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Quoted: My fiance is scaring me with all these "checklists" she keeps finding on the internet. One of them is the "Best Man's Responsiblities Checklist", and it's about as long as my arm. Maybe we should simplify that a bit. |
That's F'n bullshit. Your only responsibility in this wedding thing is to show up on time, dressed, with the ring and relatively sober. The planning is the job of the bride, her mother and rest of the hens. The only part that you may want to consider planning is the bar at the reception. Women always screw up that part.
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Work and responsibilities for things that need to be done should be shared. But no one should ever expect to impose their hobbies on someone else.
For example, a house needs to be kept clean and everyone should share in the cleaning. But a house isn’t a dollhouse, if the wife wants it to look like one then it’s not your responsibility to color coordinate the cushions on the couch.
Yardwork needs to be done. But if one person decides they want to recreate the Hanging Gardens of Babylon in their backyard the other person shouldn’t be expected to do the work.
Obviously every family needs a firearm for self defense. But if one person decides to become a competition shooter they shouldn’t expect their spouse to sit at a reloading bench all night making ammo.
For a wedding you need the bride, groom, preacher, a couple witnesses, a license and a blood test. And that’s it. Most men who are getting married don’t want the wedding, they want the wife, and the ceremony is just something they have to go through to get one.
Women, some women anyway, seem to want the wedding more than the husband. All that ceremony, expense, flowers, more expense, fancy dresses, receptions, rehearsals, all of it, is just because the women want it.
OK, no problem there, I want a bass boat (which costs about the same as a wedding) but I wouldn’t expect my significant other to clean out the livewell.
Your job is to show up on time, semi sober, and say I do. It would also be nice if you could avoid making passes at the bride’s sister. Other than that, it ain’t your job.