Dear ole Dad may well be right. On the other hand, many people will try to steer you away from flying. The ones that really can hurt you are the ones you look up to. The head flight instructor at one FBO I worked at was the Warden at a large jail. He wanted to help get me a job as a 60 thousand a year guard, instead of a 10,000 a year CFI. I stuck with the flying, and 15 years later, I'm getting paid well and don't have to worry about getting shanked.
Flying for a living ruins you for other work. You are probably already ruined. If you can stand to do another job that pays well, then do it. If not, then tell Dad to stop dispensing advice and start calling his connections.
I tried the AA thing, and was not impressed. The jobs like your Dad's are not coming back, and he knows it.
However, there are more jobs now then ever before, and more opportunities for pilots who want to fly good equipment, and make an upper-middleclass salary. 60-100,000 per year. As I like to say. "It's better then digging ditches"
Joke for dad: What's Black, 12" long and hangs in front of an Asshole?
- The Captains Tie.
(he's heard that one a few times- an oldie, but goodie)
How many pilots does it take to change a lightbulb?
One. He holds the lightbulb, and the world turns around him.