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Posted: 8/14/2011 8:37:51 AM EDT
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Posted: 8/14/2011 8:42:03 AM EDT
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Posted: 8/14/2011 8:42:05 AM EDT
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HA! A murder is funny? |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 8:43:13 AM EDT
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Quoted: HA! Murder is fucking hilarious!!  |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 8:45:07 AM EDT
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What the fuck?
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Posted: 8/14/2011 8:46:13 AM EDT
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If I'm not mistaken, this was just posted here a couple of days ago by a forum member who went to high school with the perpetrator. I post this not as a dupe call-out, but rather to tell you that more details are in the other thread.
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Posted: 8/14/2011 8:47:38 AM EDT
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Thats an incredibly ghetto 911 dispatch setup. You have to put the caller on HOLD to call the ambulance???
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Posted: 8/14/2011 8:54:00 AM EDT
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Quoted: Quoted: HA! A murder is funny? Sorry, but the tape IS funny. I guess you have to like black humor to really appreciate it. You're going to tell me that these lines didn't even bring a half-suppressed smile or chuckle?  When Sanchez asked who he had killed, William Dembie replied, "My wife, my ex-wife,” before giving a little laugh. "I don’t have nothing. I’m not, I’m not dangerous. I just couldn’t deal with her shit anymore,” Dembie said. |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 8:58:44 AM EDT
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If I'm not mistaken, this was just posted here a couple of days ago by a forum member who went to high school with the perpetrator. I post this not as a dupe call-out, but rather to tell you that more details are in the other thread. Wouldn't surprise me, I seem to have a knack for posting dupes.
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:00:26 AM EDT
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HA! A murder is funny? Sorry, but the tape IS funny. I guess you have to like black humor to really appreciate it. You're going to tell me that these lines didn't even bring a half-suppressed smile or chuckle?
When Sanchez asked who he had killed, William Dembie replied, "My wife, my ex-wife,” before giving a little laugh. "I don’t have nothing. I’m not, I’m not dangerous. I just couldn’t deal with her shit anymore,” Dembie said. So, Have you ever lost a family member to domestic violence/homicide? It kinda takes the "funny" out of it! |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:03:02 AM EDT
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DA**!!
Eerily that guy looks ALOT like my older brother. |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:20:16 AM EDT
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Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: HA! A murder is funny? Sorry, but the tape IS funny. I guess you have to like black humor to really appreciate it. You're going to tell me that these lines didn't even bring a half-suppressed smile or chuckle? When Sanchez asked who he had killed, William Dembie replied, "My wife, my ex-wife,” before giving a little laugh. "I don’t have nothing. I’m not, I’m not dangerous. I just couldn’t deal with her shit anymore,” Dembie said. Dude, that is fucked up. Just a wee bit funny though. |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:20:52 AM EDT
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Wow, I can't believe how lucid and matter of fact he sounds after committing a grizzly murder. That must have been some industrial strength "shit" his wife was dishing out.
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:30:53 AM EDT
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Thats an incredibly ghetto 911 dispatch setup. You have to put the caller on HOLD to call the ambulance??? Lorain. Nuff said. |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:31:23 AM EDT
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Nothing says "I really mean it this time" like death via knife.
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:32:03 AM EDT
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Quoted: Quoted: So, Have you ever lost a family member to domestic violence/homicide? It kinda takes the "funny" out of it!Quoted: Sorry, but the tape IS funny. I guess you have to like black humor to really appreciate it. You're going to tell me that these lines didn't even bring a half-suppressed smile or chuckle? Quoted: A murder is funny?HA! When Sanchez asked who he had killed, William Dembie replied, "My wife, my ex-wife,” before giving a little laugh. "I don’t have nothing. I’m not, I’m not dangerous. I just couldn’t deal with her shit anymore,” Dembie said.  I thought it was pretty funny. Why didn't you choose to stay out of a thread like this or did you plan on coming in here and attempting to guilt posters with a different sense of humor from yours? Just wondering. . . Have you ever been wrongly accused of domestic violence/homicide? I betcha that group finds this situation a funnier than the average bear.  |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:33:41 AM EDT
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:36:50 AM EDT
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See the link for phone call audio. "I'm not dangerous, I just couldn't deal with her shit anymore."" GRAFTON TWP. — Lorain County Jail Corrections Officer William Dembie Jr. called the Lorain County Sheriff’s Office around 1:30 a.m. Thursday and calmly confessed to Dispatcher Joy Sanchez that he had just killed his wife, Holly Dembie. 
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:38:55 AM EDT
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Too bad she didn't have a... 
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:40:13 AM EDT
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Makes more sense to just pack your shit and leave. Either way, you're leaving, just seems better to me to do it voluntarily and keep open the possibility of hookers, blow and bottles of 100 year old hooch.
