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Posted: 12/27/2004 4:44:03 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/28/2004 2:00:17 PM EDT by benbob]
I caught my girlfriend of 7 years cheating on me this weekend. I told her she has to leave, she says she needs till Febuary to be able to move her cheating ass out.

WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:45:55 PM EDT
I'd give her 3 days...

No, I'd give her the amount of time it takes you to throw her shit in the hallway.

Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:47:21 PM EDT
Has she been living with you more than 30 days?

If yes, you need to evict her.  If you toss her out on the street it's wrongful eviction and she can sue you.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:47:55 PM EDT
two words...
Ass... street.
You don't need that crap.
She showed yo no repect or compassion by doing that, why should you?
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:47:56 PM EDT
Kick her ass out.

Not now...Right Fucking Now.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:48:00 PM EDT
She's still there?
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:48:28 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Phil_A_Steen:
Has she been living with you more than 30 days?

If yes, you need to evict her.  If you toss her out on the street it's wrongful eviction and she can sue you.



+1 - Make sure you don't get in trouble in the process of getting rid of her.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:48:38 PM EDT
Be careful.  All she has to do is charge you with domestic abuse and you can no longer own guns.  I hope she is not smart enough to figure it out but if she is .....
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:49:00 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter:
She's still there?



She is sitting 10 feet from me and has no clue what I am posting.

Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:49:05 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/27/2004 4:51:11 PM EDT by ktrout01]
Now, no questions asked, no quarter given... once a cheater, always a cheater

ETA  My ex was very lucky that I didn't blow both her and her lover away when I walked in on them. I think the only reason that I didn't was that my kids were in the house. I now have custody and her and her now-husband are due back in court for the latest domestic disturbance.   Throw the bitch out now !!!
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:49:20 PM EDT
Tell her to get her ass over to "His" place if she needs somewhere to sleep. Boot her ass out now.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:49:49 PM EDT
Make her leave, NOW!
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:50:45 PM EDT
Out with today's trash.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:50:56 PM EDT
Can you leave?

If you can just pack your shit and go.

No use getting sued or thrown in the clink over a cheating bitch.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:51:52 PM EDT
Show the BITCH the same consideration that she showed you...

PUT HER ASS ON THE STREET NOW!!!

Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:51:55 PM EDT

Originally Posted By AlreadyThere:
Be careful.  All she has to do is charge you with domestic abuse and you can no longer own guns.  I hope she is not smart enough to figure it out but if she is .....




She isn't very smart.

Property has been decided, she keeps her 1911 and her Beretta.  I keep all my guns and the furniture.

I have a good friend of mine who is ready to move in with me right now, I just need to broom this bitch FAST.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:52:30 PM EDT
OUT
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:52:50 PM EDT
street+ass+pics
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:54:08 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/27/2004 4:55:02 PM EDT by paenutz]

Originally Posted By benbob:

Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter:
She's still there?



She is sitting 10 feet from me and has no clue what I am posting.







Turn the monitor so she can see this.....




HA HA! You got busted!



Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:54:31 PM EDT
7 years?

I doubt in most states you can simply boot her ass to the curb without warning.

Google and find out what the laws are regarding evictions in your state.  Make Goddamn sure that you do NOTHING that she can retaliate for with a DV report or restraining order otherwise your RKBA will be FUCKED.

Good luck!

PS.  Make damn sure she has NO access to any finances or valuables.  You are walking on eggshells here, take every step you can to protect yourself  (and get the cheating cunt out of your life ASAP).
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:54:40 PM EDT
Toss that useless cunt out in the street.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:54:50 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/27/2004 4:55:29 PM EDT by panzersergeant]
She definitely has to go!
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:55:54 PM EDT
I'd put her sorry ass in the wind.....NOW
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:56:15 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/27/2004 5:01:49 PM EDT by M4-CQBR]
Be civil about it, but tell her she has to leave within 2 weeks... unless you plan on forgiving her.
Tell her, just the sight of her makes you uncomfortable in your own home, and that her staying until February is not an option.  
She has done you wrong... But it is true that you can't just throw her in the street today.
You would technically have to evict her if she has been living with you for more than 30 days... unless she doesn't know about her tenant rights that is.
Are you two on the lease together?   Does she have any bills in her name?  
If the answer is yes, I would start the process of removing her from these things immediately.
I would also pretect yourself by not being a jerk or rough with her in any way, verbally or physically. (not that you would, but you have to be real careful)
If she were to call the police and ask them to supervise while she removes her things from the home, she would be able to take whatever and the cops would say, sort it out in court with receipts or proof of ownership.  
Very sticky situation so it is best to try and work it out with her peacefully, but do not let her get the upper hand by taking advantage of the fact you share a home.
If you have things that are yours that you don't want stolen or to turn up in an item for item custody battle...
I would start preparing to move some of those things to a safe location when she is not around & or find the receipts and be ready to prove ownership.
Sure this is a worse case senario and I have no idea where the two of you stand, but I can say from experience that women can turn on you in a second flat, & not think twice about it.

Sorry about the rough days brother!  Take it easy and keep a cool head.


M4-CQBR
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:56:26 PM EDT
Fuck her, she should've thought about how much time she would need to move before she cheated.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:57:00 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/27/2004 4:57:35 PM EDT by 20iner]
let her see this

CHEATING SKANK BITCH! GET THE FUCK OUT
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:58:24 PM EDT
Indiana does not recognize common law marriage, so you are good to go. Give her the boot!
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:59:33 PM EDT

Originally Posted By 20iner:
let her see this

CHEATING SKANK BITCH! GET THE FUCK OUT



That's what the fuck I'm talkin' about!
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 4:59:54 PM EDT
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:00:15 PM EDT

Originally Posted By 20iner:
let her see this

CHEATING SKANK BITCH! GET THE FUCK OUT




I just showed her that. She looks really sad now.

Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:00:26 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/27/2004 5:20:26 PM EDT by tc6969]
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:00:33 PM EDT
if she had someplace to go already, you would have came home to a empty house! BOOT HER ASS OUT NOW!!!!
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:00:45 PM EDT
She's damaged goods , don't fall for any BS like saying it was an accident
or she will change , Because it's a LIE .

People who cheat know full well what they are doing , and will do it again .
It's just a matter of time .

Toss the sleezy bitch
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:02:17 PM EDT
After 7 years?? Isn't she now (legally) your common-law wife? (IANALNDIPOOTV)

Play this one coool......let her stay the thirty days, but in the meantime, call a lawyer and find out your options.

(Q: why can't she move in with him??)

After thirty days, if she hasn't moved out, put her stuff in storage, in her name, and give her the bill and key.

Then ask her to leave. Make sure you have witnesses.

Then shut the door. Permanently.

This person will never be trustworty enough to be even remotely considered a friend.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:02:48 PM EDT
Do you own a house with her, or does she pay rent?  Depending on the situation, I suggest you check to see what a landlord's legal responsibilities are regarding eviction.  Do the minimum required to legally evict her?  She can sue you and force you to let her live there until it is straightened out legally.  I know someone who is in this situation right now.  After two years, the case is still not settled.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:03:00 PM EDT

Originally Posted By panzersergeant:
Indiana does not recognize common law marriage, so you are good to go. Give her the boot!




I'm not sure but I think booting her is a no no.

I wouldn't do it.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:03:28 PM EDT
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:03:44 PM EDT

Originally Posted By chrome1:
She's damaged goods , don't fall for any BS like saying it was an accident
or she will change , Because it's a LIE .

People who cheat know full well what they are doing , and will do it again .
It's just a matter of time .

Toss the sleezy bitch



forgiving her is not an option.

She is gone.  I'm just trying to get rid of her without her freaking out and doing something like call the police.

I'm doing my best to be civil.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:04:20 PM EDT

Originally Posted By dinkydow: *********************************************­*********************************************­*********************************************­*********************************************­*********************************************­*********************
That is just too damn nasty to repeat. . .

Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:05:45 PM EDT
No excuse for her actions. Behavior like that is for wild animals. Turn around and tell her to get the fuck out.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:06:09 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/27/2004 5:21:25 PM EDT by tc6969]

Originally Posted By dinkydow:
www.ar15.com/forums/topic.html?b=1&f=5&t=305565



I just spewed soda and peanuts all over my keyboard over that one!
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:06:44 PM EDT
we rent. the lease is in both of our names.

I just can't stand the thought of having to see any more of her than absolutly needed..
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:07:14 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/27/2004 5:21:52 PM EDT by tc6969]
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:09:42 PM EDT

Originally Posted By benbob:

Originally Posted By 20iner:
let her see this

CHEATING SKANK BITCH! GET THE FUCK OUT




I just showed her that. She looks really sad now.




You seem to be having a bit more
fun with this than I would expect...
If I caught my girlfriend of seven
years cheating, I would not be able
to be in the same room as her, much
less posting on ARFCOM.

YMMV, good luck, dude.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:10:05 PM EDT

Originally Posted By paenutz:

Originally Posted By benbob:

Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter:
She's still there?



She is sitting 10 feet from me and has no clue what I am posting.







Turn the monitor so she can see this.....




HA HA! You got busted!






Now THAT is funny!!

Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:11:04 PM EDT
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:13:41 PM EDT
I threw a girlfriend out once. I started taking her shit and putting it in the front yard. Her dad came to get it, and I wouldn't allow him to come in. I told him to be patient, I'd be sure they got everything. They ended up fighting over how much shit she had.

Kick the bitch to the curb. Do it, don't look back, and you WILL find better.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:13:43 PM EDT

Originally Posted By benbob:

Originally Posted By 20iner:
let her see this

CHEATING SKANK BITCH! GET THE FUCK OUT




I just showed her that. She looks really sad now.




GOOD I hate trecherous women!
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:13:57 PM EDT

Originally Posted By TheCynic:

Originally Posted By benbob:

Originally Posted By 20iner:
let her see this

CHEATING SKANK BITCH! GET THE FUCK OUT




I just showed her that. She looks really sad now.




You seem to be having a bit more
fun with this than I would expect...
If I caught my girlfriend of seven
years cheating, I would not be able
to be in the same room as her, much
less posting on ARFCOM.

YMMV, good luck, dude.




I'm just trying to do the best I can.

She knows how pissed I am.
Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:15:07 PM EDT

Originally Posted By benbob:

Originally Posted By 20iner:
let her see this

CHEATING SKANK BITCH! GET THE FUCK OUT




I just showed her that. She looks really sad now.




Put the guns up! Lockem' down.

Link Posted: 12/27/2004 5:17:32 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter:

Originally Posted By benbob:

Originally Posted By 20iner:
let her see this

CHEATING SKANK BITCH! GET THE FUCK OUT




I just showed her that. She looks really sad now.




Put the guns up! Lockem' down.





+10000000000000000

­Prety soon that "sad" is going to turn into "fine! he never really loved me anyway, I'll show him!"
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