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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:02:40 AM EDT
I was with one girl for a while, i really loved her and was really comfortable with her. Now with the whole dating and bar scene its kinda intimidating, I dont know why?
Another thing i have noticed is I get very very nervous when a girl starts coming on to me, wow if i am sober its really bad  How can i calm down and play it cool?Sometimes I just start worrying so much its ridiculous  I do ok with the talking part but then when it comes down to her putting her hands on me wow i act like a idiot
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:04:04 AM EDT
[#1]
Ahem.
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:06:47 AM EDT
[#2]
i would not worry about it too much, in my younger days my mind could not focus on woman and complete sentences.
I dont know what to say but maybe you just need to find woman you are more comfortable with? |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:07:19 AM EDT
[#3]
Are you gay?
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:08:55 AM EDT
[#4]
Intimidation, or ignorance of what do do next?
If intimidation, you've got a long, hard life ahead of you... |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:09:24 AM EDT
[#5]
I just figure that if I wanna get laid, we must first communicate. Keep your eyes on the prize.
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:09:45 AM EDT
[#6]
Dude, if chicks intimidate you, you need to work on your confidence and self-esteem.
Good luck. 
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:11:14 AM EDT
[#7]
If the idea of premarital sex intimidates you....count it a blessing. Period.
If it's just the idea of talking to a woman that is intimidating...... They're just women. Simple as that. Nothing to be intimidated by. the worst she can do is quit talking to you if you mess up, and there are far worse things you could have happen. No matter how pretty she is, she's not the last one left...never forget that. |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:12:47 AM EDT
[#8]
no talking is no problem i am actually pretty good at talking with woman its the sex part that gets me, My Religion is getting me on that one i think |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:13:55 AM EDT
[#9]
Count it a blessing. It's 'got' me a few times. Praise the Lord for that. |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:16:16 AM EDT
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A blessing?  It's the only kind of sex I've ever had, and to think for a second that the sexual 3-ring circus I had w/ my girlfriend last weekend was some sort of "mistake"....well....that's just .
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:17:13 AM EDT
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Far worse things. You may thing the worst thing she can do is say no, or maybe laugh. That's not true. She could call the cops on you. It's happened to me. I'm afraid of women. |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:17:41 AM EDT
[#12]
est: ??? your religious convictions won't allow sex?
-HS |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:18:24 AM EDT
[#13]
+1: Good for you. |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:19:09 AM EDT
[#14]
So you ARE intimidated! You are afraid of the major weapon in her arsenal.... |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:22:55 AM EDT
[#15]
Bro, I hope you aren't "saving " yourself for a good christian virgin.....
-HS |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:28:03 AM EDT
[#16]
Be yourself.
Trying to impress, or to be someone you are not is bound to make anyone uncomfortable in their own skin. What I have found is that when you be yourself, talk about your passions and your beliefs, you will lose all sense of nervousness. Discussion will flow. btw, in the long run it works out because you have already laid out who you are so there will be no surprises when the time comes to talk about a "future". EAM 
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:36:29 AM EDT
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You need to put the thought of actual intercourse with any woman to whom you're talking completely out of your mind. Rent the movie The Tao of Steve, but turn it off before it gets to the squishy, predictable, Hollywood ending. You need to project the aura of someone who is very confident and doesn't really care how the conversation, meeting, date or weekend turns out. Be completely in the now and ask her a lot of questions about herself rather than telling stories about yourself.
If you're the one guy all year who is not ravenously, rabidly trying to get into her pants, you'll make an impression and very likely generate some serious interest, if only on novelty value alone. |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:48:03 AM EDT
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NOOOO! Keep your eyes on her FACE. The "prize" doesn't talk and yes, she DOES notice where you're looking! |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:51:41 AM EDT
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Quoted:
I was with one girl for a while, i really loved her and was really comfortable with her. Now with the whole dating and bar scene its kinda intimidating, I dont know why? Another thing i have noticed is I get very very nervous when a girl starts coming on to me, wow if i am sober its really bad How can i calm down and play it cool?]/quote]Realize that the true goal of a woman is to drain your life source of your precious bodily fluids. SGatr15 |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:54:48 AM EDT
[#20]
LOL no i have managed to get laid a few times, God only knows how i pulled it off
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:57:33 AM EDT
[#21]
Yup pretty good racket we have going here too if it wasn't for smucks like you exploiting us for what we really are, good for nothing, vial creatures, put on earth souly to drain men of their precious bodily fluids. Yep, my ability to do what I was created to do would totally be out of wack if it wasn't for my one diversion left. No no, not my breast, breasts do help somewhat distract most men, no for SGatr15 I have to pull out all stops and go for the real ammo.............. What would you like on your sammich? Patty
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Posted: 3/14/2005 10:59:59 AM EDT
[#22]
So you're nervous and uncomfortable talking to women. Relax, you're not gay. It's just your natural sense of self preservation saying...
