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Posted: 11/19/2014 10:50:41 PM EDT
I'm not a guy who gets sappy. Fuck, I didn't cry when my grandparents died back in January. Didn't cry when I dragged my body 3 miles back to my car in April. Didn't even cry when I got the hospital bill afterwards... but my best friend...

It is always hard losing a best friend. You aren't even gone yet and I'm already missing you. How we spend the next few days together, well that is entirely up to you. No matter how hard things got, I could always turn to you to bring me up and make me smile. Always you, even when no one else was there. It is your unconditional love, company, and willingness to sporadically go and fuck shit up that I will miss.

You taught me somethings that no one else could have taught me, that the most simple things in life are often the most enjoyable, that sometimes playing it stupid works the best, that truly everything is edible, no matter the taste or consequence, and that money isn't everything, even though if it was I would rob a bank if that's what it would take to keep you around. Sometimes life is more complicated than that though.

It's gonna be hard not having you around the holidays, but know that I will eat the shit out of the turkey and ham for you

I love you B, and I'm gonna miss you.









Link Posted: 11/19/2014 10:52:26 PM EDT
[#1]
I'm sorry about you're pup, O.P.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 12:00:34 AM EDT
[#2]
It's hard, but you have just enough time to go and rescue a replacement.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 12:29:02 AM EDT
[#3]
Sorry for your loss bud.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 12:38:17 AM EDT
[#4]
Why do I click on these....  

Sorry for your loss OP.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 12:42:20 AM EDT
[#5]
i'm sorry for your loss
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 12:42:26 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 11/20/2014 12:49:21 AM EDT
[#7]
Really, really sorry for your loss but just looking at your pictures, you guys both gave each other one hell of a life together.

My oldest boxer boy turns 13 next week. He's doing wonderful and still very much like a puppy but I know that can't last forever

Never forget your best buddy but there's always more that need to be rescued from shitty people and bad situations. I'd have a whole heard if I could pull it off!! Boxers and just such a joy to have as family companions!!

Misty now, must go to bed...
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 12:50:45 AM EDT
[#8]
This is why I don't have pets. :(
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 12:53:37 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 11/20/2014 12:54:23 AM EDT
[#10]
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Really, really sorry for your loss but just looking at your pictures, you guys both gave each other one hell of a life together.

My oldest boxer boy turns 13 next week. He's doing wonderful and still very much like a puppy but I know that can't last forever

Never forget your best buddy but there's always more that need to be rescued from shitty people and bad situations. I'd have a whole heard if I could pull it off!! Boxers and just such a joy to have as family companions!!

Misty now, must go to bed...
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We have an older one. She is 11. We're not sure how she's gonna handle it, they have been together for the past 8 years (since we got Bella as an 8wk old puppy). Older one is still healthy and playful. Hell, Bella is too, for the most part, but some things happen and get worse rapidly. She isn't in much pain right now and still has a lot of energy, but in her current condition that won't be the case in the next 10-15 days.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 12:57:22 AM EDT
[#11]
Ah, man. It's hard, very hard.

Just remember all the good times and talk to him about those.

Link Posted: 11/20/2014 12:58:39 AM EDT
[#12]
Sorry about your loss. Dags are like perpetual two year olds, they just have an innocence and love for life that endears them to us.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 1:00:39 AM EDT
[#13]
Sorry to hear that OP.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 1:06:31 AM EDT
[#14]
Sorry for your bud OP.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 1:16:36 AM EDT
[#15]
Remember the deal you made when you got the dag....this is
the heartbreak part, but its well worth it. Good looking dag there,
think you filled your part of the bargain
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 1:20:45 AM EDT
[#16]
Sorry for your loss OP. Looks like a lot of good memories.

A good dag is the best friend you'll ever have.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 1:23:55 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 11/20/2014 1:33:51 AM EDT
[#18]
I'm sorry, brother.

Link Posted: 11/20/2014 1:44:02 AM EDT
[#19]
Very sorry your time together is coming to an end.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 1:49:20 AM EDT
[#20]
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 1:53:25 AM EDT
[#21]
Prayers sent.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 1:58:00 AM EDT
[#22]
Sorry about your loss OP, so is Carly.
(she is a rescue and owns my heart)
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Link Posted: 11/20/2014 1:59:57 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 11/20/2014 2:01:13 AM EDT
[#24]
Ah man, no words. Sitting here looking at my Ella and Bogart. So sorry for your loss OP. Thank you for offering your home and heart to our four legged loved ones.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 2:03:49 AM EDT
[#25]
Three sends his condolences.