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:41:52 AM EDT
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http://www.morningjournal.com/articles/2011/08/13/news/mj4906510.txt?viewmode=2 In the Yahoo! post about the judo choke hold from h.dembie, who didn’t have a photo and merely states she lives in Ohio, the writer stated she was “leaving this jerk” and “this is pathetic... i’m calling a lawyer. tomorrow... “in one form or another it equates to abuse of power. he treats me like crap, misuses our funds and then chokes me out as he begs for a chance. this is the end of the mistreatment, i’ve dealt with it for 10 years. i’m done. he has been diagnosed with an antisocial personality disorder. i work in special education, which makes me want to help, but it’s just too many hurts. he won’t try. i realize that this is a predominantly adolescent forum but i need to vent. when i was pregnant with our only child he cheated and gave me a script. he didn’t want to buy a crib. he thought i was jumping the gun. he didn’t attend the first birthday. and punched me for the first time afterwards because i thought it was abnormal. i’ve never had help through the worst labor projects we’ve endured. his skin was too sensitive to help me rake or throw straw to seed a new lawn over 2 acres. i drove the bobcat in reverse for 12 hours by myself and raked and seeded it myself. i’m stubborn too...” h.dembie wrote. There weren’t any documented histories of domestic violence within the Dembie household. Friends of Holly Dembie said there were some indicators, but nothing so extreme they thought their friend would be killed. Holly Dembie was seeking an attorney for divorce, friend and colleague Kara Kaiser said. |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:42:01 AM EDT
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You can tell exactly when he comes off the adrenalin "rush" of the murder and reality sets back in.
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:42:29 AM EDT
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Makes more sense to just pack your shit and leave. Either way, you're leaving, just seems better to me to do it voluntarily and keep open the possibility of hookers, blow and bottles of 100 year old hooch. You are being rational. Men who kill their wives with knives? Not so much. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:44:32 AM EDT
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wow thats kinda fucked up
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:50:48 AM EDT
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Pretty professional call-taker at their dispatch center - much better than some I have heard.
I think that was JarheadPatriots classmate. messed up deal. |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:52:07 AM EDT
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the woman working 911 and the murdered are having an affair.
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:55:43 AM EDT
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the woman working 911 and the murdered are having an affair. The dispatcher is having an affair with the murdered, or did you mean the murderer? |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 9:58:54 AM EDT
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Wow, I can't believe how lucid and matter of fact he sounds after committing a grizzly murder. That must have been some industrial strength "shit" his wife was dishing out. He simply couldn't bear it anymore.
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Posted: 8/14/2011 10:01:18 AM EDT
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Makes more sense to just pack your shit and leave. Either way, you're leaving, just seems better to me to do it voluntarily and keep open the possibility of hookers, blow and bottles of 100 year old hooch. You are being rational. Men who kill their wives with knives? Not so much. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile I've got a client who's been in the domestic violence field for 20+ years, we've talked about it and I've helped him develop training materials for teaching domestic violence counselors (I do the computer part). He's worked at ferreting them out, help cure them and if not, get them locked up and now he's training others. It's a fascinating field if you can get over the tragedy involved. Most men who do this aren't stupid or crazy like you and I think of crazy. They're often crazy like a fox, they act normally in public and their wives often help cover it up. I took one of the tests for DV when I was helping him just for grins and giggles. He showed me my test results and a few others from real DV offenders. The guys who beat their wives scored better than I did on the questions involving domestic violence. In fact, their answers were usually perfect. It was their answers on other questions, ones with no relation to their wives, anger or violence that were the cue. They were weird, not really outrageously weird, but just...off. Reading them raised the hairs on the back of my neck. I think other men are in no danger from them whatsoever, but if you're a woman, watch out. As I said, fascinating if it wasn't for the tragedy. |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 10:10:45 AM EDT
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HA! A murder is funny? There is no manslaughter without laughter. 
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Posted: 8/14/2011 10:11:41 AM EDT
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My uncle shot and killed his wife during an argument. He was out of prison and back on his feet in 7-years.
