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Posted: 10/3/2011 1:40:12 PM EST
Or are you the forgiving type?
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:40:48 PM EST
I will never forgive you for starting this thread.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:41:33 PM EST

Originally Posted By DzlBenz:
I will never forgive you for starting this thread.


Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:42:21 PM EST
I can't remember who all of my business contacts are, and you think I'm going to remember people I don't like?

I've got better things to fill my head with, thanks.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:43:31 PM EST
I try to forgive for most things. Some things I hold a grudge for a little while then forgive.. just depends on the day and the person..
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:43:32 PM EST
IBTP.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:44:28 PM EST

Originally Posted By TrojanMan:
I can't remember who all of my business contacts are, and you think I'm going to remember people I don't like?

I've got better things to fill my head with, thanks.

I'm extremely absent minded and forget shit on a regular basis but there are certain people whom when I see my jaw clenches and I get very angry.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:44:35 PM EST
Yes, and when they die I have them stuffed and mounted to the wall.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:44:57 PM EST
If you make a mistake, you own up to it.
If you have a problem with me, come talk to me about it.



You can avoid a lot of problems with those two rules. I don't hold grudges, but I remember things.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:45:00 PM EST
Originally Posted By Furyataurus:
IBTP.


Dammit. Needs moar pole. Stupid thread.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:46:03 PM EST
I regard past performance as an indicator of future behavior.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:46:39 PM EST
when given enough years I will get over most things.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:47:09 PM EST
I have found grudges to be a waste of time. so i donnt bother.

on the other hand, if i am wronged by someone, they will find it hard to get back in the "trust tree".
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:48:56 PM EST
Forgive and remember.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:48:57 PM EST
fuck ya!


i wont speak to my wife's cousin since he pulled a dick move and pissed me off... she tells me i should be "the better man" and talk to him... fuck him....
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:49:03 PM EST
The correct answer I guess is no, but I think in reality It would depend on how badly I've been slighted
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:51:14 PM EST
No , however I WILL remember what you ,did/didn't do , and you will not get a chance to wrong me/mine again for a loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong time.

Other than that area my interaction with you will be pretty much normal
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:54:19 PM EST
Fuck yes. Cross me once and you might get away with it but if I can, I'll get you back. Cross me twice and I'll do everything I can do to fuck you over.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:56:07 PM EST
If someone makes a drink come out through my nose, I will hold a grudge FOR LIFE!

Consider yourselves warned.

Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:56:16 PM EST
Years ago I did, until I realized I was only
giving power over me to the other person


Now I just move on
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:56:44 PM EST
Yup...I have paid people back years or even decades later.

Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:58:06 PM EST
Taking every grudge I ever had to the grave.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:58:35 PM EST
Yup.... I rarely forgive...
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:59:04 PM EST
Depends on the offense and the time frame for retribution.

The LCPL that dogged the shit out of me while on a working party in boot camp, he gets a pass. It was 37 years ago.

Link Posted: 10/3/2011 1:59:19 PM EST

One of the few things in life that I remember are the people that wronged me.

It's not easy getting on my list but once you're on it you'll never come off.


I also hold a fairly robust scorched earth policy on things.


I burn bridges like it's going out of style.

Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:00:12 PM EST
I have Irish Alzheimers...I forget everything but a grudge.

Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:00:14 PM EST
Hold a grudge?
Like an Ayatollah!
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:01:25 PM EST

Originally Posted By optimumengineering:
Yup...I have paid people back years or even decades later.

Care to share?

Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:02:40 PM EST
I never forget, I never forgive...

Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:03:03 PM EST
I don't forget...either friends and people who have been helpful or generous in some way or people who have fucked me over or ripped me off in some way. I never forget.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:03:26 PM EST
Originally Posted By ckichinko:
If you make a mistake, you own up to it.
If you have a problem with me, come talk to me about it.



You can avoid a lot of problems with those two rules. I don't hold grudges, but I remember things.


Well put Sir, well put.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:05:59 PM EST
Originally Posted By HunterRose13:
Forgive and remember.


I am like this and I believe it is best

Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:17:39 PM EST
never forgive or forget.......keeps me warm at night.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:19:20 PM EST

Originally Posted By Mr_Harry:
Years ago I did, until I realized I was only
giving power over me to the other person


Now I just move on
Took me to many years to realize this...

Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:19:56 PM EST
Depends. I have a few.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:20:54 PM EST
Sometimes. Though I find it a waste of time for the most part.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:23:20 PM EST
Originally Posted By ckichinko:
...

I don't hold grudges, but I remember things.


This.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:23:34 PM EST
i don't hold grudges against people who do me wrong, but i never trust them again.

If you insult my wife or daughter, i'll do just about anything to make your life a little bit harder.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:25:11 PM EST
My philosophy is "Trust until proven untrustworthy." Once someone has proven to be untrustworthy, I will NEVER trust them again. Period, end of story. If you consider that "holding a grudge", then yes. Do I try to get back at them... not necessarily. But my trust is gone forever.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:26:18 PM EST
Im 95% forgiving , for the other 5%, I will fucking bury you given the chance .
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:28:46 PM EST
If it's worth holding,i hold it .
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:28:50 PM EST

Originally Posted By MoonDancer:
My philosophy is "Trust until proven untrustworthy." Once someone has proven to be untrustworthy, I will NEVER trust them again. Period, end of story. If you consider that "holding a grudge", then yes. Do I try to get back at them... not necessarily. But my trust is gone forever.

Exactly
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:30:07 PM EST
No, if I did I would hate all of you.

You've all pissed me off at some point.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:31:01 PM EST
All that hate's gonna burn you up, kid.
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:31:33 PM EST
Yup, I have a few!!
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:34:40 PM EST
I don't recall
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:38:36 PM EST
I wouldn't say it's necessarily a grudge, per se.

If you don't pay me money you owe me for work I've done, you can GET FUCKED. You are now on my SHITHEAD list and I wouldn't piss down your throat if your guts were on fire. Please understand, this is strictly a business consideration. Nothing personal, but I will never hit another lick for you, MOTHERFUCKER.

You finally pay up months later and want me to come over to do another job? Yeah, sure, I'm getting in my truck right now FUCK YOU.


Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:39:35 PM EST
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:42:10 PM EST
Originally Posted By cjharpy:

Originally Posted By Mr_Harry:
Years ago I did, until I realized I was only
giving power over me to the other person


Now I just move on
Took me to many years to realize this...



Same here, It is freeing to walk away.

Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:46:09 PM EST
I try really hard not to carry hate. It seems to bother me more than the hatee. So i just consider them thrown out of my life.
I don`t care to know good or bad about them, if they win the lottery or get squashed flat by a garbage truck, its all the same
to me. I consider them not just dead, but not human any more. Not worth giving a hoot about.
I do this for me and my peace, not theirs.
But they need to leave me alone and don`t push it,or it won`t go well.

Carry a grudge? maybe not, but i don`t forget where i left it.

Scruff
Link Posted: 10/3/2011 2:47:17 PM EST

Originally Posted By cmca:
I don't forget...either friends and people who have been helpful or generous in some way or people who have fucked me over or ripped me off in some way. I never forget.


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