Some of my thirty and forty something male friends complain that the girls they meet, especially the local ones are all a mite too keen to settle down, find husbands and make babies. The thirty something girls on the other hand complain there just aren’t enough men around, and the ones that are, around that is, are fine as friends go but are not interested in any form of commitment. And that indeed when they do decide to commit they find someone much younger, much more malleable, perhaps foreign, but in every case girls who are prepared to play second fiddle to them.

This includes hanging around with his male friends and his partners, remaining pretty and well maintained while he deteriorates physically to an astonishing degree, and generally having pretty unbalanced relationships despite years and years of equal educational and other opportunities. At the end of the day if there isn’t enough of a supply of men and of heterosexual men particularly, and if men can pick and choose and go younger and younger, or foreign or more foreign, the imbalance and the catholic-arab attitude we have in many relationships is bound to persist.

Everywhere you go, and never more so than in summer when everyone is out displaying their wares, via plastic bag filled boobs, pert bums, over arched eyebrows, waxed of hair female and male bodies, you see hordes, or groups of thirty something girls who may never marry( unless they find a foreigner), who may never have kids,(unless they decide to go it alone), and who are in a sense doomed to the frustrations and none of the glamour of the lives of women we saw in Friends, on Ally McBeal, on Sex in the City.

And there have been plenty of articles, in the English media certainly, of the glut of city girls particularly, who simply cannot net a man either because the men their age do not want to commit, or as is the case in Malta and Gozo too, more and more are coming out and showing their gayness.

Whatever the reason the supply is not matching the demand. The only glut of men are the very sad illegal immigrant, and very obviously these are not what the beleagured Maltese female is looking for especially if she is looking for a degree of financial security to finance her coffees with girlfriends complete with the whole nail, skin and straightened hair look which doesn’t come cheap, but is now de rigeur, even for many single parent mums living off benefits.

The consequence? A whole generation of women who have never invested so much in their appearance as this one. They do their nails to veritable female warrior level. Their hair is regularly blow-dried and straightened. They go for massages, skin treatments, facials, detoxifying stuff, cellulite treatment and yet many of them will have a round of relationships, which are often just free sex for the male, but probably not lasting commitment, or the kind of commitment that is definitely preferable if you would like to have children.

Many men will only admit this is so if you ask them whether they would be happy if their 20 year old daughter was being used in this way by a 40 something man ? Then the penny drops. But men of course can never let themselves see that every girl is a man’s daughter, that girls are not there for their free sexual gratification only, and if that is mainly what they are using them for, Using a prostitute would in fact be a far more honourable way to go about it rather than pretending they love someone they are just using for free sex.

These girls are not all aware of the problem or willing to admit it of course. They were brought up to have fun, fun, fun which meant as much sexual freedom as the boys. And they certainly did have fun in their twenties when their bodies and hair was at its best, when it seems tomorrow would never come. But the minute they start to hit their mid thirties, the minute they realise they have slept with everyone they wanted to sleep with, they look around and see a very reduced market indeed, a very unattractive supply of potential male partners.

For the men it is different. Many of these 40 somethings can quite easily and happily net a 20 something year old who is not bothered by talk of commitment yet. She is impressed by his perhaps financial stability, his nice car, his lifestyle, his weekends in Rome or whatever. He is of course enjoying having it all without having to give anything in return except perhaps a little expenditure. This is not just a local phenomenon. I was at dinner last Friday and watching this middle aged balding bore of a foreign pompous man talk while two very young female beauties sat opposite him. He just talked. They just looked at him, occasionally nodding or saying yes. It was a one way conversation. They were dressed to the nines. He was buying them dinner and God knows what else?

Can all this change? Not while more and more men are revealing their gayness. Not while more and more men cannot marry again anyway after their marriage in their twenties didn’t work. Our bolshy and sexually free thirty somethings might not be willing to admit it but it certainly is a boy’s world, and here in Mlata and Gozo particularily so. The only way to improve things might be a different generation of mothers and importation of the male equivalents of all the East European women who are here. Trouble is though our girls still seem to like the local talent, even though it is in ever reducing supply?

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Most of the women I know who have not settled down yet wouldnt make a half ass decent companion let alone a wife.

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Most of the women I know who have not settled down yet wouldnt make a half ass decent companion let alone a wife.

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this here


the dating world is a complete clusterfuck,and it gets worse everyday

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I'm pretty damned tired of the Princesses and their drama, myself. Its like women watch Jersey Shore and think its a how-to for relationships.

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I get real tired of women whining about how things should be and what they want.

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I get real tired of women whining about how things should be and what they want.

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Many women want to live in fantasy land. They don't want to live in reality. That's why they only whine and talk about what they want.  

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Many women GD posters want to live in fantasy land. They don't want to live in reality. That's why they only whine and talk about what they want.  

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Oh no! It's almost too late! Please, is there any Maltese male who will impregnate me a nd provide for me and save me from a barren fate worse than death? I want to do my part to save western civilization from being outbred. I promise to stop being a vapid slut if someone will please just knock me up.... Please, it's for the children!

Did I get it right?

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I thought we had a deal with the Mormons to take care of this problem?

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Oh no! It's almost too late! Please, is there any Maltese male who will impregnate me a nd provide for me and save me from a barren fate worse than death? I want to do my part to save western civilization from being outbred. I promise to stop being a vapid slut if someone will please just knock me up.... Please, it's for the children!

Did I get it right?

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Oh no! It's almost too late! Please, is there any Maltese male who will impregnate me a nd provide for me and save me from a barren fate worse than death? I want to do my part to save western civilization from being outbred. I promise to stop being a vapid slut if someone will please just knock me up.... Please, it's for the children!



Did I get it right?

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considering how badly guys get fucked over in divorce courts is this any surprise to anyone?

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Most of the women I know who have not settled down yet wouldnt make a half ass decent companion let alone a wife.

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Who knew being a slut means you end up alone and without a family?

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I'm pretty damned tired of the Princesses and their drama, myself. Its like women watch Jersey Shore and think its a how-to for relationships.

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I thought we had a deal with the Mormons to take care of this problem?

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You just sent this thread to 10+ pages of "I'll take that offer".




















1st dibs!
 

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sadly yes



but honestly many of us men fall into this category too





 

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Who knew being a slut means you end up alone and without a family?

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No, I believe the REAL problem for most single women is that men are sick of thier shit. Sick of being on the losing end of a relationship whenever a woman "decides" shes bored. Men are sick of being "took to the cleaners" via divorce court so WTF WOULD any REAL MAN with ANY kind of intelligence even consider getting married in todays world when he KNOWS that in doing so is finacial suicide if his "partner" up and decides to leave? EVERY woman knows that marriage is a court ordered "meal ticket" at the expense of some poor sap.
All that said... I love my gf very much and am very lucky life isn't so bad for me.

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Hey you, no reality here.

Women don't exactly have a great group of men around to chose from.  This thread proves that.

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Exactly.

They are so filled up with this "if  its meant to be it'll be" crap.
In reality, there is no relationship that won't work if both people are willing and forgiving, but these girls these days are so stupid you can't tell them that.

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Hey you, no reality here.

Women don't exactly have a great group of men around to chose from.  This thread proves that.

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I thought we had a deal with the Mormons to take care of this problem?

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Mormons get to rule their own planet when they die though.... if I were a
Mormon, I'd be lousy at it. So I'd be stuck with something like Hoth.
Arrrggggh.

Women don't exactly have a great group of men around to chose from.  This thread proves that.

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Women have chances at many good men yet pass them over many times in their 20's because they don't want commitments. They want their fun instead.

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Next time you have a relationship thought, just shut up.

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