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Posted: 6/22/2011 11:21:00 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 6/22/2011 12:43:47 PM EDT by markfall]
Nvrm. Girlfriend wanted me to delete this. She isn't comfortable with her peronal problems on the net. Thanks for all the help guys.
 
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:23:10 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 6/22/2011 11:24:11 AM EDT by Plumbata]
Marry her and move far, far away?

Honestly, I think you have a bigger problem in the mother-in-law than you do the brothers.

Just as an aside, which scope is that?
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:23:52 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 6/22/2011 11:24:05 AM EDT by rwalters17]
Eject.

Or move away.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:24:24 AM EDT
Originally Posted By markfall:
Well here it is...

I've been seeing this girl for years now (2005) and we really love each other. She is about to start her second year of Medical school
 


Stopped reading here.  Go forth and become a kept man
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:25:16 AM EDT
hey, you have a great girl. don't let some assholes ruin that.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:25:19 AM EDT
Originally Posted By markfall:

Thoughts?
 


Your AR is not Tier 1.  
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:25:21 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 6/22/2011 11:25:59 AM EDT by LoBrau]
FWIW, your girl doesn't hide her car keys very well either.  I can see them right there in the pic.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:26:24 AM EDT
Need more pics.



As to the topic at hand-  you need to have a discussion w your future wife about how much or how little you will let said scum interfere with your life and how much is is your limit money wise.




Once they've blown the inheritance, they'll be calling you from jail/rehab/crack house.






Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:28:43 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 6/22/2011 11:29:27 AM EDT by markfall]





Originally Posted By targettarget:





Originally Posted By markfall:





Thoughts?


 






Your AR is not Tier 1.  



How so.
 
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:28:56 AM EDT



Originally Posted By LoBrau:


FWIW, your girl doesn't hide her car keys very well either.  I can see them right there in the pic.


Mine



 
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:29:49 AM EDT
Originally Posted By markfall:

Originally Posted By LoBrau:
FWIW, your girl doesn't hide her car keys very well either.  I can see them right there in the pic.

Mine
 


Then I guess you'd better hide your purse somewhere besides the center console, too.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:29:50 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 6/22/2011 11:30:21 AM EDT by cyrus-the-virus]
Does her brother have a key to the car? if so why the fuck does he have a key? If not how the fuck did he get in...

something isn't adding up.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:30:04 AM EDT
Buy her a safe for her next birthday.



When you two re-locate eight states away it's small enough to easily move.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:30:49 AM EDT



Originally Posted By cyrus-the-virus:


Does her brother have a key to the car? if so why the fuck does he have a key? If not how the fuck did he get in...



something isn't adding up.


He stole the keys. One good theft deserves another....



 
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:31:57 AM EDT



Originally Posted By callgood:


Buy her a safe for her next birthday.



http://images.lowes.com/product/converted/049074/049074001681lg.jpg



When you two re-locate eight states away it's small enough to easily move.



I actually offered to this morning, LOL.



She said they just steal it and find a way to bust it open.



 
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:31:59 AM EDT
You marry the girl, you marry the family.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:32:10 AM EDT
Well, Id suggest moving away on the bro problem.

Id also suggest eyepro for your little sweetcakes, before she cant see you anymore.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:33:16 AM EDT
NEVER. NEVER invite the brothers over to your place.  

I'd FLAT OUT tell your future mother-in-law that her sons are not welcome in your home.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:33:58 AM EDT
You've got a bipod attached to that rifle.

What's with the pillows?


Also, that haircut makes you look like a child molester.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:34:06 AM EDT
When dating a young woman always look at the family.  Most especially the mother.  The daughter is always likely to turn out just like Mom.  This can be very good or very bad, depending on the breaks.  



