Luckily I filled in some holes in my collection before meeting my current lady.
She has a houseful to take care of, (3) 'teens and her dad, and our $ is pretty much accounted for, and will be for a while. Fortunately in my previous life, lack of money was not a big issue, and I did retain most of my important toys, (Guns, knives and tools) and do not feel neglected because I can't currently add to the collection. Our life is full and seldom get to play with them at this time anyway.
She is not a gun person, she knows that I have them, she knows that they are not up for grabs if we need cash and only asked that I make sure that they are secure from her kids.
New safe and a locked gun room from that exchange. The best part is that she knows that my current life is vastly different than before I et her and she appreciates the fact that I do it without comlaint. For some reason this translates into a substantial amount of personal attention, and I somehow don't get around to feeling too bad about my life.