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NC, USA
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:14:56 AM EDT
you dodged a bullet
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:15:25 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 3/17/2011 9:16:54 AM EDT by Oakley]
 ETA: This is a good for you. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:15:51 AM EDT
She did you a favor. Twenty is way to young to get married, let her whore her self out for awhile. In the mean time you get your shit together, maybe join the military and then meet a woman that is worthy of marrying.
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:15:56 AM EDT
Goddam, dude.
You are too young for that kind of bullshit. Be glad she said no. Get your financial house in order and move on. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:16:17 AM EDT
Originally Posted By 69cutlass:
you dodged a bullet Yep. Better to get rid of her now instead of 5 years from now when kids may be involved. Good luck. |
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MN, USA
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:16:39 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 3/17/2011 9:19:49 AM EDT by SultanOfBrunei]
Dude... really.
1) break the lease, don't pay that shit for another fucking year. Especially if you are not living there. 2) Why the fuck would you give her your car that you are paying off? WHAT IN THE FUCK>!>?! 3) you "broke up" but you were still living together, sleeping in the same bed, saying I love you and fucking? WTF, get the fuck away from this woman. Someone needs to tell you these things, and help you get your shit on track. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:16:47 AM EDT
Time to move on, in all honesty. You're not the only one to get played. Won't be the last, either.
Sounds like a good time to go camping/fishing, to me. Or, something else that you may enjoy. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:16:58 AM EDT
now i feel guilty.
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:17:10 AM EDT
You need to examine yourself as to why you would be willing to settle down with a whore. Seriously.
Unless you actually signed the title over to her on the car, take it and GTFO of the situation. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:17:21 AM EDT
Stay away from alcohol, and get your mind on track. Fuck her. Get your shit together and live life.
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:17:41 AM EDT
Originally Posted By 69cutlass:
you dodged a bullet First post and all that |
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NY, USA
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:17:50 AM EDT
what all the guys above me said. I know is hurts now, but you are much better off.
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:18:08 AM EDT
Lucky you. Pretty stupid to ask that one to marry you, in the first place.
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:18:27 AM EDT
Originally Posted By cyrus-the-virus:
.... I decided that I would "forgive and forget" and propose as a last ditch effort to save "us". I hope I don't sound like an asshole, but I am VERY HAPPY for you that she said "no." She did you a huge favor, and what you describe above was a terrible mistake on your part, and you are fortunate it didn't work. Still, sorry about the heartache. My condolences. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:18:35 AM EDT
Originally Posted By cyrus-the-virus:
Well, I did it. I bought a diamond and proposed to my ex-SO. She said no.She's not ready to settle down yes apparently. After a little digging I came to find out that she has kissed 11 other males since summer time and slept with at least 3, but most likely more than that. We had "broken up" during the summer, but still slept in the same bed, said I love you, and fucked. I thought things were going good. I found out about the kissing, about 3 weeks ago when she slipped. then shortly there after the fucking of other males. I decided that I would "forgive and forget" and propose as a last ditch effort to save "us". The last 8 months of my life have been a lie. I can't believe I was so trusting. I can't believe that I didn't catch on sooner. We had gotten an apartment together along with her brother. I can't stay there, I can't call it my "home" anymore. A home is supposed to be a mans castle, his defenses against the outside world. A place where he can get away from the outside world. I'm going to continue to pay the rent until the lease is up(January). I gave her my '98 Chevy lumina so that she has transportation. I'm still paying it off. So here I am. Homeless, buzzed, and angry. She say's she still loves me, and can see herself spending the rest of her life with me. But she's not ready to settle down. If she want's to be a whore and end up like her mother(fat, mentally ill, welfare queen) fine. She can go around and whore herself out to her hearts content. I don't give a fuck, For some reason my face is leaking. Does anyone know how to fix a head gasket? Do I need some special tools? I also seem to have this deep pain in my chest that won't go away. I hope I'm not having a heart attack because I'm only 20. Seems a little early. in before people call me an idiot for proposing, giving her my car, and continuing to pay rent. Dude, go pick up your car. STOP THE RENT CHECKS. She doesn't love you. Get on with your life. Pick yourself up, set down the bottle and go do something fun. DO NOT continiue to piss away money on this person. You can thank me later. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:18:41 AM EDT
Lucky...
It wouldn't last if you did get married. "Forgive and forget" - Yea, right... lol That would stay in the back of your mind and things could never be exactly the same. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:18:48 AM EDT
You have a lot of growing up to do. Your judgement will hopefully get better as you get older. Before it gets you into some real lifelong trouble.
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:19:00 AM EDT
If there ever was a need for eject visuals, it would be now.