Danger, stay away!!! Nothing good can come of this. Women are irrational and dangerous and I want nothing to do with them. NO!!! She is not looking at you because she thinks you're cute. She looks because she is seeking out vulnerable prey. NO!!! You idiot don't walk over to her. DANGER, run away!!! Damnit, right into the trap. |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 11:22:33 AM EDT
[#23]
When a chick is coming on to you,
Just remember, they want "it" just as much as you do! Bang-er! It brings a smile to everyone's face. Whenever I find myself in that situation, my fear is I will somehow screw up a golden opportunity. |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 12:11:09 PM EDT
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Posted: 3/14/2005 12:23:07 PM EDT
[#25]
Women sense my power and they seek the life essence.
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Posted: 3/14/2005 12:25:12 PM EDT
[#26]
Just tell-off a handful of them, and that'll remove all hangups you may have.
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Posted: 3/14/2005 12:29:09 PM EDT
[#27]
Probably more... It's really lots of fun to be the target of this. I once dated a 6 foot blonde nympho. Best 5 months of my life. Too bad she was insane... |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 12:30:37 PM EDT
[#28]
Like I said before, many arfcomers suck with woman, and I know I am not one of them
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Posted: 3/14/2005 12:32:24 PM EDT
[#29]
Before you actually meet her, kick her to the curb.
It'll save you time later.
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Posted: 3/14/2005 12:34:54 PM EDT
[#30]
Remember, the gal is probably just as nervous as you are. |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 12:44:00 PM EDT
[#31]
+1000 And sell your guns to your best friend for a buck! You know for safe keeping. |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 2:43:27 PM EDT
[#32]
What kind of relationship can you really have if you're not going to have sex. You going to wait until you get married. I don't think that is a good idea. It would be a shame to find out that the two of you are incompatible sexually on your wedding night. Give me a choice between being in church two to three times per week, or getting laid three times per week, and I'm definitely getting laid.
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Posted: 3/14/2005 2:48:15 PM EDT
[#33]
Drink..... drink a lot...... every chance you get..... just drink......
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Posted: 3/14/2005 2:54:21 PM EDT
[#34]
You just have to quit worrying about it and realize that there a gazillion girls out there, so who cares?
Once you have been dumped, cheated on, divorced, screamed at, etc. you will absolutely no longer frigging care, take 'em or leave 'em, no matter how hot/nice/sweet/rich/poor/whatever they are. And THAT REALLY turns them on!!! I have more and hotter tail interested in me now than I ever did in my whole life, and it started when I decided that it's not going to bother me if I have a woman around or not. And it works out great, if I want to do on a date, I do. If I want to stay home and plink on ARFCOM or sleep in, or go to the range, whatever, there is no nagging you-know-what screaming at me and demanding this or that or the other thing. Best of both worlds. You can have it all, the ironic thing is that you have to totally not care about it! ETA: You still need simple, basic social skills and MANNERS. Women love a man with good manners. |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 2:55:48 PM EDT
[#35]
Forget about nookie and it will be very easy.
CWO |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 3:10:22 PM EDT
[#36]
You know, like nunchuck skills, bowhunting skills, computer hacking skills... Girls only want boyfriends who have great skills
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Posted: 3/14/2005 3:15:24 PM EDT
[#37]
Just keep playing the game. Your social skills and confidence will slowly improve.
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Posted: 3/14/2005 3:22:33 PM EDT
[#38]
Those are wise words arownergain, helps to have guys like you to explain complex things so simply to a young pup like me. |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 3:41:29 PM EDT
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Pray for GOD's guidance...treat them with respect...and if they start pissing you off,shake them off like dust on your feet.
 
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Posted: 3/14/2005 3:51:34 PM EDT
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and if you don't have any good ones, cck will let you borrow some. I love this type of thread..... I think you are misreading your feelings. If you feel uneasy about some "girl" coming on to you, it is probably for a good reason. When you find one that you "click" with everything will work out. |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 3:59:25 PM EDT
[#41]
Extremely sage advice right there - I suggest you read it a few times, and let it sink in... - georgestrings |
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Posted: 3/14/2005 4:16:55 PM EDT
[#42]
The quickest way to a womans heart, is through her f**kin' ribcage.
AB |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 4:04:18 PM EDT
[#43]
Hmmm, church IS a good place to troll for pussy... |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 4:49:32 PM EDT
[#44]
Just remember, it ain't premarital sex if you don't marry her.
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