Hi all, just saw this post and thought I'd add my own info to it so nobody's left to assume anything.
First things first.
My name is Joe. I don't normally sign my full name on casual/informal email, but for the record it's;
Joseph M. Scott
I also don't include my phone number on casual/informal email, but for the record it's:
I don't understand how a PO Box would be a "red flag". If you go to the sight TigerStripe gave to AIM and click on Info, you'll see that they use a PO Box too!
INFACT, the Post Office advised me to use the PO Box when accepting funds from people off the Internet.
They explained that by having a PO Box INSIDE the Post Office you signifigantly reduce the possibility of mail theft and that it protects your privacy from people who have no business knowing where your home is.
I have a GREAT reputation on Ebay and can provide tons of references if anyone EVER wants them.