The trigger guard isn't a huge deal, and maybe not even a big deal. Desert01 has a lot of experienece with the 500 in .mil service and is still very involved with Big Army on the platform. He's said that they never had a problem with the plastic units. The metal one would give you some insurance/peace of mind though.
The metal safety would be an upgrade that I would do on any 500/590. The plastic ones do have problems, and have broken with heavy use. If you don't use your shotgun a lot or run the risk of banging it around, then don't worry about it. The metal backing plate helps a lot, but I've seen a couple of safeties that cracked when they were hit hard, and I've seen several 500s that had the recess wear enough on the plastic safeties with the metal backing plate that the safety would re-engage after firing.