Quoted: On another forum, some guy (i wont call him a kid cos hes only 1 year younger than me) called for help.
He has depression and sees his life as worthless because he doesnt have a girlfriend and he says hes got acne, a bad back etc.
I gave him my msn so we could talk but nothing is working.
Any ideas?
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Well, shit!
I haven't had a girlfriend in um....well, let's just say a
very long time.
I have bad knees as one of my gifts from the Corps. Back isn't all that great anymore either. Wake up every morning so stiff I can barely move. Loosens up after a shower though.
Had acne problems when I was younger also. Many people do.
I guess if that's all it takes to have a crappy life, then I've got one of the worst around because those things are what I consider petty crap.
Tell this guy to chill out and get some perspective. No one is living the "perfect" life. No one ever will. We each have challenges to overcome. It's HOW you deal with those challenges that matters.
Sort of "What doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger" kind of thinking.
Telling him to volunteer was a very good suggestion. When you see people FAR FAR worse off than you are, you begin to realize that things like not having a girlfriend are such minor petty things that they really aren't worth the effort to feel bad about it. Besides it sounds to me like he has a self defeating attitude. Girls aren't attracted to that. So carrying around all these negative feelings is only hurting his cause if that's what he's looking for.