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Posted: 11/19/2012 10:34:20 PM EST
I have 2 dates in the next 2 weeks, and I wasn't even looking. the odd thing is, they both gave me their numbers. we've been texting back and forth, and both of them what they want more than just a friend. 1 of them is a 40 year old nurse that I will be seeing tomorrow night, the other is a 22 year old college girl that I am going out with next Tuesday. the funny thing is that I in no way solicited their numbers, hell I don't even think I acted interested in anyway. I haven't even had a girl give me her number in years.



well, will see how it goes, I haven't been on a date in years and I don't even think I remember how to be single
Link Posted: 11/19/2012 10:49:43 PM EST
How old are you?
Link Posted: 11/19/2012 10:49:59 PM EST
Good luck man. I need to get some more dates lined up myself, but my impending move to FL in a few months isn't really motivating me to find someone around here.
Link Posted: 11/19/2012 10:53:57 PM EST

This is a WIDE perspective due to their age.

Personally - if they are " even steven " - I'd go with the nurse.

Lots of ignorant shit left in the 22 Y/O.
Link Posted: 11/19/2012 11:19:26 PM EST
Being yourself and not looking is generally the best way to look.
Link Posted: 11/19/2012 11:27:48 PM EST
Originally Posted By destaccado:
How old are you?


45
Link Posted: 11/19/2012 11:29:22 PM EST
[Last Edit: 11/19/2012 11:31:13 PM EST by johnny_dot_exe]

Originally Posted By NineLivez:
I have 2 dates in the next 2 weeks, and I wasn't even looking. the odd thing is, they both gave me their numbers. we've been texting back and forth, and both of them what they want more than just a friend. 1 of them is a 40 year old nurse that I will be seeing tomorrow night, the other is a 22 year old college girl that I am going out with next Tuesday. the funny thing is that I in no way solicited their numbers, hell I don't even think I acted interested in anyway. I haven't even had a girl give me her number in years.



well, will see how it goes, I haven't been on a date in years and I don't even think I remember how to be single

Are you sure you're ready for dating yet? Gotta be happy with yourself and your life before you can be happy with someone else, and IIRC you went through a bad separation somewhat recently. Took me about a year and a half before I was ready to date after my last bad breakup.

With that said....

I don't trust nurses at all, and early 20s = often leads to drama(past ex's, drug/alcohol usage, etc) and them randomly/suddenly getting bored. Both could be great lays, though.
Link Posted: 11/19/2012 11:32:38 PM EST

Originally Posted By fundummy:

This is a WIDE perspective due to their age.

Personally - if they are " even steven " - I'd go with the nurse.

Lots of ignorant shit left in the 22 Y/O.

As a 32 year old in college, I would agree with all of the above. Considering I was in the real world for a decade before going back to school, I would have a major bias towards the 40yo, even if the 22yo was mature for her age.

I can say that I would at least give both a spin though.


Link Posted: 11/19/2012 11:33:16 PM EST
Originally Posted By fundummy:

This is a WIDE perspective due to their age.

Personally - if they are " even steven " - I'd go with the nurse.

Lots of ignorant shit left in the 22 Y/O.


I'm not wanting anything serious, but if I were I agree with you on the nurse. however, at my age I'm not sure how many 22 year old with low self esteem and daddy issues are going to come along
Link Posted: 11/19/2012 11:38:12 PM EST
Beware of gold diggers.
Times are getting tough.
Some folks looking for an easy mark (not saying you are).
Link Posted: 11/19/2012 11:41:34 PM EST
Originally Posted By NineLivez:
they want more than just a friend. 1 of them is a 40 year old nurse that I will be seeing tomorrow night, the other is a 22 year old college girl that I am going out with next Tuesday


You're gonna be hooked to a dialysis pump by Advent.


Link Posted: 11/19/2012 11:46:52 PM EST
[Last Edit: 11/19/2012 11:47:33 PM EST by edcurtis]
If you were 20-30 I would say go for the 40 year old. But since you are 45, go with the 22 year old. Get it while you can, you don't have much time left.
Link Posted: 11/19/2012 11:55:59 PM EST
If there was ever a "get both" situation, this is it.
Link Posted: 11/19/2012 11:57:44 PM EST
Originally Posted By Tim_the_enchanter:
If there was ever a "get both" situation, this is it.


fuck it, i'm foing
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 12:11:01 AM EST
22 year old, hands down.