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:19:19 AM EDT
looks like you herp'd when you should have derp'd...
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:19:19 AM EDT
20 heartbroken and buzzed. Brother, I will say this once. Your too young to take any womans shit and you got off cheap.
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:19:20 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 3/17/2011 9:21:12 AM EDT by cyrus-the-virus]
Originally Posted By larkinmusic:
She did you a favor. Twenty is way to young to get married, let her whore her self out for awhile. In the mean time you get your shit together, maybe join the military and then meet a woman that is worthy of marrying. would love to. I wanted to serve my country long before I met her. I can't because I'm a highschool fuck up and only have my GED. Also, the 2 beers that I had are a one time thing. I don't drink. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:19:22 AM EDT
get your car back and take your name off the lease...get your own place.
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:19:30 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 3/17/2011 9:20:34 AM EDT by Chromekilla]
Wow bud you always really fucked yourself in more ways than you know. Marriage does not equal saving a relationship. People have this unicorn like view of marriage and its not the case. Hell, I've never even been married and I realize that people view it that way. I know what marriage is and what its not. On an aside this chick does not sound like marriage material, if she wants to be passed around like the neighborhood basketball then you want no part of it. Also get tested for STDS especially HPV this is sometimes how guys get it, monogamous relationship thinks he don't have to use a condom, chicks side stepping with another guy or guys without a condom and the guy gets it too.
I guess this solves my thread question of yesterday.... 
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:19:40 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 3/17/2011 9:20:59 AM EDT by David_ESM]
Originally Posted By cyrus-the-virus: Well, I did it. I bought a diamond and proposed to my ex-SO. She said no.She's not ready to settle down yes apparently. After a little digging I came to find out that she has kissed 11 other males since summer time and slept with at least 3, but most likely more than that. We had "broken up" during the summer, but still slept in the same bed, said I love you, and fucked. I thought things were going good. I found out about the kissing, about 3 weeks ago when she slipped. then shortly there after the fucking of other males. I decided that I would "forgive and forget" and propose as a last ditch effort to save "us". The last 8 months of my life have been a lie. I can't believe I was so trusting. I can't believe that I didn't catch on sooner. We had gotten an apartment together along with her brother. I can't stay there, I can't call it my "home" anymore. A home is supposed to be a mans castle, his defenses against the outside world. A place where he can get away from the outside world. I'm going to continue to pay the rent until the lease is up(January). I gave her my '98 Chevy lumina so that she has transportation. I'm still paying it off. So here I am. Homeless, buzzed, and angry. She say's she still loves me, and can see herself spending the rest of her life with me. But she's not ready to settle down. If she want's to be a whore and end up like her mother(fat, mentally ill, welfare queen) fine. She can go around and whore herself out to her hearts content. I don't give a fuck, For some reason my face is leaking. Does anyone know how to fix a head gasket? Do I need some special tools? I also seem to have this deep pain in my chest that won't go away. I hope I'm not having a heart attack because I'm only 20. Seems a little early. in before people call me an idiot for proposing, giving her my car, and continuing to pay rent. You need help... Seriously. A normal person doesn't break up with someone and then continue to fuck, live together, and sleep together like normal. A normal person does not decide to get engaged to stop their SO from cheating. A normal person does not give their cheating SO their car and continue to pay for it after leaving. A normal person does not pay rent for a place they don't stay at. Get your damn car back and seek some help. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:19:43 AM EDT
Originally Posted By cyrus-the-virus:
Originally Posted By larkinmusic:
She did you a favor. Twenty is way to young to get married, let her whore her self out for awhile. In the mean time you get your shit together, maybe join the military and then meet a woman that is worthy of marrying. would love to. I wanted to serve my country long before I met her. I can't because I'm a highschool fuck up and only have my GED. There's an easy way around that... |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:20:06 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 3/17/2011 9:20:57 AM EDT by Lester_Burnham]
Originally Posted By cyrus-the-virus: Well, I did it. I bought a diamond and proposed to my ex-SO. She said no.She's not ready to settle down yes apparently. After a little digging I came to find out that she has kissed 11 other males since summer time and slept with at least 3, but most likely more than that. We had "broken up" during the summer, but still slept in the same bed, said I love you, and fucked. I thought things were going good. I found out about the kissing, about 3 weeks ago when she slipped. then shortly there after the fucking of other males. I decided that I would "forgive and forget" and propose as a last ditch effort to save "us". The last 8 months of my life have been a lie. I can't believe I was so trusting. I can't believe that I didn't catch on sooner. We had gotten an apartment together along with her brother. I can't stay there, I can't call it my "home" anymore. A home is supposed to be a mans castle, his defenses against the outside world. A place where he can get away from the outside world. I'm going to continue to pay the rent until the lease is up(January). I gave her my '98 Chevy lumina so that she has transportation. I'm still paying it off. So here I am. Homeless, buzzed, and angry. She say's she still loves me, and can see herself spending the rest of her life with me. But she's not ready to settle down. If she want's to be a whore and end up like her mother(fat, mentally ill, welfare queen) fine. She can go around and whore herself out to her hearts content. I don't give a fuck, For some reason my face is leaking. Does anyone know how to fix a head gasket? Do I need some special tools? I also seem to have this deep pain in my chest that won't go away. I hope I'm not having a heart attack because I'm only 20. Seems a little early. in before people call me an idiot for proposing, giving her my car, and continuing to pay rent. I understand that you care about this girl and are very upset, but I sure as hell wouldn't pay rent for the next ~10 months for a place you're not living, or give her a car you still owe money on. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:20:08 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 3/17/2011 9:20:57 AM EDT by Monkey_Wrench]
Shit bro, sorry to hear. Sounds like you got the better end of the deal though.
