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Posted: 9/29/2004 5:12:52 PM EDT
OK, I've got to ask.   How many of you guys would have a problem dating a woman that your friend had just recently screwed after the two having met only twice for a total of maybe 3 hours total?  We aren't talking about a relationship here.  She says it was just F'ing and acts as if it was no big deal..  Am I the only one that would have a problem dating a woman that did this with a good friend?
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:15:16 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:16:15 PM EDT
[#2]
....post pics
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:16:31 PM EDT
[#3]
Jump'em


Pump'em


Dump'em




Don't expect any better treatment.
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:16:50 PM EDT
[#4]

I would not have anything to do with this woman.  She has no respect for herself, or you.

Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:17:14 PM EDT
[#5]
I don't really care WHO she did it with as much as the fact that she seems to have a very casual attitude about sex.

If it trips her trigger cool-n-groovy for her but I wouldn't make any l-o-n-g range plans with her.
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:17:58 PM EDT
[#6]
Stuff it in her pooper and post pics!!!

OK, I had to get that out the way.  Someone was bound to say it.
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:18:50 PM EDT
[#7]
I wouldn't expect anything to last longer than milk left out in the middle of summer with this one.

Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:19:00 PM EDT
[#8]
You're gonna think of it every time you see your buddy.
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:20:11 PM EDT
[#9]

Quoted:
I would not have anything to do with this woman.  She has no respect for herself, or you.




Avenger15...

that's exactly what I was thinking.... I'm glad I'm not the only one to feel this way.

I've already cut it off.  Of course now she's telling all my co workers how much of an asshole I am.  Let this be a lesson to all you guys out there.  Don't shit where you eat.  It has a way of making a really fucked up situation...  
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:20:52 PM EDT
[#10]
leave it alone .... too many fish in the sea .... gotta find the ones that dont have the fishy smell ...
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:21:16 PM EDT
[#11]

Quoted:
You're gonna think of it every time you see your buddy.



Bingo... it's very awkward.  What makes it even worse is he's a real man whore.  Just thinking about it makes me want to puke...
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:22:43 PM EDT
[#12]
Combat Jack is Right !!!!
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:26:08 PM EDT
[#13]
no problem
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:33:27 PM EDT
[#14]
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:33:37 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:38:35 PM EDT
[#16]
It's all in your mind. You can choose for it to stay there or you can go on to make new memories.

MT
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:39:48 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:44:25 PM EDT
[#18]

Quoted:
Think your friend as the best man in your wedding.

Now....


Is it still appealing?



I guess I should give some backround.  I wasn't actually dating this girl.  We had hung out quite a bit.  She had some issues and I was a very good friend of hers.  Part of me really liked her but there was a few things that I really didn't like.  She smokes, is a binge drinker (as much as a piture and a half of beer in a night), and just had some genuine issues.  She was really coming on to my friend hard that night... Anyways I told him I just couldn't give him a yes or no answer as far as him pursuing her.  Whelp as you can tell he did it anyways.  Part of me is pissed but after seeing the way she was coming onto him (like a stripper) it's hard for me too get irate.  Now I can look back and see that she really wasn't right for me anyways but none the less I'm still not too happy with him.  Of course, now he's already onto the next piece of ass.    

This is one of those situation that really tells you what kind of a friend someone truly is.  Before this happened I considered him a pretty close friend.  Now he's just an aquaintance that I work out with and occasionally hang out with in my group of friends.  He's shipping off for the air force soon so it's pretty much a moot point anyways.

Sometimes it takes a while to really see someone's true colors...
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:46:24 PM EDT
[#19]

Quoted:
So you think maybe you should not date a whore but you have no problems being friends with a man-whore.



Yup because "dating someone" and "being friend with someone" are two very different situations.  Don't you agree?  
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:51:40 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 9/29/2004 5:59:36 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 9/29/2004 6:02:10 PM EDT
[#22]
See sig line




Link Posted: 9/29/2004 6:02:57 PM EDT
[#23]

Quoted:
I've got no problem with people who enjoy sex and engage in it as often as they want... as long as they are safe.  Now, would I want to be with them... likely not, but I don't judge somebody to be bad because they have a different view on sexual relations.



Yep +1
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 6:03:31 PM EDT
[#24]
Get your buddy and both of you do her! Sounds like a plan to me!
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 6:04:19 PM EDT
[#25]
No thanks.  If she gives it up that easily, she ain't worth it at all.  Who wants to be another notch in the headboard?
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 6:13:06 PM EDT
[#26]

Quoted:
No thanks.  If she gives it up that easily, she ain't worth it at all.  Who wants to be another notch in the headboard?




Hmm...well, I guess I'd volunteer...

Wham, bam, thank you ma'am...now GTFO!

Link Posted: 9/29/2004 6:13:57 PM EDT
[#27]
She's a used cum dumpster.
The best you can hope for is to use her as a cum dumpster too.
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 6:36:23 PM EDT
[#28]

Quoted:
I've got no problem with people who enjoy sex and engage in it as often as they want... as long as they are safe.  Now, would I want to be with them... likely not, but I don't judge somebody to be bad because they have a different view on sexual relations.





+1  Well said!!
Link Posted: 9/29/2004 7:07:15 PM EDT
[#29]

Quoted:
I would not have anything to do with this woman.  She has no respect for herself, or you.




Exactly.  To have ANY thoughts of a long-term whatever, this kind of action on her part is pathetic.  Move on.  
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