Link Posted: 11/20/2012 12:15:39 AM EST
Originally Posted By fundummy:

This is a WIDE perspective due to their age.

Personally - if they are " even steven " - I'd go with the nurse.

Lots of ignorant shit left in the 22 Y/O.


OTOH nurses are (usually) batshit crazy.
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 12:17:09 AM EST
Hook them up with each other.
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 12:26:54 AM EST
Get both. Let each know about the other, but under no circumstances let them meet.

Enjoy the ride as they compete for your attention!

My bet is that the 22-year-old will implode from jealousy, while the 40-year-old ramps up her attractiveness ratings.

OTOH if they meet:

1: They will ruin each other in a catfight. Then you date the 35 y.o. hottie you just met.
or
2: They become friends, get drunk together and share notes about you. In that case:

Click To View Spoiler
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 1:06:42 AM EST
Tagged for the train wreck.
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 1:31:31 AM EST
Originally Posted By Tommytwoguns:
Tagged for the train wreck.


Link Posted: 11/20/2012 1:50:43 AM EST
Don't forget the twister game and the Mazola.
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 2:06:37 AM EST
Originally Posted By FrankSymptoms:
Get both. Let each know about the other, but under no circumstances let them meet.

Enjoy the ride as they compete for your attention!





When I was younger, and long before I knew any better, I had some cunt bitch do exactly this to me. I should've walked away a lot fucking earlier.
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:20:41 AM EST
Originally Posted By Tommytwoguns:
Tagged for the train wreck.


Sadly, this is probably the best outcome I can hope for
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:22:19 AM EST
the 22 year old wants your money.


Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:24:45 AM EST
The 22 year old isn't 22 and she isn't in college. If she looks young, she's in high school. If she looks old, she is 30.
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:25:19 AM EST
Originally Posted By EasTexan:
the 22 year old wants your money.




Then I better get some before she sees my account
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:29:55 AM EST
A few thoughts.

1) The nurse is probably more take charge. You and she can plan the date together. If she wants to f*, SHE will make the first move. Don't be a whiny pussy.
It will turn her off immediatly. Ask questions, listen to her, don't give advice. Sit next to her at dinner. Buy her a glass of champagne. She should give you
an unforgettable night in bed.

2) Little miss sunshine. Take charge. You plan the date. Don't ask her opinion. Make sure she orders the filet mingon and has a cosmo or mimosa.
She will get tipsy. Tell her funny, interesting and amusing stories. Dominate the conversation. When you get home, just assume you are going all the way.
Bang her brains out at least twice and once in the morning.
Don't call or text her for at least 2 days.
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:31:11 AM EST
Hang on for a wild ride, but for sure, fuck them both.
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:33:15 AM EST
"Dirty old man".
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:35:53 AM EST
Originally Posted By EasTexan:
the 22 year old wants your money.




This...and daddy issues!



Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:38:19 AM EST
Originally Posted By sirostac:
Originally Posted By EasTexan:
the 22 year old wants your money.




This...and daddy issues!





Yeah, I covered that in my third post
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:40:43 AM EST



Go get em Tiger!
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:41:53 AM EST
Duck the 20 year old, trust me on this
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:43:22 AM EST
[Last Edit: 11/20/2012 4:44:59 AM EST by kill-9]

Originally Posted By NineLivez:
I have 2 dates in the next 2 weeks, and I wasn't even looking. the odd thing is, they both gave me their numbers. we've been texting back and forth, and both of them what they want more than just a friend. 1 of them is a 40 year old nurse that I will be seeing tomorrow night, the other is a 22 year old college girl that I am going out with next Tuesday. the funny thing is that I in no way solicited their numbers, hell I don't even think I acted interested in anyway. I haven't even had a girl give me her number in years.



well, will see how it goes, I haven't been on a date in years and I don't even think I remember how to be single


Best of luck.

ETA: I will also be "getting back on the horse" after I move in January, but I won't be posting about it on arfcom...
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:47:23 AM EST
Women notice when you really don't give a damn about HAVING to have a woman. As long as you are halfway decent looking, keep yourself in generally good shape, have a reasonable financial base, and are self assured, women are interested as long as you don't act like you need them.