Good man for walking away like you did. Don't look back. Don't think about what could have been. Start looking forward. And that headgasket leaking is just a temporary thing. It will stop leaking soon, and be stronger. eta...get off that lease, ASAP. She can ruin whatever credit you have.... |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:20:10 AM EDT
Originally Posted By cyrus-the-virus:
Well, I did it. I bought a diamond and proposed to my ex-SO. She said no.She's not ready to settle down yes apparently. After a little digging I came to find out that she has kissed 11 other males since summer time and slept with at least 3, but most likely more than that. We had "broken up" during the summer, but still slept in the same bed, said I love you, and fucked. I thought things were going good. I found out about the kissing, about 3 weeks ago when she slipped. then shortly there after the fucking of other males. I decided that I would "forgive and forget" and propose as a last ditch effort to save "us". The last 8 months of my life have been a lie. I can't believe I was so trusting. I can't believe that I didn't catch on sooner. We had gotten an apartment together along with her brother. I can't stay there, I can't call it my "home" anymore. A home is supposed to be a mans castle, his defenses against the outside world. A place where he can get away from the outside world. I'm going to continue to pay the rent until the lease is up(January). I gave her my '98 Chevy lumina so that she has transportation. I'm still paying it off. So here I am. Homeless, buzzed, and angry. She say's she still loves me, and can see herself spending the rest of her life with me. But she's not ready to settle down. If she want's to be a whore and end up like her mother(fat, mentally ill, welfare queen) fine. She can go around and whore herself out to her hearts content. I don't give a fuck, For some reason my face is leaking. Does anyone know how to fix a head gasket? Do I need some special tools? I also seem to have this deep pain in my chest that won't go away. I hope I'm not having a heart attack because I'm only 20. Seems a little early. in before people call me an idiot for proposing, giving her my car, and continuing to pay rent. in red.....huge mistake.....huge...... it should have been the eject sign but instead you strap in!!!! |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:20:11 AM EDT
To be young and stupid again.
 Here's a bit of advice. Proposing in not a way to save a relationship. Sorry for your troubles but you will be better off in the long run. |
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USA
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:20:13 AM EDT
She did you a favor bro. Go and enjoy your life. Settle down in a decade.
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:20:14 AM EDT
Pics?
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:20:15 AM EDT
Funny how often I read threads like this and continue to wonder why people never learn or can't spot the warning signs.
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:20:19 AM EDT
Originally Posted By larkinmusic:
She did you a favor. Twenty is way to young to get married, let her whore her self out for awhile. In the mean time you get your shit together, maybe join the military and then meet a woman that is worthy of marrying. This +100 |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:21:33 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 3/17/2011 9:22:30 AM EDT by California_Kid]
You are a very lucky young man. Her refusal will turn out to be one of the best things that ever happened to you, and one of the best learning experiences. You've learned some important danger signals to watch out for in the future.
Sober up, get some exercise, take some time to smell the roses. You'll feel better soon. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:22:06 AM EDT
Originally Posted By ptmccain: Lucky you. Pretty stupid to ask that one to marry you, in the first place. +1 Not a good choice. A lot of young men make the "marry her to keep her" mistake, and it almost always ends in disaster. Get out, grow up, move on. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:22:09 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 3/17/2011 9:24:59 AM EDT by theliberating1]
Get everything of yours from her and stop paying rent, unless your name is on the lease. If it is, kick her out and get some other roommates.
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GA, USA
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:22:46 AM EDT
Yeah sounds like it was for the best man, time to move on.
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:22:48 AM EDT
You need to sever all ties and not look back. Get your car and stop paying the rent. It hurts now but will get better. Move on.
