Few, if any, cities of any size are more than 72 hours or so away from anarchy. The bigger the response needed, the slower it will be to become effective. During those days between the onset of anarchy and eventual, effective response by government, you will be on your own. To the government, you and your family are simply a statistic. They fully realize there will be casualties, and WHO those casualties are, or are not, to a very large degree does not matter to planners, since that is out of their hands in any case. A dead body is a dead body when you are dealing with thousands of them in 100+ degree heat and sweltering humidity, etc. In a few days, it will be impossible to tell without an autopsy how those people died. Anyone want to make bets as to how many rotted bodies will GET autopsied?
Thankfully, most of us here recognize that fact to a greater or lesser degree. Hopefully this tragic experience we see unfolding will help us all to prepare better for out own survival should the need ever arise.