do I send this to my wife or not.

Send it and be sure to tell us how ~~it goes~~ nice the ER nurses were. .

I think you should... as a chick I think it's funny and I might even go along with it for a day... just for fun

You would probably make up a counter contract that reads something like you will bath, pick up after yourself etc. wouldn't you?

Posted: 2/21/2006 2:42:02 PM EDT

[#48]

Quoted:
i12.photobucket.com/albums/a213/xmya55/tag.jpg

ETA: Bama-Shooter, you let someone else beat you to a "sex" topic - WTF is wrong with you????

Ehhh. Can't always be on top of things.

Posted: 2/21/2006 5:01:10 PM EDT

[#49]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Quoted:
Quoted:
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Do I send this to my wife or not.

Send it and be sure to tell us how ~~it goes~~ nice the ER nurses were. .

I think you should... as a chick I think it's funny and I might even go along with it for a day... just for fun

You would probably make up a counter contract that reads something like you will bath, pick up after yourself etc. wouldn't you?

No no no, it would just be for fun, and just for a day. Role playing is good and healthy. And I like making costumes, so I could be creative and come up with some stuff... Jabba the hut, princess leia in chains return of the jedi style come to mind.

Posted: 2/21/2006 5:06:56 PM EDT

[#50]

ooohhhh god thats great bwahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!

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