It took my dad 11 years to get back on his feet after divorce court. At some point everything becomes a risk management decision. |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 10:14:06 AM EDT
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Makes more sense to just pack your shit and leave. Either way, you're leaving, just seems better to me to do it voluntarily and keep open the possibility of hookers, blow and bottles of 100 year old hooch. You are being rational. Men who kill their wives with knives? Not so much. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile I've got a client who's been in the domestic violence field for 20+ years, we've talked about it and I've helped him develop training materials for teaching domestic violence counselors (I do the computer part). He's worked at ferreting them out, help cure them and if not, get them locked up and now he's training others. It's a fascinating field if you can get over the tragedy involved. Most men who do this aren't stupid or crazy like you and I think of crazy. They're often crazy like a fox, they act normally in public and their wives often help cover it up. I took one of the tests for DV when I was helping him just for grins and giggles. He showed me my test results and a few others from real DV offenders. The guys who beat their wives scored better than I did on the questions involving domestic violence. In fact, their answers were usually perfect. It was their answers on other questions, ones with no relation to their wives, anger or violence that were the cue. They were weird, not really outrageously weird, but just...off. Reading them raised the hairs on the back of my neck. I think other men are in no danger from them whatsoever, but if you're a woman, watch out. As I said, fascinating if it wasn't for the tragedy. The interesting part is those same characteristics are what attract women to them in the first place. Even if women are told they have D violence issues, they will still ignore it and cultivate a relationship. Seen it over and over again. There is a lot of truth to the "bad boy treat em like shit and they will be attracted to you." |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 10:14:39 AM EDT
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Makes more sense to just pack your shit and leave. Either way, you're leaving, just seems better to me to do it voluntarily and keep open the possibility of hookers, blow and bottles of 100 year old hooch. You are being rational. Men who kill their wives with knives? Not so much. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile I've got a client who's been in the domestic violence field for 20+ years, we've talked about it and I've helped him develop training materials for teaching domestic violence counselors (I do the computer part). He's worked at ferreting them out, help cure them and if not, get them locked up and now he's training others. It's a fascinating field if you can get over the tragedy involved. Most men who do this aren't stupid or crazy like you and I think of crazy. They're often crazy like a fox, they act normally in public and their wives often help cover it up. I took one of the tests for DV when I was helping him just for grins and giggles. He showed me my test results and a few others from real DV offenders. The guys who beat their wives scored better than I did on the questions involving domestic violence. In fact, their answers were usually perfect. It was their answers on other questions, ones with no relation to their wives, anger or violence that were the cue. They were weird, not really outrageously weird, but just...off. Reading them raised the hairs on the back of my neck. I think other men are in no danger from them whatsoever, but if you're a woman, watch out. As I said, fascinating if it wasn't for the tragedy. The interesting part is those same characteristics are what attract women to them in the first place. Even if women are told they have D violence issues, they will still ignore it and cultivate a relationship. Seen it over and over again. "But I love him!!" |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 10:16:52 AM EDT
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Makes more sense to just pack your shit and leave. Either way, you're leaving, just seems better to me to do it voluntarily and keep open the possibility of hookers, blow and bottles of 100 year old hooch. You are being rational. Men who kill their wives with knives? Not so much. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile I've got a client who's been in the domestic violence field for 20+ years, we've talked about it and I've helped him develop training materials for teaching domestic violence counselors (I do the computer part). He's worked at ferreting them out, help cure them and if not, get them locked up and now he's training others. It's a fascinating field if you can get over the tragedy involved. Most men who do this aren't stupid or crazy like you and I think of crazy. They're often crazy like a fox, they act normally in public and their wives often help cover it up. I took one of the tests for DV when I was helping him just for grins and giggles. He showed me my test results and a few others from real DV offenders. The guys who beat their wives scored better than I did on the questions involving domestic violence. In fact, their answers were usually perfect. It was their answers on other questions, ones with no relation to their wives, anger or violence that were the cue. They were weird, not really outrageously weird, but just...off. Reading them raised the hairs on the back of my neck. I think other men are in no danger from them whatsoever, but if you're a woman, watch out. As I said, fascinating if it wasn't for the tragedy. The interesting part is those same characteristics are what attract women to them in the first place. Even if women are told they have D violence issues, they will still ignore it and cultivate a relationship. Seen it over and over again. "But I love him!!" And it was just a "misunderstanding, he didn't mean to hit me." |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 10:17:29 AM EDT
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And it was just a "misunderstanding." "He told me that it won't happen again, and he will get help" |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 10:29:25 AM EDT
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3rdpig: As a former prosecutor and criminal defense attorney I have direct experience in this field as well. Also, in my personal life I have had some experiences recently that have taught me even more about it. However, I'm learning to limit the amount of info I share about my personal life here, so IM me if you wish to discuss further.
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Posted: 8/14/2011 10:45:58 AM EDT
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Wow, I can't believe how lucid and matter of fact he sounds after committing a grizzly murder. That must have been some industrial strength "shit" his wife was dishing out. He simply couldn't bear it anymore.
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Posted: 8/14/2011 10:48:04 AM EDT
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That was, wow...
 
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Posted: 8/14/2011 10:57:53 AM EDT
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Link to other thread?
No matter how much shit she gives you, divorce is always better than prison. |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 11:20:33 AM EDT
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There's a simple test to determine if Domestic Violence has occurred:
If the alleged victim stops at the jail first to bond out her perp before going to the hospital she's probably been abused. If the alleged victim's late to her lawyer's office, losing track of time from all the high-fiving her girlfriends, it's probably not. |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 11:26:53 AM EDT
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why don't people just leave?
