And now for my side of the story
On September 25 I sent my payment address via email to Jamesindenver and didnt think twice about it
On October 4 he asks if I received the MO
On October 5 I wrote him a one line email that said "I have not seen hide nor hair of it, track it and let me know what you find out"
On October 6 he repies back stating that he will and let me know what he finds out
On October 20 I sent an emai asking for an update on the status
On October 22 he emails back and says he has not got to the PO yet to track it but that it will cost him $5.50 to do so
On October 26 he tell me he has paid to have it searched
On October 29 he sends me a email with a photo of the retuned envelope when I opened the attachment I saw what had happend. I had wrote the address of my previous PO box. I had to go back and check the email I had replied to 3 time to see that I was the dumbass that caused this mess
On October 29 I wrote him back apologizing for being such a stupid SOB and I offered, If he would resend the MO to the correct address, that I would tuck 5.50 to cover the cost of having the MO search by the post office
On November 9 he put the MO back in the mail to the correct address
On November 17 I shipped the adapter along with 5.50 cash to the address he gave me
On November 20 it was delivered
At the begnning of this deal I did not really see a need to harrass him about the status of the payment I figured I would give it a month or so and take it up in the feedback forum. It is just my opinion but I dont get too excited about "check is in the mail" until it hits my hands. But after finding that this whole situations was my fault I felt pretty bad (and dumb) so I had to make it right (as much as I could anyway).
Thanks for the patience Jamesindenver and sorry again