A road construction sign fell off a median into the fast lane (left hand lane) of a 6 lane divided highway. 4 or 5 cars came to a complete stop in front of my son, my son was the last car to come to a full stop in an orderly fashion (no squeeling, skidding, etc.) My son was with his girlfriend, they were both wearing seat belts with shoulder belt, my son was driving. My son looked into the rearview mirror to see a minivan about to slam him at 45-50mph. There were no skid marks. As the minivan struck my sons car, my sons trailer hitch went right through the crumple stuff that would have normally cushioned the hit and contacted the frame of the minivan. Therefore the frame of my son's car bent, pushing the rear end upward on contact. My sons car was lifted and tossed into some relatively minor contact with the vehicle in front of him.
He saw it coming - and tensed. His girlfriend didn't see it coming and had no injuries. Apparently he tensed to take the hit and try to control being thrust forward into the car in front of him. He had no obvious external injuries (blood/broken bones/etc.) The airbags blew on the minivan, and they were taken to the hospital and released later that day. A kid riding passenger in the minivan had a bird in a cage on his lap, and upon impact the cage/airbag sliced up his face pretty good. The bird died. My son did not accept a ride to the hospital but complained of back and neck pain. Considering the blood all over the minivan passengers he felt like he wasn't hurt. But he was. Within a day or two he was flat out on the bed unable to move, started to get headaches, and complained of jaw-ache. He never overstating his injuries by any means, and his improvement has not been complete. This was maybe 3 or 4 years ago. He has some kind of soft tissue injury, however I'm not convinced all that can be done is being done. The docs all seem like their afraid to make any kind of diagnosis like were going to "win" some kind of ridiculous settlement and fuck up thier schedule with some court appearance on my son's behalf. With a 100 grand policy limit, I see no "winnings" here. So far, I see about 20K of medical expenses, a kid on anti-depresants, he sleeps with a "split" in his mouth or wakes with a splitting headache (he cant even cat-nap without it), he has been on all kinds of muscle relaxers and migraine "preventers" and migrane meds. The splits cost over a grand each, and last maybe a year or two before they need to be replaced. He has a nuerologist who seems disconnected from the dental guy. They never did an MRI on his jaw. It was determined shortly after the accident that he had a pre-existing upper spine degenerative issue which was advanced for his age but that only compounds his issues. They say he was an "egg" before the accident, and is a little scrambled now but that's not his fault. The woman who slammed him at 45-50mph is the fault, and my son just wishes it never happened, but it did. The docs are all like in this permenant "wait and see" zone, as he has improved, but the speed of improvement is no longer there, and I see a kid with the lingering effects of the accident. You know for a fact he will pay inflated health insurance premiums and/or deal with pre-existing clauses till the day he dies. In the meantime, he sleeps with a sexy splint in his mouth, is on anti-depressants, and misses a day or three each month with an all day headache. He takes all of this well to the point where he forgets what the accident has done to him. If he misses a day of work due to a headache, he gets a substitute and schedules himself to work on some time when he was supposed to be off. He used to ride cycles and quads with the rest of the boys, but now he rides for a while and has to stop, while everyone else rides all day.
He's a great kid. Handsome (like me), honor roll in H.S. - now going to college on a scholarship and working as much as he can at a restaurant where he has held the job for 4 maybe 5 years. His girlfriend is excellent - cute, smart (honor roll/scholarship as well), and has given him an appropriate amount of religion to live by. They have been together about 5 years now. He is 20.
I would like to have him back as he was. Since I can't seem to accomplish that, I would like to see him get as well as he can. Beyond that, he needs to be reimbursed for a lifetime of headaches and jawaches he never had before, and the costs of dealking with this shit. I really don't think a 100 grand is going to do it any justice, especially after the lawyers cut and expenses.
Whatever - I'd like to see an MRI with an issue, and then address that issue to get him in a better comfort zone. At this point I see less than perfect medical stuff, but who knows with internal stuff. I've even gotten into a arguement with a dentist - but thats an entirely different story.