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Posted: 9/30/2004 8:08:45 AM EST
My room mate had this cute friend who really seemed to dig me. She used to invite me to go down to the beach, go out with her and my room mate. She always would come chat with me or sitdown, have a beer and joke around. So my room mate moved out and I saw her today she came up and was talking with me then I said "hey you want to go to the beach in a couple hours" She was like no I am tired. It wasn't a "well no but how about this weekend" it was just no.

I really have no clue what they are thinking everyone especially me thought she was begging for it.

only thing I can think of is maybe the comfort zone with the room mate is gone so she doesn't want to go just with me?

So did I mess up by waiting to long? Should I try again or just take a hint?
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:10:25 AM EST
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:10:31 AM EST
she's probably on the rag, silly.
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:12:01 AM EST
Could be that "TIME" of the 28 day cycle! Or she found out you own guns!

I've had women run like i was the grim reaper when they found out i'm a gunowner!
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:14:03 AM EST
Why don't you try talking to her about it.
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:28:06 AM EST

Originally Posted By Wolf_Warrior:
Why don't you try talking to her about it.



Good advice....she just said no for one thing. You make it sound like she dumped your ass, broke your heart, and told you to fuck off and die. Just talk to her and post pics.
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:29:13 AM EST
[Last Edit: 9/30/2004 8:29:47 AM EST by TheRedGoat]
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:32:09 AM EST
how the hell should we know? go ask her.
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:33:21 AM EST
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Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:38:37 AM EST
I think you thought it was a sure thing so you probably weren't that aggressive and made it too casual.

You dicked around too much without simply asking her out. Some Girls like the drama they like to feel special just asking her to tag along at the bitch probably didn't really get her going.

or she is a lesbian, yeah thats it!
Good luck.
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:39:04 AM EST
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:41:54 AM EST
You made the foolish assumption that women have some sort of constancy in their feelings. When she was hot for you to hit it, you didn't take advantage of the opportunity. Now, it's to late.

Also, she was probably looking to dump your friend when she was showing interest in you. Now she's hooked into something she's into and she doesn't need you anymore.
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:42:15 AM EST
Sounds to me like she was interested in you, but you either waited too long to make a move,
or you were giving her vibes of desperation. Nothing scares off a woman like a
desperate guy.

Next time you see her, don't give her much attention and be in a really good mood. If she
likes you, she'll chase you. Good luck
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:42:24 AM EST

Originally Posted By MillerSHO:

Originally Posted By TheRedGoat:

Originally Posted By NSFJojo:
she's probably on the rag, silly.



Throw a towel on the bed, and invite her in.

TRG




Man that's so wrong!



"Cowboy up!"

and

"Git 'R' Done!"

Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:42:53 AM EST
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:44:49 AM EST
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:48:13 AM EST

Originally Posted By MillerSHO:

Originally Posted By TheRedGoat:

Originally Posted By NSFJojo:
she's probably on the rag, silly.



Throw a towel on the bed, and invite her in.

TRG




Man that's so wrong!



But it feels so right
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:49:51 AM EST

Originally Posted By NSFJojo:
she's probably on the rag, silly.




+1.

ANd you are worried about 1 little conversation?

Damn, she already owns you and you're not even dating yet!


Sgtar15
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 8:50:37 AM EST
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 9:01:24 AM EST

Originally Posted By 1GUNRUNNER:

Originally Posted By TheRedGoat:


Just don't look down, man...

TRG



This quote says volumes.



The "Red" goat?
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 9:05:32 AM EST

Originally Posted By NSFJojo:
she's probably on the rag, silly.



+1
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 9:07:14 AM EST

Originally Posted By mike45acp:
just take a hint?



YES!!
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 9:10:50 AM EST
maybe she REALLY WAS JUST TIRED !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 9:14:58 AM EST
Maybe she said no because your former roomate is hittin it...

Link Posted: 9/30/2004 9:18:21 AM EST

Originally Posted By Mak762:

or she is a lesbian, yeah thats it!



Ask if you can watch.
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 9:23:47 AM EST
[Last Edit: 9/30/2004 9:36:24 AM EST by hound]
Maybe she said no because another dog like me is hitting it and posting pictures. How the hell should we know...ask her.

In reference to the post below mine- if you don't know about the ladder, then you are not getting screwed. Got that? Learn it, live it. And ignore the girls that tell you it ain't true, they are lying.
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 9:26:50 AM EST
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 9:36:58 AM EST

Originally Posted By Troy:
Simple. You allowed yourself to be placed on the Friends ladder. You did this by not making your intention to date her clear from the very beginning. Waiting too long (i.e., longer than the first day) nearly always gets you placed on the Friends ladder by default.

