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Posted: 10/4/2004 11:56:30 PM EDT
I keep meeting people who say that if they or their spouse/signifigant other give or receive oral sex to someone else that it isn't cheating. This boggles my mind as it would definitely end my marriage.
What say you?

Poll coming.
Link Posted: 10/4/2004 11:57:33 PM EDT
YES!!

FUCKING BILL CLINTON!!!
Link Posted: 10/4/2004 11:57:53 PM EDT




Link Posted: 10/4/2004 11:58:05 PM EDT
Yes.
Link Posted: 10/4/2004 11:59:58 PM EDT
If I was in relationship yes
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 12:01:37 AM EDT

Originally Posted By CavVet:







No, I am not trolling here. Media and more and more people are actually agreeing with this screwed up philosophy.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 12:02:59 AM EDT
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 12:03:36 AM EDT
I know of at least one failed marraige that was caused by this line of thinking by one of the couple.

She mentioned that he even commented that it was okay because Clinton was able to do it.

She is soooooo much happier now without the idiot.

Link Posted: 10/5/2004 12:05:53 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 10/5/2004 2:36:16 AM EDT by PhatForrest]
Hmm, lets think about this one for a minute.

"Sure, honey, I don't care that you sucked some dude off. It won't make the least bit of a difference."

I don't think so. - ETA this means NOT ACCEPTABLE!
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 12:05:59 AM EDT
I do...
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 12:07:13 AM EDT
The real question, is oral sex, well sex?

I say yes.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 12:26:57 AM EDT
I just don't understand how people can think that way...

And for those who say it isn't cheating, I'd be willing to bet they didn't say that with their boyfriend/girlfriend/significant other standing right there.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 12:28:35 AM EDT
Oral Sex is sex.

Sticking in her pooper and posting pics isnt, as long as the only reason you did it was to post pics on ARFCOM.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 12:28:59 AM EDT
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 12:31:50 AM EDT
If it involves a sex organ and pleasure, then it is sex.

I don't know how anyone can argue with this.

BTW, I'm single and if any of you know any women who do not consider oral gratification as sex, let me know.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 12:49:20 AM EDT
Its cheating. Anyone who believes differently, please send your woman over to see me.

Link Posted: 10/5/2004 1:05:52 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 10/5/2004 1:06:26 AM EDT by osprey21]
Yes I do, but then... I'm not a cheater trying to justify my actions.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 1:42:18 AM EDT
Are we talking giving or recieving?
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 1:55:21 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 10/5/2004 2:02:19 AM EDT by Tweak]
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 2:03:52 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 10/5/2004 2:05:03 AM EDT by glockguy40]
...
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 2:08:31 AM EDT
Intimate mouth to mouth kissing is cheating and could likely end a marriage.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 2:12:35 AM EDT
Well I'll run it by the ol' lady, but I'm pretty sure I know where she stands on this.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 2:35:13 AM EDT
This is a dumb question.

It's like asking how much infidelity is acceptable.

Simple answer: None.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 2:37:59 AM EDT
This has to be one of the stupidest questions ever asked .

OF COURSE IT IS CHEATING.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 2:40:31 AM EDT
If you don't know if eating is cheating, ask your wife. When you come to, you'll know the answer.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 3:07:43 AM EDT

Originally Posted By rn45:
If you don't know if eating is cheating, ask your wife. When you come to, you'll know the answer.

.

...wake up face down in the gutter with your pre-marriage possessions lying on top of you
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 3:10:47 AM EDT
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 3:36:56 AM EDT
It's not whether or not you consider it cheating. It's whether or not your spouse considers it cheating. If I were married, I would be devestaded if I found out my wife was having oral sex with someone else.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 4:08:35 AM EDT
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 4:08:56 AM EDT
We can thank Clinton for this line of thinking.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 4:13:09 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 10/5/2004 4:48:26 AM EDT by M4arc]
It depends if the act is committed in the same state in which your wife/gf lives. For instance, if you lived in Virginia, for instance, and you got a BJ in Maryland, for instance, that would not be cheating. But, if you got a BJ in Virginia, for instance, it would be
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 4:13:32 AM EDT
Yes

And I agree with Taxman.


Iritei
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 4:28:10 AM EDT
It depends on what the definition of "is" is.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:01:04 AM EDT
I'd be pissed off if my wife kissed another person . . . let alone if she had someone else's dong in her mouth!
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:02:25 AM EDT
If I LOOK at a woman with intentions of further actions then I have already cheated!


PERIOD!


SGatr1­5
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:03:36 AM EDT
hmmmmm. Yes.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:08:18 AM EDT
I didn't realize Bill Clinton opened an account.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:12:02 AM EDT
Shit! I would rather my wife fuck someone else than suck his dick. Hell yea it would end the marriage and maybe someone's ability to walk.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:14:45 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Taxman:
If I was in relationship yes



If you weren't in a relationship, who would you be cheating on?

Absolutely cheating!
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:15:59 AM EDT

Originally Posted By BigJ491:
It's not whether or not you consider it cheating. It's whether or not your spouse considers it cheating. If I were married, I would be devestaded if I found out my wife was having oral sex with someone else.



Depends on the sitaution. If I was married and found out my wife was blowing some dude, that'd be cheating. But, If I was married and my wife informed me that she'd been spending her spare time eating out Alizee, and asked if I'd like to watch, that'd probably be different.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:18:47 AM EDT

Originally Posted By gunman0:

Originally Posted By BigJ491:
It's not whether or not you consider it cheating. It's whether or not your spouse considers it cheating. If I were married, I would be devestaded if I found out my wife was having oral sex with someone else.



Depends on the sitaution. If I was married and found out my wife was blowing some dude, that'd be cheating. But, If I was married and my wife informed me that she'd been spending her spare time eating out Alizee, and asked if I'd like to watch, that'd probably be different.



Now there my friends is a good point.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:32:04 AM EDT

Originally Posted By rn45:
If you don't know if eating is cheating, ask your wife. When you come toBefore you finish bleeding out, you'll know the answer.



Fixed it for ya.

"click, click, click... Honey, how do I reload this thing?"
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:39:33 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Ogre_4070:

Originally Posted By Taxman:
If I was in relationship yes



If you weren't in a relationship, who would you be cheating on?

Absolutely cheating!



It's all "relative". Some people just don't want to face the truth.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:43:04 AM EDT
Some people need their heads examined. It is most certainly cheating.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:46:53 AM EDT
Of course it is cheating.

But, if someone puts peanut butter on their balls and lets their dog lick it off, is that cheating?
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:48:26 AM EDT
yes, as well as making plans to cheat, internet sex, or anything above friendly conversation is a breech of trust in a relationship.
And if a man cheats on his wife, he'll cheat anyone, and cannot be trusted.

Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:49:21 AM EDT
That would be the end of it
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:51:45 AM EDT
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:54:35 AM EDT
Sticking your daddy stick into ANY oriface of another woman is cheating.
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:55:29 AM EDT
yes
Link Posted: 10/5/2004 5:56:48 AM EDT

Originally Posted By operatorerror:
If it involves a sex organ and pleasure, then it is sex.

I don't know how anyone can argue with this.

BTW, I'm single and if any of you know any women who do not consider oral gratification as sex, let me know.



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