Lawndart, what if your kid came home and told you he had a car crash, his fault, and killed another driver becuase he was speeding?
It would suck to be both parties involved.
I snowboard about 75-80 days a year. In fact, Im heading out right now. Not one day goes by when I felt the mountain was a safe place. At 40mph, you don't have much reaction time. Sometimes the party you hit is at fault. I have hit some big jump and gone about 15 feet in the air, spotted my landing to find a kid hanging out on the landing ramp. Am I to blame...nope. Theres just people who are stupid, and people with brains. Im guessing both are the later.
So where do you call the line? I agree that the dead person will alway pay more than the person commiting the impact, but its a very grey area.