Since you already have a thread started - we'll let this run it's course here and see how it goes.
For everyone else, and in the future; stuff like this can be (and very frequently is) handled behind the larger scene through IMs, Emails, phone calls, etc. You can click the yellow triangle for the Feedback Forum and contact any of the EE mods for help with stuff like this. We do a lot of work that nobody hears about.
OP - it sounds like you are doing the good thing by protecting your good name and word, although as others have said it may be a little early for this step. That said, we (the entire community) would always rather see someone try hard to use the EE with honor for their own word and respect for all of the other members.