I don't load Rem brass in my 6.8, but annealing may be the answer with it.
I do SSA and SSA made ( rebranded ) and Hornady only. Still saving enough Hornady to use for Match brass or something in a small batch, but with SSA I personally have a batch of 50 cases I've used for load development that I've loaded 9 times, from mid book to several grains over book max and have yet to have a neck split without annealing.
I did have a batch of SSA cases I loaded have a split up the the body, but, that was traced back to setting the shoulder back too far when I first switched from a RCBS RC press to a Hornady. I caught it during load redevelopment and fixed it. No problems since.
I use RCBS SB dies, and Frankford Arsenal spray lube.
My method is to take 100 cases outside sitting in loading blocks made from the plastic trays from 45acp pistol ammo , with 100 in a bag inside, spray a squirt in the die, go outside and spray the cases all around, from every angle. Bring them in and let them sit a minute.
Put a lubed one in and size it, the pull one from the dry bag and size it, and back and forth. It keeps from denting the cases and you'll never stick one. Smooth as silk.