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Posted: 10/27/2006 4:24:26 PM EDT
Part 2 of my relationship survey.  the first can be found here -First Date success ratio

When a relationship comes to an end are you the dumper or the dumpee?




Pick the answer that most closely represents you.
Link Posted: 10/27/2006 4:25:16 PM EDT
[#1]
IBTP.

ETA: Thats was my first IBTP. Do I get a free T-shirt or something?
Link Posted: 10/27/2006 4:29:18 PM EDT
[#2]

Quoted:
IBTP.

ETA: Thats was my first IBTP. Do I get a free T-shirt or something?


Yes!

Link Posted: 10/27/2006 4:35:41 PM EDT
[#3]
Uh, relationship???  What's that? ? ?


Dave.
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 11:15:45 AM EDT
[#4]
btt
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 11:18:02 AM EDT
[#5]
Mine started holding off on sex and bitching, I stopped going over and talking to her.

Link Posted: 10/30/2006 11:25:51 AM EDT
[#6]
I usually let cold silence do the dumping for me.
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 11:49:41 AM EDT
[#7]

Quoted:
I usually let cold silence do the dumping for me.


Nothing like being directed to voicemail to say leave me alone
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 12:12:37 PM EDT
[#8]
I have ended all of my relationships for various reasons.  

ETA:  In a couple, I caught the my girlfriend cheating on me.
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 12:18:08 PM EDT
[#9]
Once again, your poll is statistically invalid as all possible answers are not available as options.

What if I'd like to select .01% man /99.99% woman? You don't give a choice that covers that option.

Try this (again, me doing your work for you):

1. 100% man / 0% woman
2. 66%-99.99% man / 34%-0.01% woman
3. 33%-65.99% man / 67%-34.01% woman
4. 0.01%-32.99% man / 99.99%-67.01% woman
5. 0% man / 100% woman

Link Posted: 10/30/2006 12:20:44 PM EDT
[#10]
I've been dumped twice......I've dumped 100's.

YMMV
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 12:24:29 PM EDT
[#11]

Quoted:
I usually let cold silence do the dumping for me.


That works, but nothing says 'goodbye' like a Cleveland Steamer.
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 12:30:27 PM EDT
[#12]

Quoted:

Quoted:
I usually let cold silence do the dumping for me.


That works, but nothing says 'goodbye' like a Cleveland Steamerdonkey punch.
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 12:31:17 PM EDT
[#13]
In my experience it goes like this.

Short-term relationship-  Woman 25%  Man 75%

Long-term relationship-  Woman 60%  Man 40%

just my experience, nothing scientific
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 2:45:11 PM EDT
[#14]
I figure that for me I am 90% of the time responsible for terminating the relationship.  10% of the time dumped by the woman.

What I find interesting is on my first poll,  first date success,  I am rejected 90% and accepted 10%

This means that the reason my dumping poll is nearly always me doing the dumping is because the women that will date me are so pathetic that they are not willing to dump anybody that will date them.
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 2:50:15 PM EDT
[#15]
I've dumped waaayyyyy more than I've been dumped.

My goals never seemed to be the goals that matched with the girlfriends. They were looking for marriage, house, china, kids, yada, yada, yada. I remember one particular date, during a slow dance when a girlfriend said "I love you" I replied "I like you too, but I'm not looking to get married".   HOLY FUCKIN' SHIT!!!!  Talk about ruining somebody's evening!  She got all mad, started crying, blah, blah, blah.  I left her at the night club and never looked back. I've got several other bad breaker-upper stories, but... um... nevermind.
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 2:57:13 PM EDT
[#16]
when in doubt GTFO,,,,just opinion,,,,, that is all
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 2:58:31 PM EDT
[#17]
What happens when she just stops talking to you for about a year and then starts talking to where it left off?  Is that ending a relationship.
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 3:07:25 PM EDT
[#18]
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 6:17:24 PM EDT
[#19]
im the only one who has done the dumping    
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 6:21:20 PM EDT
[#20]


Guys are far more likely to "stick out" a dead relationship, but conversly do go periods without being in relationships.

Women are much more likely to always have a new man lined up before ending a relationship, and thus are hardly ever single for any period longer than a month or two.
Link Posted: 10/30/2006 6:23:29 PM EDT
[#21]
Just fill out some papers and call the Sheriff to deliver them.
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