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Posted: 12/14/2010 4:31:29 PM EST
Been going out with the g/f for five years now. I'm 23 shes 24. Every frickin God damn day, every second, every nano second shes asking me "when are you gunna propose to me" "ask me to marry me you" "I want to have kids" "I want to be pregnant and have a big belly"

HOLY CARP.....I know there are worse things but Jesus H Christ females are bat shit crazy.

/end rant
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:32:35 PM EST
[#1]
Well when are you?
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:32:37 PM EST
[#2]
Its time to shit or get off the pot.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:32:38 PM EST
[#3]
pics?
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:32:38 PM EST
[#4]
Just the beginning.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:32:53 PM EST
[#5]
abort



the relationship, not the pending kid
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:33:03 PM EST
[#6]
Is she big?
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:33:18 PM EST
[#7]
SUP    DADDY....

If you don't want to hear that  EJECT

ETA:   EJECT   EJECT
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:33:20 PM EST
[#8]
It really doesn't get any better, and then some day you die.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:33:20 PM EST
[#9]
Post pics and if she's pretty, send her my way.  I'll propose, and put it into the crazy.  I'm going to die soon enough and I won't have to worry about her taking me to the cleaners.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:33:24 PM EST
[#10]
Eject. That is a sure sign of the crazy. Get it over with sooner then later.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:34:19 PM EST
[#11]
Make up your damn mind....

Hell,  you could have been married AND divorced by now...
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:34:56 PM EST
[#12]
Its been five years. To be fair she really isn't being unreasonable.



Ring and a baby or she's going to either get pregnant somehow or eject.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:35:08 PM EST
[#13]
I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO.

Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :|
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:35:18 PM EST
[#14]
Quoted:
Make up your damn mind....

Hell,  you could have been married AND divorced by now...


Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:35:29 PM EST
[#15]

Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:35:33 PM EST
[#16]
she sort of has a point. 5 years is a decent amount of time to contemplate the question at hand.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:35:53 PM EST
[#17]
Tell her you want a baby too > go to bed, make love > pull out > end relationship.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:35:55 PM EST
[#18]
Who is currently in charge of training the noobs???  

1000 posts, posts about his g/f, and not a single pic.

This place has no fucking standards anymore.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:35:56 PM EST
[#19]
Yellow handle - pull it.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:36:57 PM EST
[#20]
Quoted:
I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO.

Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :|


I don't think so. (Will not end way OP thinks it will 6-8 years from now)

Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:37:07 PM EST
[#21]



Quoted:


Been going out with the g/f for five years now. I'm 23 shes 24. Every frickin God damn day, every second, every nano second shes asking me "when are you gunna propose to me" "ask me to marry me you" "I want to have kids" "I want to be pregnant and have a big belly"



HOLY CARP.....I know there are worse things but Jesus H Christ females are bat shit crazy.



/end rant
You need some diversification....
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:37:13 PM EST
[#22]





Quoted:



Its been five years. To be fair she really isn't being unreasonable.





This.



Is she the one you want to marry or not? Figure that out and then sit down and talk to her about it. If she isn't then tell her.



Dating is about finding the right person.





 
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:37:15 PM EST
[#23]
First answer the questions "Where do you want to be with your life in 5 years? 10 years? 20 years?"

Then answer "Does she fit into those plans?"
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:37:43 PM EST
[#24]



Quoted:


she sort of has a point. 5 years is a decent amount of time to contemplate the question at hand.


He wants to wait 8 MORE years!



 
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:37:45 PM EST
[#25]
Quoted:
I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO.

Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :|


The only way to avoid an outcome that neither of you want, is to open a thread for both of you where you can openly share your feelings. GD will respect this and moderate with dignity and discretion.



Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:37:59 PM EST
[#26]
Quoted:
I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO.

Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :|


No you will not. She will wait a period of time, decide her biological clock is ticking and that she is waisting her time on you and then go find someone else to marry and have kids with
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:38:02 PM EST
[#27]
Quoted:
I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO.

Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :|


Well what in the sam hill are you waiting for??????   Marry the gal  already,   "wait 8 years or so" for crying out loud.  Make an Honest Woman of her.  

Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:38:03 PM EST
[#28]




Quoted:

I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO.



Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :|






You don't get it do you?



She's going to get pregnant (with your kid or someone elses) or eject.



She wants the ring and she wants the baby. She'll either make it happen with you or find someone else that will make it happen.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:38:23 PM EST
[#29]
Tell her to shut the mouth and go in the kitchen and make sammiches!
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:39:01 PM EST
[#30]
Please note, that this day in history, December 14, 2010 Arfcom took the side of a woman in a relationship thread.  




Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:39:33 PM EST
[#31]



Quoted:


I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO.



Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :|


TELL HER THIS...............................write it down, and hand it to her every time she ask.  Tell her the more she ask the long it will be. Tell her she is stressing you for no reason, and it's not nice.



 
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:40:07 PM EST
[#32]



Quoted:


Its time to shit or get off the pot.


Yep, can't blame her for not wanting to be a permanent girlfriend.



 
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:40:12 PM EST
[#33]
Get her an account here so we can tell her what a dumb ass she is for not kicking you to the curb.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:40:13 PM EST
[#34]
marry her, get sniped, then get unsniped when you want kids
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:40:13 PM EST
[#35]


Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:40:38 PM EST
[#36]
You're both old enough.  You say you really love her.  So, why do you want to wait 8 years?  That's a real question, please let me know as I, for some reason, am genuinely interested in this.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:40:46 PM EST
[#37]
Quoted:
I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO.

Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :|


Probably not. If you aren't ready now, you won't be in another year. Or the one after that.
She'll pick up on that vibe and move on maybe.


Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:41:00 PM EST
[#38]



Quoted:


I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO.



Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :|


No, not at all.



You are gonna put up with this for the rest of your time in relationship(s).

You can change the channel, but the commercial is the same.



free pie is never free.  suck it up, big guy.
 
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:41:02 PM EST
[#39]

it posts the pics in the thread or else it gets the propose line again
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:41:07 PM EST
[#40]



Quoted:


I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO.



Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :|


Nope, by then she'll be long gone.  



 
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:41:16 PM EST
[#41]




Quoted:

I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO.



Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :|


how long have you been living together? a lot of states if you live together for 7 years you are common law married and she can take you to the cleaners in divorce court regardless of the lack of a marriage license.

Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:41:18 PM EST
[#42]



Quoted:


I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO.



Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :|


Nope, she'll leave you long before then.

 
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:41:31 PM EST
[#43]
Quoted:
"I want to be pregnant and have a big belly"



"Well, you're halfway there"

Problem solved
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:41:46 PM EST
[#44]



Quoted:


Its time to shit or get off the pot.


Yep.   Time to have a little sit-down with yourself, OP.



 
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:42:10 PM EST
[#45]
If she is the one you might as well go for it. If not then you know what needs to be done.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:43:05 PM EST
[#46]
Congratulations.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:43:15 PM EST
[#47]
Other priorities!

I need more guns, ammo, stuff for the zombie revolution. I keep telling her I cant spend $2,000 on a ring...that will buy me like...three of four guns that I will need when SHTF.
Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:43:16 PM EST
[#48]

Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:43:24 PM EST
[#49]
"I want to have kids" = Eject

Link Posted: 12/14/2010 4:43:27 PM EST
[#50]
hope you aren't relying on birth control.
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