It's weird but true. I've been single for the past couple of years and I don't want any long term relationships. I don't even lie about not wanting one. And yet, I've had more women attracted to me then any time in my life. And I'm not anything to write home about looks wise, I'm always fighting 20 lbs, bald, and you'd never pick me out in a crowd. I am polite and pretty damn good at fixing stuff and have a reasonably decent job and though I make it a habit of NEVER dating a woman I meet while on the job, if I changed that rule, I'd have 5 dates a week. [I like having a job though and I won't be changing that rule anytime soon]

I think that women nowadays like the challenge of landing a guy who isn't interested just as much as guys like the same challenge with women. The problem lie's more in what to do with them once you've done that..........
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:49:25 AM EST
Originally Posted By kill-9:

Originally Posted By NineLivez:
I have 2 dates in the next 2 weeks, and I wasn't even looking. the odd thing is, they both gave me their numbers. we've been texting back and forth, and both of them what they want more than just a friend. 1 of them is a 40 year old nurse that I will be seeing tomorrow night, the other is a 22 year old college girl that I am going out with next Tuesday. the funny thing is that I in no way solicited their numbers, hell I don't even think I acted interested in anyway. I haven't even had a girl give me her number in years.



well, will see how it goes, I haven't been on a date in years and I don't even think I remember how to be single


Best of luck.

ETA: I will also be "getting back on the horse" after I move in January, but I won't be posting about it on arfcom...


Coward Smart
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:49:59 AM EST
Make sure to get one of these to wear on your dates.

Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:50:40 AM EST
You must be more attractive than I am.
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:51:19 AM EST
get both. dibs on guns when they find out about each other and pound your ass into the ground.
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:52:34 AM EST
Originally Posted By knifewrench:
You must be more attractive than I am.


I seriously doubt that, 6'1#, balding, 290#, and 45 But I do pack a mean 1911
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 4:52:54 AM EST
Originally Posted By FrankSymptoms:
Originally Posted By fundummy:

This is a WIDE perspective due to their age.

Personally - if they are " even steven " - I'd go with the nurse.

Lots of ignorant shit left in the 22 Y/O.


OTOH nurses are (usually) batshit crazy.


I'll second this!
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 5:02:45 AM EST
SIIHPAPP is the only acceptable response , and get both.
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 5:09:58 AM EST
OP, you have almost 18k posts.

You know the rules!
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 5:12:09 AM EST
Originally Posted By Tim_the_enchanter:
If there was ever a "get both" situation, this is it.


At the same time.
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 5:15:16 AM EST
Originally Posted By AlphaTea:
Beware of gold diggers.
Times are getting tough.
Some folks looking for an easy mark (not saying you are).


Knock the bottom out of em'
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 5:15:21 AM EST
Originally Posted By semgin:
OP, you have almost 18k posts.

You know the rules!


They will be forthcoming, I just had this crazy idea I should at least get to the first date before I spout off with, "I need a pic to post on a website full of basement dwellers and social rejects that I am a paying member of because we have rules."
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 5:17:47 AM EST
Originally Posted By NineLivez:
Originally Posted By semgin:
OP, you have almost 18k posts.

You know the rules!


They will be forthcoming, I just had this crazy idea I should at least get to the first date before I spout off with, "I need a pic to post on a website full of basement dwellers and social rejects that I am a paying member of because we have rules."


I dont have a basement, but i am a social reject, for sure.

Link Posted: 11/20/2012 5:37:40 AM EST
vasectomy now!
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 5:42:52 AM EST
Originally Posted By NineLivez:
Originally Posted By knifewrench:
You must be more attractive than I am.


I seriously doubt that, 6'1#, balding, 290#, and 45 But I do pack a mean 1911




TRG
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 5:46:39 AM EST
Originally Posted By Marcbme:
Duck the 20 year old, trust me on this


Do what to her?
Link Posted: 11/20/2012 5:47:31 AM EST
Originally Posted By joemama74:
vasectomy now!


No shit, especially with the 22 year old.

Make damn sure you double wrap it, otherwise you will be shelling out for at least the next 18 years...
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