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MN, USA
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:22:53 AM EDT
Originally Posted By cyrus-the-virus:
Originally Posted By larkinmusic:
She did you a favor. Twenty is way to young to get married, let her whore her self out for awhile. In the mean time you get your shit together, maybe join the military and then meet a woman that is worthy of marrying. would love to. I wanted to serve my country long before I met her. I can't because I'm a highschool fuck up and only have my GED. Also, the 2 beers that I had are a one time thing. I don't drink. There are many things you shouldn't do *just* because a woman cheated on you. Here are two: 1) Don't ask her to marry you. 2) Don't run off and join the military. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:23:05 AM EDT
Move on, completely.
Pay nothing more to her. Not one penny. She did you the best thing to you by saying no and revealing her true being. Some day you will look at this time and not go, "Damn, I was heart broken.." but rather with a sense of. "Wow, I am so glad that didn't happen, life would suck forever if it did!". Congrats. Now go find some new 20 year old girl(S) to give your attention to.... 
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:23:12 AM EDT
Cut all ties and stop paying for shit. Take your name off the lease and get the car payments transfered to her. Then go to the bar and pick up a hot cougar. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:23:19 AM EDT
Originally Posted By cyrus-the-virus:
Originally Posted By larkinmusic:
She did you a favor. Twenty is way to young to get married, let her whore her self out for awhile. In the mean time you get your shit together, maybe join the military and then meet a woman that is worthy of marrying. would love to. I wanted to serve my country long before I met her. I can't because I'm a highschool fuck up and only have my GED. Also, the 2 beers that I had are a one time thing. I don't drink. Did you try the Marines? |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:23:48 AM EDT
Originally Posted By Lester_Burnham:
Originally Posted By cyrus-the-virus:
Well, I did it. I bought a diamond and proposed to my ex-SO. She said no.She's not ready to settle down yes apparently. After a little digging I came to find out that she has kissed 11 other males since summer time and slept with at least 3, but most likely more than that. We had "broken up" during the summer, but still slept in the same bed, said I love you, and fucked. I thought things were going good. I found out about the kissing, about 3 weeks ago when she slipped. then shortly there after the fucking of other males. I decided that I would "forgive and forget" and propose as a last ditch effort to save "us". The last 8 months of my life have been a lie. I can't believe I was so trusting. I can't believe that I didn't catch on sooner. We had gotten an apartment together along with her brother. I can't stay there, I can't call it my "home" anymore. A home is supposed to be a mans castle, his defenses against the outside world. A place where he can get away from the outside world. I'm going to continue to pay the rent until the lease is up(January). I gave her my '98 Chevy lumina so that she has transportation. I'm still paying it off. So here I am. Homeless, buzzed, and angry. She say's she still loves me, and can see herself spending the rest of her life with me. But she's not ready to settle down. If she want's to be a whore and end up like her mother(fat, mentally ill, welfare queen) fine. She can go around and whore herself out to her hearts content. I don't give a fuck, For some reason my face is leaking. Does anyone know how to fix a head gasket? Do I need some special tools? I also seem to have this deep pain in my chest that won't go away. I hope I'm not having a heart attack because I'm only 20. Seems a little early. in before people call me an idiot for proposing, giving her my car, and continuing to pay rent. I understand that you care about this girl and are very upset, but I sure as hell wouldn't pay rent for the next ~10 months for a place you're not living, or give her a car you still owe money on. It's not just her. I like her brother, he's an awesome kid. Nothing like her. I gave her the car and am paying the rent so that he does not fuck up his future. He's only a jr in HS and he's been accepted by colleges. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:23:53 AM EDT
Cut her out of your life completely.
Seriously. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:24:52 AM EDT
so you have been kissing 11 other penises since summer?
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:24:55 AM EDT
Also, I want to see a pic of this chick that made you lose your fucking mind.
She had better be absurdly hot, then we can give you some leeway for nearly throwing your life and money away so recklessly. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:25:04 AM EDT
Your friends need their asses kicked for not bitch slapping your pussy whipped ass.
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:25:14 AM EDT
Originally Posted By Combat_Jack:
Goddam, dude. You are too young for that kind of bullshit. Be glad she said no. Get your financial house in order and move on. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:25:21 AM EDT
Think you got love in your sights?
Watch out. Love bites. Sorry that shit happened to you, OP. Use it as a stepping stone to something better. You learned stuff. |
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Posted: 3/17/2011 9:25:26 AM EDT
20 YEARS OLD!!!! and your thinking of getting hitched...... she did you a favor.....
what you need my friend is another vagina. find yourself someone else. your not an idiot your ––-whooped stop enabling her.......... she is taking advantage of you. |
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