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Posted: 8/14/2011 11:30:26 AM EDT
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HA! A murder is funny? Sorry, but the tape IS funny. I guess you have to like black humor to really appreciate it. You're going to tell me that these lines didn't even bring a half-suppressed smile or chuckle?
When Sanchez asked who he had killed, William Dembie replied, "My wife, my ex-wife,” before giving a little laugh. "I don’t have nothing. I’m not, I’m not dangerous. I just couldn’t deal with her shit anymore,” Dembie said. So, Have you ever lost a family member to domestic violence/homicide? It kinda takes the "funny" out of it! But as you have demonstrated it has the unexpected benefit of giving you an aura of victimized superiority, allowing you to condescend to other people 'cause you're special. So it's really a lose/win sort of thing. |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 11:32:05 AM EDT
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why don't people just leave? Because they often lose almost everything they have worked for their entire life and at some point, a certain small percentage is going to say F it and do something inappropriate. |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 11:34:25 AM EDT
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See the link for phone call audio. "I'm not dangerous, I just couldn't deal with her shit anymore."" GRAFTON TWP. — Lorain County Jail Corrections Officer William Dembie Jr. called the Lorain County Sheriff’s Office around 1:30 a.m. Thursday and calmly confessed to Dispatcher Joy Sanchez that he had just killed his wife, Holly Dembie.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zXIuAz7aryo
ARFCOM is slipping. My first thought glad this was posted
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Posted: 8/14/2011 11:37:25 AM EDT
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3rdpig: As a former prosecutor and criminal defense attorney I have direct experience in this field as well. Also, in my personal life I have had some experiences recently that have taught me even more about it. However, I'm learning to limit the amount of info I share about my personal life here, so IM me if you wish to discuss further. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Duke: thanks for IMing me all that personal stuff. We aren't really close, so your openness makes me feel pretty good. I have some questions, though. I understand that your connections practically guaranteed no jail time (besides which, it's hard to prove the corpus delicti without a corpus ), but I don't get how you were never even arrested. Did everybody else in the county hate her, too? Is there a statute of limitation for that kind of thing where you live? Please explain.
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Posted: 8/14/2011 11:39:22 AM EDT
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My uncle shot and killed his wife during an argument. He was out of prison and back on his feet in 7-years. ...he should have got the chair
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Posted: 8/14/2011 11:43:59 AM EDT
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Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: See the link for phone call audio. "I'm not dangerous, I just couldn't deal with her shit anymore."" GRAFTON TWP. — Lorain County Jail Corrections Officer William Dembie Jr. called the Lorain County Sheriff’s Office around 1:30 a.m. Thursday and calmly confessed to Dispatcher Joy Sanchez that he had just killed his wife, Holly Dembie. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zXIuAz7aryoARFCOM is slipping. My first thought glad this was posted The idea is to listen to the song and lament, not to actually follow through with it. |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 11:44:05 AM EDT
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Whatever happened to the common courtesy of a murder-suicide?
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Posted: 8/14/2011 11:59:43 AM EDT
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3rdpig: As a former prosecutor and criminal defense attorney I have direct experience in this field as well. Also, in my personal life I have had some experiences recently that have taught me even more about it. However, I'm learning to limit the amount of info I share about my personal life here, so IM me if you wish to discuss further. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Duke: thanks for IMing me all that personal stuff. We aren't really close, so your openness makes me feel pretty good. I have some questions, though. I understand that your connections practically guaranteed no jail time (besides which, it's hard to prove the corpus delicti without a corpus ), but I don't get how you were never even arrested. Did everybody else in the county hate her, too? Is there a statute of limitation for that kind of thing where you live? Please explain.She signed a contract before we started stating that she doesn't want her dominant to stop until he leaves marks. She doesn't respect men who aren't willing to push her to her limits and physically dominate her. The neighbors didn't know anything about safewords and "impact play", it sounded like a rape to them. I don't blame them for calling the police. (LOL) Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile |
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Posted: 8/14/2011 1:40:45 PM EDT
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Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: HA! A murder is funny? Sorry, but the tape IS funny. I guess you have to like black humor to really appreciate it. You're going to tell me that these lines didn't even bring a half-suppressed smile or chuckle? When Sanchez asked who he had killed, William Dembie replied, "My wife, my ex-wife,” before giving a little laugh. "I don’t have nothing. I’m not, I’m not dangerous. I just couldn’t deal with her shit anymore,” Dembie said. So, Have you ever lost a family member to domestic violence/homicide? It kinda takes the "funny" out of it! No, can't say as I have. If you were related to the victim, then I can understand your grief. I can certainly see how projecting yourself into that scenario would change your perspective. |
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