Link Posted: 11/20/2014 2:16:23 AM EDT
[#26]
Cubby too

Link Posted: 11/20/2014 3:00:55 AM EDT
[#27]
Oh man, I hate this part, and I am so so sorry it's your turn. The missing starts while they're still here because they leave a little bit at a time and hang on no matter how it hurts to try and stay with you. One day I noticed my Akita was literally torturing herself on feeble hips trying to get to the door to go out so as not to pee on the rug, because she was a good girl, FOR ME. That's when I knew it was the purest act of love to send her on her way.

No fear, no guilt for you. My shining star, along with so many others, is waiting for yours on the other side.

Godspeed to your Dag.

Link Posted: 11/20/2014 3:06:43 AM EDT
[#28]
Sorry buddy. Been there several times myself. It does get better but takes time.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 3:09:42 AM EDT
[#29]
Sorry, OP.



Can't say much more than that, other than it's not easy being a best friend and fulfilling that final promise.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 3:15:51 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 11/20/2014 3:38:57 AM EDT
[#31]
Sorry for your loss, hang in there.

I'm going to cry like a baby when my dog goes.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 3:43:49 AM EDT
[#32]
Did this last week. Picking up the ashes tomorrow.
Link Posted: 11/20/2014 1:58:57 PM EDT
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Sorry for your loss, hang in there.

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I was just hoping that she'd pull through til after Thanksgiving (also my birthday). Probably one of her favourite holidays. My dogs usually sit at the table with us and pig out. We are kind of weird like that. At this point I don't want her to be there if she is going to be suffering, and at the current rate of things she would be. :(
Link Posted: 11/21/2014 10:17:35 PM EDT
[#34]
She's off roaming around the neighborhood right now, doing whatever the fuck she pleases. Fetch, a short hike, and steaks tomorrow. Then I'm gonna take her a little up north for her to play in the snow (she fucking loves snow), since we haven't got anything considerable down here yet.
Link Posted: 11/21/2014 10:22:45 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 11/22/2014 5:32:44 PM EDT
[#36]
Had a great long day today, and man, they are both tired. Hopefully she wakes up and is hungry for the steakburgers we are going to cook her in a little bit.





Link Posted: 11/22/2014 6:49:55 PM EDT
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Jeez, they need a bigger bed...
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Doesn't matter. We have like 4 different beds for them, two of them are huge. They still prefer the one that is tiny and barely fits both of them.
Link Posted: 11/22/2014 7:15:51 PM EDT
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You're avoiding the pain but oh you're missing sooooo much.
Link Posted: 11/22/2014 7:19:45 PM EDT
[#40]
OP, this pain is the price we pay for years of unconditional love. I have some fantastic dogs waiting to show B the ropes til you are together again.
Link Posted: 11/22/2014 7:22:58 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 11/22/2014 7:23:30 PM EDT
[#42]
I'm worried about a rescue I got for the same reasons OP. Recently she's been slow and today even more so. Good luck OP, make B happy as long as possible
Link Posted: 11/22/2014 8:07:07 PM EDT
[#43]
Tonight we had a feast!





Link Posted: 11/22/2014 8:23:06 PM EDT
[#44]
I'm sorry OP.

Tomorrow will be one year that I got brought down to my knees and cried like a baby. They do that to you, they grab ahold of your heart without you knowing it. I still can't talk about it today without tearing up.
Link Posted: 11/22/2014 8:39:53 PM EDT
[#45]
Sorry to hear that, OP. Good looking dog and sounds like he was a great family member. My wife and I are facing the same prospect with our 12 year old Golden. She's got bone cancer and we're just doing our best to manage her pain now. We're hoping she'll be ok through Christmas, but you just never know. It's getting doggone dusty in here.

Whoever coined the phrase "man's best friend" was a genius. I'll be thinking about you and your pup in the upcoming days, OP. Enjoy your time with him.
Link Posted: 11/22/2014 8:58:17 PM EDT
[#46]
So sorry OP. My boy is my best friend and the other three aren't too bad either.
Link Posted: 11/22/2014 9:18:31 PM EDT
[#47]
I am sorry!!
Link Posted: 11/22/2014 9:22:16 PM EDT
[#48]
Sorry for your loss
Link Posted: 11/22/2014 9:24:26 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 11/22/2014 9:26:08 PM EDT
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