You know the guys who always seem to get the girls? If you pay attention, you'll notice that they don't EVER try to be FRIENDS. They are either hitting on girls or ignoring them, and they understand a few things very well:

- You have to ask out a LOT of girls to get a few that will say "YES." That means you have to get used to hearing "NO" a lot and not be bothered by it.

- There are tons of girls out there, so the ones who say "No" don't matter. Move on to the next one, and then the next one, and so on. The more you ask, the better you'll get at asking (if you pay attention to what you say and how she reacts).

Next time, sack up and ask the girl the moment you decide she might be attractive enough to date. If she says no, then *politely* ignore her anytime you see her. Either she'll go away, or she'll make herself available.

-Troy




Ding!

You were placed on HER friends ladder.
You were a friend of a friend.
Now that your room mate (her friend) is gone, so are you.
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 9:42:07 AM EST

Originally Posted By Fireguy3:
Could be that "TIME" of the 28 day cycle! Or she found out you own guns!

I've had women run like i was the grim reaper when they found out i'm a gunowner!



You ARE the grim reaper if you possess evil black rifles.

You have to get the girl to like you A LOT before she finds out about the BRD.
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 9:48:03 AM EST
TRG = The Rag Goat.



Originally Posted By TheRedGoat:

Originally Posted By NSFJojo:
she's probably on the rag, silly.



Throw a towel on the bed, and invite her in.

TRG

Link Posted: 9/30/2004 9:54:23 AM EST
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 10:03:49 AM EST
May I say,



Colt_SBR
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 10:06:27 AM EST

Originally Posted By Troy:
Simple. You allowed yourself to be placed on the Friends ladder. You did this by not making your intention to date her clear from the very beginning. Waiting too long (i.e., longer than the first day) nearly always gets you placed on the Friends ladder by default.



+1, although I use the "30 day rule" instead of the "one day rule" mentioned above.*

*: not saying I get results, I'm just saying what I use.
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 10:40:06 AM EST

Originally Posted By MillerSHO:

Originally Posted By TheRedGoat:

Originally Posted By NSFJojo:
she's probably on the rag, silly.



Throw a towel on the bed, and invite her in.

TRG



Man that's so wrong!



Not really. Some chicks get so damn horny that time of the month. You just have to catch them at the right time because their emotions fluctuate so damn much.

In the end though, it ends up looking like you murdered the chick with your penis.
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 10:45:07 AM EST

Originally Posted By NSFJojo:
she's probably on the rag, silly.



"aunt Flow is in town"

or

"Katie's here"
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 10:47:42 AM EST

Originally Posted By SGB:

Originally Posted By Wolf_Warrior:
Why don't you try talking to her about it.



+1



Could possibly be the ONLY time that I would agree with John Kerry. You should "be more sensitive".
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 10:49:03 AM EST

Originally Posted By jthuang:

Originally Posted By Troy:
Simple. You allowed yourself to be placed on the Friends ladder. You did this by not making your intention to date her clear from the very beginning. Waiting too long (i.e., longer than the first day) nearly always gets you placed on the Friends ladder by default.



+1, although I use the "30 day rule" instead of the "one day rule" mentioned above.*

*: not saying I get results, I'm just saying what I use.



Ladder Theory
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 10:57:40 AM EST

Originally Posted By sgtar15:

Originally Posted By NSFJojo:
she's probably on the rag, silly.




+1.

ANd you are worried about 1 little conversation?

Damn, she already PWNED you and you're not even dating yet!


Sgtar15



fix'd it ...

+2
Take your ass back over there and tell her that you are TAKING her to the beach.....
.........asking always sets you up for the opportunity of a turn down....
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 10:59:54 AM EST
Ladder Theory

Read it. Learn it. Live it.
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 11:02:12 AM EST
[Last Edit: 10/2/2004 9:40:27 PM EST by warp_asylum]
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Link Posted: 9/30/2004 2:33:09 PM EST
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 2:43:38 PM EST
Link Posted: 9/30/2004 2:51:16 PM EST

Originally Posted By geish:

Originally Posted By MillerSHO:

Originally Posted By TheRedGoat:

Originally Posted By NSFJojo:
she's probably on the rag, silly.



Throw a towel on the bed, and invite her in.

TRG



Man that's so wrong!



Not really. Some chicks get so damn horny that time of the month. You just have to catch them at the right time because their emotions fluctuate so damn much.

In the end though, it ends up looking like you murdered the chick with your penis.





HAHAHAHA!


wheeeew!
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