You've got to learn to deal with the drama without dragging the whole family into it.  That means you have to quit whining to mom and dad every time junior rips off some money or whatever.  That's the biggest issue I see.  
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:34:34 AM EDT
Good policy to follow: the thieves steal anything from someone else, not my problem. Let them handle it. Steal something from me or my gf, it becomes my problem and confrontations / beat downs ensue.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:34:40 AM EDT
If they are adults ––kick their ass!
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:35:28 AM EDT
Originally Posted By markfall:

Originally Posted By callgood:
Buy her a safe for her next birthday.

http://images.lowes.com/product/converted/049074/049074001681lg.jpg

When you two re-locate eight states away it's small enough to easily move.

I actually offered to this morning, LOL.

She said they just steal it and find a way to bust it open.
 


Lag it to the floor.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:36:18 AM EDT



Originally Posted By Plumbata:


Marry her and move far, far away?



Honestly, I think you have a bigger problem in the mother-in-law than you do the brothers.



Just as an aside, which scope is that?


FPNI.



Marry her and move far far away.  BILs are not welcome to visit.  Ever.  EVER.



 
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:36:26 AM EDT
Originally Posted By markfall:

Originally Posted By callgood:
Buy her a safe for her next birthday.

http://images.lowes.com/product/converted/049074/049074001681lg.jpg

When you two re-locate eight states away it's small enough to easily move.

I actually offered to this morning, LOL.

She said they just steal it and find a way to bust it open.
 


no they won't ...
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:38:06 AM EDT
If she won't completely cut them, you need to completely cut her.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:38:06 AM EDT
Take the brothers shooting for the day.  Only bring one gun and shoot while they watch you do tactical drills, ect.  The entire time you should be lecturing them about the consequences of stealing from your girlfriend.  If they don't get the point, have an M1 handy for a buttstroke to their head.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:38:55 AM EDT
Pool your resources and get your own place. After 6 years it's time to pull the trigger on the relationship or part company anyway. I would think that B&E would be a crime even in WV.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:39:12 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 6/22/2011 11:41:02 AM EDT by SWIRE]
Spoiled kids that want for nothing and are used to the parents cleaning up their mistakes, sounds like my ex-wife's family.  Unfortunately my ex-wife had similar bad behaviors because of it, I just didn't recognize them at the time.

Answer this question, who is paying for her medical school?  Is she working and taking responsiblity for the tuition or are her parents covering it and she just skates by.  If she isn't working or being responsible then based on what you already said about the family, eject!  That family will be fucked up forever, people don't change.  The mom is an enabler who will never see her son as a bad guy and will always take his side over yours.

I would try to setup the brothers and bust them in the act.  Get security cameras setup in your girlfriends room and have her leave some money in her purse.  If the brother steals it, have her call the police directly.  If she isn't willing to do this then she doesn't want to fix the problem either, just like the mother.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:39:24 AM EDT
Originally Posted By TrojanMan:
You've got a bipod attached to that rifle.

What's with the pillows?


Also, that haircut makes you look like a child molester.


It's not the haircut.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:39:28 AM EDT
When you marry her you marry the whole family.



Want to know how she will be when she is old?  Look at her mother.  Not 100%, but it is an indicator.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:41:08 AM EDT



Originally Posted By FLAL1A:



Originally Posted By TrojanMan:

You've got a bipod attached to that rifle.



What's with the pillows?





Also, that haircut makes you look like a child molester.




It's not the haircut.






 
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:41:39 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 6/22/2011 11:42:36 AM EDT by 44Regular]
nm
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:41:56 AM EDT
No comment on the topic here, but that is a good looking paint job on the AR.

Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:41:57 AM EDT
Tceje
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:43:16 AM EDT
Originally Posted By markfall:

Originally Posted By cyrus-the-virus:
Does her brother have a key to the car? if so why the fuck does he have a key? If not how the fuck did he get in...

something isn't adding up.

He stole the keys. One good theft deserves another....
 


From your girl or from the parents?
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:44:06 AM EDT
You should listen, closely, to lyrics of "The Coward of the County" ... might give you the solution.

TRG
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:47:03 AM EDT
Originally Posted By skin290:
Originally Posted By markfall:
Well here it is...

