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Posted: 12/14/2010 4:31:29 PM EST
Been going out with the g/f for five years now. I'm 23 shes 24. Every frickin God damn day, every second, every nano second shes asking me "when are you gunna propose to me" "ask me to marry me you" "I want to have kids" "I want to be pregnant and have a big belly"
HOLY CARP.....I know there are worse things but Jesus H Christ females are bat shit crazy. /end rant |
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SUP DADDY....
If you don't want to hear that EJECT ETA: EJECT EJECT |
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Post pics and if she's pretty, send her my way. I'll propose, and put it into the crazy. I'm going to die soon enough and I won't have to worry about her taking me to the cleaners.
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Eject. That is a sure sign of the crazy. Get it over with sooner then later.
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Make up your damn mind....
Hell, you could have been married AND divorced by now... |
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Its been five years. To be fair she really isn't being unreasonable.
Ring and a baby or she's going to either get pregnant somehow or eject. |
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I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO.
Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :| |
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Make up your damn mind.... Hell, you could have been married AND divorced by now... |
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she sort of has a point. 5 years is a decent amount of time to contemplate the question at hand.
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Tell her you want a baby too > go to bed, make love > pull out > end relationship.
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Who is currently in charge of training the noobs???
1000 posts, posts about his g/f, and not a single pic. This place has no fucking standards anymore. |
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I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO. Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :| I don't think so. (Will not end way OP thinks it will 6-8 years from now) |
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Quoted: You need some diversification....
Been going out with the g/f for five years now. I'm 23 shes 24. Every frickin God damn day, every second, every nano second shes asking me "when are you gunna propose to me" "ask me to marry me you" "I want to have kids" "I want to be pregnant and have a big belly" HOLY CARP.....I know there are worse things but Jesus H Christ females are bat shit crazy. /end rant |
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Quoted: This. Its been five years. To be fair she really isn't being unreasonable. Is she the one you want to marry or not? Figure that out and then sit down and talk to her about it. If she isn't then tell her. Dating is about finding the right person. |
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First answer the questions "Where do you want to be with your life in 5 years? 10 years? 20 years?"
Then answer "Does she fit into those plans?" |
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Quoted: she sort of has a point. 5 years is a decent amount of time to contemplate the question at hand. He wants to wait 8 MORE years! |
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I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO. Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :| The only way to avoid an outcome that neither of you want, is to open a thread for both of you where you can openly share your feelings. GD will respect this and moderate with dignity and discretion. |
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I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO. Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :| No you will not. She will wait a period of time, decide her biological clock is ticking and that she is waisting her time on you and then go find someone else to marry and have kids with |
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I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO. Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :| Well what in the sam hill are you waiting for?????? Marry the gal already, "wait 8 years or so" for crying out loud. Make an Honest Woman of her. |
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Quoted: I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO. Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :| You don't get it do you? She's going to get pregnant (with your kid or someone elses) or eject. She wants the ring and she wants the baby. She'll either make it happen with you or find someone else that will make it happen. |
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Tell her to shut the mouth and go in the kitchen and make sammiches!
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Please note, that this day in history, December 14, 2010 Arfcom took the side of a woman in a relationship thread.
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Quoted: I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO. Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :| TELL HER THIS...............................write it down, and hand it to her every time she ask. Tell her the more she ask the long it will be. Tell her she is stressing you for no reason, and it's not nice. |
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Quoted: Its time to shit or get off the pot. Yep, can't blame her for not wanting to be a permanent girlfriend. |
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Get her an account here so we can tell her what a dumb ass she is for not kicking you to the curb.
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You're both old enough. You say you really love her. So, why do you want to wait 8 years? That's a real question, please let me know as I, for some reason, am genuinely interested in this.
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I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO. Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :| Probably not. If you aren't ready now, you won't be in another year. Or the one after that. She'll pick up on that vibe and move on maybe. |
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Quoted: I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO. Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :| No, not at all. You are gonna put up with this for the rest of your time in relationship(s). You can change the channel, but the commercial is the same. free pie is never free. suck it up, big guy. |
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it posts the pics in the thread or else it gets the propose line again |
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Quoted: I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO. Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :| Nope, by then she'll be long gone. |
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Quoted: I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO. Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :| how long have you been living together? a lot of states if you live together for 7 years you are common law married and she can take you to the cleaners in divorce court regardless of the lack of a marriage license. |
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Quoted: I can't eject I love the girl and have been basically best friends for five years and plan on getting married and kids someday......MAYBE 8 YEARS FROM NOW OR SO. Am I really going to really have to put up with this for the next 6-8 years :| Nope, she'll leave you long before then. |
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"I want to be pregnant and have a big belly" "Well, you're halfway there" Problem solved |
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Quoted: Its time to shit or get off the pot. Yep. Time to have a little sit-down with yourself, OP. |
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If she is the one you might as well go for it. If not then you know what needs to be done.
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Other priorities!
I need more guns, ammo, stuff for the zombie revolution. I keep telling her I cant spend $2,000 on a ring...that will buy me like...three of four guns that I will need when SHTF. |
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