I've been seeing this girl for years now (2005) and we really love each other. She is about to start her second year of Medical school
 


Stopped reading here.  Go forth and become a kept man


unlike my learned college above, I read the whole thing.

And he is absolutely right.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:48:59 AM EDT
Originally Posted By LoBrau:
Originally Posted By markfall:

Originally Posted By LoBrau:
FWIW, your girl doesn't hide her car keys very well either.  I can see them right there in the pic.

Mine
 


Then I guess you'd better hide your purse somewhere besides the center console, too.


Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:49:16 AM EDT
she sound like a good catch
whats the reason in going dutch??? just curious is all

FWIW the mother in law sounds like a problem
believe me... even if your wife doesnt talk to her mom
mother in law will still be a giant pain in the ass and topic of discussion half the time
brothers will also always be a problem.
still neither reason to eject
however if she starts defending said people...stand your ground
if it gets worse then eject. you will know when its time
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:49:35 AM EDT
keep them out of your house when you get married.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:51:37 AM EDT
My brother in law is way worse...

He has stolen thousands of dollars from everyone in his family.

I hate him with every fiber of my being. I would not be with my wife right now if we didn't move away from her family.

He stole $600 from my home back in Alabama. He stole his grandparents credit cards multiple times and charged thousands of dollars. He steals his children's piggy bank funds.

I would not even want this bastard to know where I live. He has 6 kids with 6 different women and he doesn't have anything to do with any of them. A true PIECE OF SHIT.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:53:13 AM EDT
Well as it sits now she can take care of herself. Once married it would depend on the situation. The first time something like this occurred once married I would find a way to get together with the brother alone somewhere and paint a very clear picture of what would happen if his asshatery continued.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:53:18 AM EDT
I'm assuming they have been stealing from everyone all their lives, so why is it that you girlfriend and her sister haven't figured out how to keep cash away from their brothers in the 20-some odd years they have been on this planet?
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:54:47 AM EDT
if you marry her as others said MOVE as far away as you can. Never allow them into your home. If they take money you never know if they would take your guns and that would suck.

Perhaps you should try to set them up to teach them a lesson. Get them red handed and let the police take care of them.

good luck to you
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:55:30 AM EDT



Originally Posted By bigrob88:


she sound like a good catch

whats the reason in going dutch??? just curious is all



FWIW the mother in law sounds like a problem

believe me... even if your wife doesnt talk to her mom

mother in law will still be a giant pain in the ass and topic of discussion half the time

brothers will also always be a problem.

still neither reason to eject

however if she starts defending said people...stand your ground

if it gets worse then eject. you will know when its time
Its just our way. Always has been





 
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:55:32 AM EDT
Yeah, good luck.  One of my nieces on my wife's side is the same kind of thieving scum.  (She was voted "Most likely to wind up in prison" by me a long time ago.)  Grandma just keeps finding new hiding places (and her granddaughter keeps finding them, coming over and snooping when nobody is home).  Of course, her grandma won't change the house locks (can't hurt the poor girl's feelings).



Your GF can't swap families, but she can swap where she lives.  Her bro pulls that shit once he has no legitimate access, that's B&E and you ring him up.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:56:00 AM EDT
You need to have a long talk with your to be wife about her mom enabling the "boys".

You are going to have drama at the wedding with mom/daughter and not inviting the theifs.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:56:26 AM EDT
I see many problems in your future. Sad but true.
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:56:33 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 6/22/2011 11:59:17 AM EDT by TurboniumOxide]
1) Buy Cheap safe
2) Drill breathing holes in safe
3) Put mountain lion, babcat, 25 squirrels, and one possum in safe
4) Go on vacation
5) Profit
Link Posted: 6/22/2011 11:58:09 AM EDT



Originally Posted By TurboniumOxide:


1) Buy Cheap safe

2) Drill breathing holes in safe

3) Put mountain lion, babcat, 25 squirrels in safe

4) Go on vacation

5) Profit

I'm okay with this....
 
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